Phnom Penh report - June

[a447]

After arriving in Phnom Penh late yesterday afternoon I quickly rushed off to Hatha Khmer massage. I wasn't expecting to see Mr Bubble-butt, as I didn't tell him I was coming - I accidentally deleted him from Line and so had no way of contacting him.

I went and sat down at the bar and looked for him but he was nowhere in sight. So I peeked into the room where all the boys line up for selection. My God, they have some handsome guys working there! I could have chosen just about any of them. Of the 20 or so boys, at least 7 were absolutely gorgeous, and the rest were very attractive. Only one guy had a face like a dropped pie. He was fully dressed, so either he had just had a customer ( unlikely) or he'd given up trying.

There was a farang sitting at the bar waiting for his friend to come out. When he did, he was accompanied by a hunky, masculine guy with the most beautiful smile. OMG! Where do they find these guys? Mind you, I've always considered Cambodians to be especially good-looking. There appear to be lots of new guys working there now.

Number 20 caught my eye. He flashed me a smile and waved at me. He's the one! I called him over and asked if I could fuck him and whether he could fuck me.

"Sure! No probrem!"

He asked me if I wanted a massage first or if I'd rather get straight down to business. I opted for a massage, but just a short one. Surprisingly, he turned out to be quite skilled. He placed his cock on my foot as he massaged my leg and laughed when I started tickling his balls with my toes. He then stuck his cock between my butt cheeks as he worked on my shoulders.

He turned me over and out was straight down to business. He started off with a blow job, getting down between my legs so he could look up at me. But I wanted to get my hands on his butt, so we moved into the 69 position. This is when things started to get a bit strange.

I tried to open his butt cheeks but he seemed to resist, clenching them tight together. I then tried to slip a finger in between them but again, he didn't seem all that cooperative.

"Ok. I'll fuck you now."
"I fuck you?"
"No, I want to fuck you#"
"Me fuck you?"
"No! no! I fuck you!"
"Ok. You fuck you."

WTF?? Is it really that difficult to get get a simple message across?? I know his English is poor, but surely he's heard all that stuff before.

So I grabbed a condom and put it on. Surely that should give him an idea of who was fucking who. He used 3 sachets of lube (!) and then tried to sit on my cock. All that lube started running down my cock, all over my balls and onto the sheet. Yuk!

But no matter how hard we tried, it wasn't going in. I tried to loosen him up with a finger, but he resisted. Mmmm..is this guy really a bottom?

We tried missionary style and I actually managed to enter - but not very far. He then arched his back, which made the task impossible. So I motioned to him to get into the doggy position, but he just sort of squatted. No matter how hard I tried to get him to get down on all fours, he resisted. In the end, I just gave up.

He ripped off my condom and gave me another exquisite blowjob, and then I decided it was time for him to fuck me. But there was a problem - he couldn't get it up. So out comes the mobile phone and he got hard, Thai style. And get this - he placed the phone on my chest as he fucked me, so he could continue watching his porn movie!....lol. If was hilarious.

Every now and then he would lean down and kiss me, which have me the opportunity to grasp his beautiful butt cheeks and caress his body.

When his cock slipped out, I decided enough was enough and he finished me off with a blowjob.

There was something missing in the whole experience - cock size being one thing. His cock is just average size and as a bottom, I want something substantially bigger. I want Thai size.

I went outside to pay and who should rush up to greet me but Mr Bubble-butt! He told me he been out eating. Yeah, right!

But I've lined him up for tonight. Shame, really, as that's are so many other guys there I'd like to try.

Then off to Space Bar. Earlier in the day the manager of the bar and a couple of his boys were at my hotel, enjoying a swim and a bottle of Verve. The manager told me one of the waiters had had a very bad motorcycle accident. He was still in hospital after 2 months and 2 operations. Apparently, he was riding drunk and without a helmet. When will they ever learn??

I had a bit of trouble finding the bar, as there's a lot of building going on and the bar sign had disappeared. When I got there I saw that quite a few alterations had been done. The outside areas, which was quite small, had now been cut in half and most of the tables were now inside the bar, making things very cramped.

Virat saw me and rushed up to hug me and have a grope. At that stage there were only 4 customers so he sat down with me and chatted. At one stage he stood up in front of me and put my hand on his butt. Wow! I could thoroughly enjoy the experience through those thin Khmer pants.

He said he wanted to sleep with me but I was too tired after all the travelling and there was no way I could stay awake until the bar closed. And in any case, I'm still of two minds whether or not to sleep with him, but I don't know why.

But after about 10 minutes, large groups started coming in and all of a sudden, it was standing room only. I counted over 50 people in that small area. So it was goodbye Virat, as he spent all his time mixing cocktails behind the bar. I left at 10:30.

But from now on the bar should be less crowded and that will give us lots of time to get re-aquainted.

[a447]

Mr Bubble-butt was standing by the bar waiting for me. We sat down for a drink and a chat. There was no mention of the scooter but he did hint at something else. I think he'll start applying pressure on me to pay for his schooling. He told me he doesn't like his job - really?? - and that he was only working so that he could pay his school fees. With that, I suggested we go inside and get down to business.

As per usual, he came out of the shower and pounced on top of me. He started kissing me all over while I grabbed his gorgeous butt. We then got into the 69 position so I could fully appreciate what I was paying for. I could have stayed in that position forever. I loosened his hole up with a finger and then got down to work.

He asked me if he could sit on it. Sure. No problem. He lowered himself slowly onto my cock but stopped halfway. I watched him roll his eyes skywards as he lowered himself down completely.

Determined to make up for the previous night's disappointment, I sat up and gently pushed him down into the missionary position and let him have it. We normally go from missionary to the side position and then doggy, but we didn't make it to the last position as I was completely exhausted.

We lay together for a while, hugging and kissing and then it was his turn to top me. This guy has amazing stamina and can fuck till the cows come home. Every now and then he would lean down and kiss my neck or nibble on my ear. He then put his hand on my shoulders and closed his eyes. Ok, here it comes! He slammed away as hard and as fast as he could. I'm sure the guys outside could hear the sound of him slapping against my arse, but who cares? After all, we're in a brothel and I'm sure it's a sound they hear every day.

After I'd thrown in the towel he lay beside me to jack off. I reckon it took him a good 20 minutes to cum. His cumshot was less than spectacular. Oh, well....you can't have it all. He then finished me off with a hand job.

So that's what I get with my money at Hatha. An incredibly cute guy with an incredibly cute butt, the chance to top him and for him to top me, a chuck wow show, a blowjob and a hand job. Who's complaining? Not me!

When I entered Space Bar I was the only customer. Virat was busy fixing up the lighting so a new guy came and sat with me. He was simply adorable! And enough English to allow a decent conversation. Javier, the owner, has the right formula - he knows what we want ; handsome young guys who are very friendly and not at all pushy.

Javier turned up and gave me the bar news. The guy who had the motorcycle accident was Visa, the star of the bar! The incredibly handsome guy! He's still in intensive care.

Virat then came and sat with me and we were soon joined by three French guys. One of them had his stunning Khmer boyfriend in tow. After a few vodkas it was on for young and old. Everyone was going for the grope and the guy with the boyfriend was attacked mercilessly...lol. One of his friends tickled him while the other ripped off his t-shirt. Virat grabbed his cock. This want on all night. Even the boyfriend, who was very shy at the beginning, loosened up completely after a few drinks and was in on the action.

One of the French guys told me he was top only. He took a shine to the big manly waiter and wanted to take him back to the hotel. I told him the waiter was also top only. He then turned to him and said :" If my cock is bigger than yours, I fuck you. If yours is bigger than mine, you can fuck me." So much for being top only! At the end of the evening the French guy left alone. I asked the waiter why he didn't go with him. He told me that they'd only just met and he didn't know him well enough. But he also said he thought the Frenchman had the bigger cock and he wasn't willing to bottom. I can vouch for the size of the Frenchman 's cock. At one stage he stood next to me and let Virat have a feel. Virat kindly took my hand and put it on the guy's cock. And yes, I think the waiter had a point!

After the Frenchmen left - they actually paid my bill for me! - Virat and I sat alone and enjoyed some...err..."quality time" together. He wanted to come back to the hotel with me but again, I said no. Maybe tonight.

[a447]

I got it wrong. If wasnt about school fees at all.

As I went to sit down at the bar he gently nudged me off my chair and onto the next one along. I found myself sitting right in front of a Macbook Pro notebook computer.

"I can't sit here. Someone is already here."
"It ok. Can sit. So, what you think?"
"Think of what?"
"This belong my friend. He want to sell to me. Only $500."
"Really?"
"Yes, I can use in my study. But I no have $500."
"Tough titties!"
"What you say?"
"I said, that's a shame."

There was an awkward moment of silence.

Than he boldly asked me :"Can you buy for me?"

I boldly told him "No."

We went immediately to the room. On the way he told me he couldn't fuck me tonight but I could fuck him. Was this some kind of retribution? Actually, I don't think so. He had just finished with another customer, I'd say.

After we fuck, he always finishes off with a wank, but not tonight.

"Sorry, cannot cum tonight. But tomorrow ok."

I decided to pay him less than usual - less service, less money. But he looked very "unamused" as the Queen would say - not as "unamused" as me - so I caved in and gave him the usual amount. But I told him he would be getting less next time if he can't perform.

We finished early so I went outside to sit at the bar and wait for my tuk-tuk. And who should I bump into but Rachid, one of the French guys I'd meet at Space Bar the previous night. He had had his massage and was waiting for his friend, Fabrice, to finish.

I ran into them later at the bar. They weren't impressed with Hatha. Neither got to fuck, as the boys refused because their cocks were too big. Now, I don't know about Rachid, but I know Fabrice is hung like a donkey as I got a feel the night before. Very impressive!

I told them that the Asian boys do, in fact, sometimes see the size and refuse. Fabrice told me it had never happened before in his 10 years of fucking his way around Asia. So maybe it had something to do with the money they offered. Fabrice has worked for 10 years in Shanghai for L'Or├йal and has 2 Chinese boyfriends and he says they don't have a problem with his cock. And come to think of it, I don't have a problem accommodating the monster cock of my friend in Pattaya. So, who knows?

It was a lot quieter in the bar last night, especially for me as Virat had a night off. A cute, but very effeminate boy clung to me all night and I just couldn't get rid of him, even after I'd changed seats. All night I got the old cliches - you nice man, you handsome man, I like you....yada yada.

A new customer came to the rescue - at least I thought he did. But no. He just went on and on about himself and bored me to tears. I got every bit of info about his family, his boyfriends, his trips, etc. I woke up 10 minutes later and he was still banging on. He then proceeded to tell me about Asian guy culture and how I didn't understand Asians...lol.

As I was about to get up, the gorgeous boyfriend of the owner came and sat next to me. He started telling me all about gay life in Cambodia and how guys don't identify as guy or hetero; they just enjoy fucking - with anyone. A bit like Thailand.

Bit, unfortunately, I had to cut the conversation short and leave. I still had the waiter clinging to me and continually talking to me as I was trying to listen, plus the other guy was now pissed to the eyeballs and kept bringing the conversation back to himself and his boring life. I can't stand blabbering drunks!

Hopefully, Virat will be back on board tonight.

[christianpfc]

Thank you very much for your detailed reports.

For an opposing point of view: when I was in Phnom Penh in July 2015, I was totally unimpressed with choice of boys at massage and bar.

For an opposing point of view: when I was in Phnom Penh in July 2015, I was totally unimpressed with choice of boys at massage and bar.
Some people are easily pleased

[Brad the Impala]

Some people are easily pleased

And some people just imagine it.

[a447]

Christian, there's a lot more choice now and the place is crawling with lots of stunning new boys. The French guys I ran into there told me they'd been to Hero massage the previous night but were unimpressed with the selection of guys. They were very happy with the Hatha boys. They have someone for everyone, from masculine guys with swimmers bodies to very cute twinks - and everything in between. And they all have one thing in common - that beautiful Cambodian smile. Plus, they are super friendly. The fact that I've seen more customers there this visit than all the other trips combined -well, almost - suggests they are doing something right.i would be happy to go with just about of them, which is not the case for me in Thailand. Then again, I can't recall ever going to a massage joint in Thailand where they had so many guys to choose from. And even then, there are usually only one or two I find attractive. At Hatha, any customer now would be like a kid in candy store. So much so that I'd be happy to swap Mr BB for another guy. (btw, he's now number 40). And that's saying something! So maybe you shouldn't judge the place from a previous visit.

Last night there was no talk of the notebook computer; in fact, there was no pressure to buy him anything! As a member here pointed out to me, the poor guy heads of to work every night hoping to find a sugar daddy. And that's certainly not me. But when you do the maths, he really doesn't need a sugar daddy. Up until the new crop of boys, he was the most attractive guy there and would have had heaps of customers. He starts work at 2:30 and finishes at midnight and in his heyday he would have had at least 4 customers per day. That's a conservative estimate. So at $25 a pop, he was on $700 a week. That's an absolute fortune in Cambodia, especially for someone in their twenties. Because of the competition he now faces, I'm guessing he's lost a bit of income, but who knows? He's still a standout there and I imagine he have a number of regular customers like me.

The session last night started well but I was forced to stop fucking him as he told me it was getting painful. I was close to the point of exhaustion anyway, so it didn't matter. He didn't know what the problem was but appeared to have a pain in the stomach. We sat at the end of the bed and chatted for a bit and then he said he wanted to fuck me. As usual, he put in a sterling performance - no complaints from me. He then rolled over to begin his chuck wow show, but instead of the usual 15-20 minute performance, he came within 5 minutes. So I don't know what happened. For him, that's almost a case of premature ejaculation!

The boys at Space Bar looked particularly sexy last night. They have theme nights and it was soccer night. The boys all wore small baggy shorts, which tempted them to fool around with each other. Lots of arse grabbing and hole poking. Virat stood beside me and put my hand on his butt. I was in heaven! His butt is gorgeous.

There were a few more new guys last night. They were shy at first but soon got into the mood. It wasn't long before all the guys removed their tops. We had great access to the guys as there were only a few customers - the blabbering drunk from the previous night, the 3 French guys and two lovely guys from my hotel. One is French and the other Belgian and they own a gay bar in Belgium. They were shocked, but delighted, at the shenanigans going on in the bar. There was much discussion among the boys as to who was a top and who was a bottom. The bottom line, so to speak, is that they are all willing to top. Back in the room, it may well be a different story; I'm sure there are a few bottoms lurking amongst them.

As per usual, Virat wanted to come back to my hotel, as did the big muscle man, and as per usual, I resisted. But I can always change my mind!

[Brad the Impala]

Great fun reports, as ever. Keep it up!

You are making Cambodia sound very attractive. I think that you should receive a government subsidy!

[a447]

I don't know about a government subsidy, but I should be getting a kickback from Hatha and Space Bar! They are the only 2 places I go to enjoy myself and I consider myself lucky that I found them. But as my experience demonstrates, if you only ever go to those two places, anyone can have more fun than they can poke their stick at. If I can do it, anyone can. Of course, there are stunning guys in Thailand, too. It's just that there are so many of them here.

I've become a fully-fledged people watcher - well, guy watcher to be more accurate. The restaurants along the river serve basically the same food, so I always choose a place with handsome waiters. I was checking the menu outside a restaurant the other night. I looked up and saw a stunning guy standing in front of me, smiling. I went straight in and went through my usual routine - I pretend I'm a novice when it comes to Cambodian food and get the waiter to sit down next to me and go through the menu, item by item...and very slowly.

"And does this come with rice?"
"Yes, sir. With ri."
"Is it rice from Cambodia or is it from Thailand?"
"From Cambodia, sir,"

Sometimes I slip up.

"Does this come with chicken or beef?"
"Chicken, sir. It called Chicken in kampot sauce."
"Oh, yes. So it is!"

Often there are handsome young tuk-tuk drivers waiting outside the restaurant so I always make it a habit to go and have a chat with them while waiting for my food. They offer me the chance to get up close and personal. They also offer me drugs and women.

The food always tastes so much better when you are are eating with a hard-on.

Before heading off to Hatha, I stood out on the balcony admiring all the young Cambodians who come to use the hotel facilities. I spotted the very handsome guy I'd seen at Space Bar the previous night. He's gorgeous, with designer stubble to boot. He was lying on one of the sun beds, sporting a very, very impressive hard-on in his skimpy speedos. Kneeling beside him was a Asian-looking guy, but he sounded American. He was stroking the guy's leg and then they started passionately kissing. He was discreetly brushing his arm against the hard-on. Why the fuck doesn't he just grab it, I thought to myself. But he didn't. Then I don't know what happened but the Cambodian guy suddenly stood up, walked over to the pool's edge, hard-on fully visible, and jumped in. The other guy was left to look for another fuck buddy. The problem is, most of the locals come to the hotel in couples or groups and tend not to mix. But they provide great eye-candy and, of course, the occasional hard-on for our appreciation.

I sat at the bar at Hatha but unfortunately, I couldn't see into the waiting room where the boys are because the lights were off. Never mind; at least half a dozen guys came out and used the water cooler behind the bar. Stunners, every one of them. And all very masculine with toned bodies. Mr BB told me they are the type farang preferred. One guy came out and turned and smiled broadly at me.

"I like big cock. No probrem for me. Can do big, big size."

Why is he telling me that, I wondered. Lol

Oh, if only I could choose someone else! I want to try them all. Not that I'm in any way dissatisfied with Mr BB - apart from his unimpressive cock. We have awesome sex every night, albeit very exhausting. But I want to get my hands and arse on a big cock.
But then again, would any other guy flip flop like Mr BB? And if he did, would be charge double? Where else can I have 2 fuck sessions, and for the one price? Certainly not in Thailand and maybe not at Hatha. Perhaps that's the benefit of sticking to the same guy every night.

It was Lesbian Night at Space Bar. It was packed by the time I got there - 9 o'clock. I sat down at a table for 2 just inside the door and was soon joined by another customer - a young guy from Siem Reap down for a holiday. We had a very nice chat and he told me all the hassles he's experienced as a gay man in Cambodia. It was really sad. His sister is a lesbian but he hasn't even told her he's gay, let alone his parents, who are trying to marry him off with a girl from his village.

The bar was getting more and more crowded and the noise was deafening so he decided to go. Then in walked the French guys. It was Fabrice's 50th birthday - he only looks like he's in his early thirties (bastard!) and he was accompanied by his two Chinese boyfriends, one 45 and the other 27. Both are gym junkies and looked very butch and macho - I reckon they gave the lesbians sitting opposite a run for their money. I asked Fabrice how the set-up worked. The Chinese guys are a couple in their own right as well as being in a relationship with him. They all share a house together in Shanghai. (Apparently, threesomes are common in China among gays; they become a family.) The three of them sleep together in the same bed and basically have a mini orgy every night. Sounds good to me!

It wasn't long before the champagne was flowing - Moet, of course! Then the party erupted when the waiters went away and re-appeared topless and covered in glitter.

Early in the afternoon Fabrice and his boyfriends went to Hatha but they were far from impressed. None of them got to fuck, not even a hand job! I can't understand what's going on there. What are they doing wrong? Fabrice asked if they could go there tonight with me and try and sort the situation out. But we all got caught up in the goings on in the bar and didn't get around to making arrangements. I'll ask Mr BB what's going on.

The three guys, including Virat, again asked to come back to my hotel - not together - but I said no. One of the guys assured me he was gay and to prove it he put my hand on his cock so I could feel it getting hard. Mmm....very tempting, but no, not tonight. Although the boys are very secretive about it, I'm sure if I slept with one of them it would soon get around the bar, and I don't want that.

Tonight is Uniform Night. Can't wait!

[joe552]

Enjoying your reports, a447. As a matter of interest, what is your daily spend? Feel free not to respond, as I know it's a pretty personal question.

[llz]

The food always tastes so much better when you are are eating with a hard-on.

If there were a "Sentence of the Year" contest, this one would rank very high ...

Thank you for your daily reports.

[a447]

Joe, I could almost do a Christian here and give you a dollar by dollar account of my daily spend, as I pay for the same things every day. Here's a typical day in US dollars :

Hotel -110
Drinks around pool - 5
Tuk-tuk to Hatha - 2
Hatha - 37
Tuk-tuk to riverside - 3
Dinner - 7
Tip to Mr Unbelievably Handsome - 5
Tip to guy with no arms and one leg in the wheelchair - 5
Space Bar - hard to say as every night is different - lowest is $11 and highest is $88 when I bought a bottle of champagne. Sometimes customers pick up my tab and I also buy for them. Plus drinks for the boys if they want to drink. Often, they don't.
Tuk-tuk to hotel - 3
Plus incidentals like condoms/lube

All in all, a hell of a lot cheaper than Thailand.


I scored in the hotel sauna yesterday, and about fucking time! It's like a furnace in there -not a place you'd want to spend a lot of time in. But desperate times call for desperate measures.

An ok-looking local had been hanging around the pool all afternoon. I saw him stand up and remove his towel. He was semi- hard. He stood on the edge of the pool so we could get a good look before he jumped in. And for a Cambodian guy, I'd classify him as hung. Which, of course, is why he was putting on the display. He was obviously horny as he had a semi hard-on all afternoon (make up your mind!).

I was relaxing in the jacuzzi when I saw him wander down to the sauna. So I followed him in and sat down. He stood beside me, removed his towel and started jacking off. He was in his early twenties, so I figured he wouldn't be interested in a bit of help from the likes of me. But I had nothing to lose. I moved closer, expecting him to move away, but he didn't. I'm in!

I reached out and grabbed his cock and he came and stood on front of me. He was after a blowjob. He basically forced his way into my mouth and started thrusting back and forth, moaning and grunting. This time I can safely say we were both having a good time.

Then suddenly I tasted something slightly salty. Fuck! He's going to cum! Luckily, I was just in time. The first squirt landed on my cheek, followed by large dollops on my chin, arm and finally, all over my chest and stomach. Fucking hell! That's what a call a cumshot. Unfortunately, I didn't get to see it as it was too dark and he had his back to the door, blocking the light. Damn!

He left immediately and I found myself sitting there feeling very uncomfortable as the cum mixed with my sweat and started running down my thigh. Yuk! Then I felt really pissed off that he had been planning to cum in my mouth without warning me. And I had a problem - how could I leave the sauna covered in cum? What if someone saw me? I couldn't wipe it off with my towel because it belonged to my room and I didn't want to guys who make up my room to discover a cum -soaked towel. What would they think I was getting up to?

I waited till the coast was clear and then sprinted up the small flight of stairs to the outdoor showers. It was only then that I saw the full results of his cumshot in broad daylight. If only I'd had a camera with me. Now that would be a photo to show the guys back home! Oh, well.....

I was lying on the bed waiting for Mr Bubble-butt to come out of the shower. He lay down beside me and started stroking my cock. On the fifth stroke - it was an upstroke if I recall - he leaned over and whispered in my ear.

"You remember, I speak you something?"
"Not now! Not now!"
"You remember I show you notebook computer?"
"And do you remember I told you no?"
"I have good idea. Can you pay half? I can use it for my study."
"Please Phaera, not now."

We got down to business and afterwards lay quietly together in each other's arms, savouring the moment. If he had brought up the conversation then, I think I would have strangled him.

As I was walking out the door I thought about offering him some free advice (but of course, I didnt). If you want a customer to say yes, ask him when he's on the brink of cumming. I'd say yes to anything in that situation.

I headed back to the restaurant to ogle Mr Unbelievably Handsome. He sat beside me and I gazed blissfully into his eyes as, at my request, he went through the ins and outs of Khmer noodle cuisine. I didn't hear a word, as I had other ins and outs on my mind.

I let him choose the dish. I wish I hadn't. What came out was a plate piled high with horrible congealed noodles. Yuk! I'm supposed to eat this?? It looked like something you'd treat with anti-biotics. Either that, or it had already been eaten once before. I sat there playing with it with my fork and trying not to look at it. Finally, I called him over.

"Can I have the bill, please?"
"You finish? But you not eat."
"Err...I'm not hungry."
"You no hungry??"
"Uum...."

For once, I wanted to cut the conversation short. I paid and walked down to Burger King. Had I wasted my money? Not on your life! I'll be back there again tonight.

Space Bar was dead when I got there. Only one other customer. Oh, dear. And to think they went to all that trouble organising costumes for the boys. Virat was very quiet; he wasn't feeling himself tonight. In fact, he wasn't feeling anyone! He'd been out drinking with his ladyboy friends the night before and was hung-over.

Apart from the two regular handsome waiters, they had one new guy the boss had recruited just for the night. OMG! Javier, the owner, asked me what I thought of him. I was speechless. Apparently, people stare at him all the time when he's out and about. He really is drop-dead gorgeous. And gay. And very....err.."playful."

The crowds started coming in around 11pm and it was party time. But I don't think people were all that impressed with the uniform theme. We much prefer the sexy topless look.

[a447]

Yesterday was my last day in Phnom Penh - I'm off to Bangkok this afternoon - and I was determined to go out with a bang. But all did not go well.

I went to the big supermarket not far from my hotel to buy some condoms and ky. I can't seem to find lube anywhere, even at the convenience stores. I went there the day before to buy something so I could change a $100 note. As I was coming down the stairs, I missed the last step and jarred my calf muscle. And the exact same thing happened yesterday, but this time it was more serious; it felt like I tore the muscle. The last step is painted a different colour and is very hard to see. A guy rushed up to see if I was ok.

"You ok? I help you."
"Do you sell condoms and ky?"
"Sorry, no have."

I grabbed a tuk-tuk and went back to the hotel. I immediately got on Line and asked Mr BB if he had any. He did.

By now, my leg was really sore, but I was determined to enjoy a final session. I managed to hobble inside. Normally, I'm ready for action when he comes out of the shower, but tonight I was having trouble getting it up. He lay down beside me and started working on it and eventually I got hard. On with the condom. I told him I couldn't move, so I got him to sit on it. But passion got the better of me and I pushed him onto his back to fuck him missionary style.

Ouch! I cried out in pain as I put weight onto my leg.

"You ok?"
"No."
"You want to stop?"
"No."

He manoeuvred himself into the doggy position but after a few thrusts I could feel I was losing my hard-on. Disaster! I battled on regardless but to no avail. I had to throw in the towel. I withdrew and lay on my back, and we both had a chuckle as we watched the condom slowly slip off my now limp appendage.

"Can I fuck you?"

What a silly question, I thought. Wasn't it obvious to him that I was in a pin?

"Sure!"

Once he got started, the pain subsided. Wow! Have I just discovered the cure for a torn muscle?

He started off slowly but then began to really slam it home. This guy can move faster than a jack hammer - mind you, it doesn't have far to travel. He can fuck like this forever and a day. Where does he get all his energy from? After he'd fucked me into submission, he rolled over and spent a good 20 minutes jacking off before finishing me off.

I always let him decide how he wants to fuck me, and his favourite position is on top with my legs resting over his shoulders. He can then lean down and kiss me as he's pounding away. So I usually leave Hatha with a sore back. Tonight I hobbled out much worse for wear, but I was happy I resisted the temptation to stay back at the hotel. Who knows; there were quite a few young locals hovering around the pool, and I might have gotten lucky. But then again, probably not and I didn't want to take any chances.

BTW, it was quite busy again last night and the manager told me they'll be switching to larger premises next year to cope with the demand.

I got the tuk-tuk driver to drop me outside the restaurant. I looked around and - horror of horrors - Mr Unbelievably Handsome was nowhere to be seen! Maybe he was out back, so I stood by a tree on the pavement and held onto a branch to take the weight off my leg, and waited. But he never appeared. Never mind, I have plan B.

I made my way down to another restaurant where yet another handsome guy is working. I waited until I caught his eye. He rushed up to greet me. I immediately pointed to my leg and with a pained look on my face - ok, I'll admit it was a bit exaggerated - I told him I couldn't walk so he put his arm around me and led me to a nearby table.

"No, not this table. That one down the back."

I was determined to have his arm around me for as long as possible. And, of course, I made sure I clung to him as hard as possible.

See? Every cloud really does have a silver lining. Maybe I've hit on a new ploy - pretend I'm injured and get them to help me to my table. Mmmm...must work on that one!

I grabbed a tuk-tuk and arrived at Space Bar 30 seconds later. The driver was very happy with the dollar I gave him. Easy money.

I've noticed quite a change in the bar this visit. They have a lot of new staff. Also, they have a lot more customers now, so my time with the boys, especially Virat, is limited. Also, Virat is kept very busy with all the other customers who have now discovered the bar, all of whom have fallen in love with him and vie for his attention. As soon as he comes over to sit and have a grope, another customer calls him over - and then another, and another. It's turned into some kind of competition for his attention. Never mind.

Last night I sat with a young guy called Bora. He's not the most handsome guy, but he has a cheeky smile and is very funny. He's very shy - definitely not a groper - but he has a beautiful body. He put my arm around his waist and I sat like that all night. Virat came over when he could and put my hand on his beautiful arse, but he spent most of the night making cocktails behind the bar.

Javier told me he is still on the look-out for a bigger place, but finding one where the neighbours don't complain is difficult. Apparently, nobody wants a gay bar next door.

If only they knew what they were missing.

So, that was Phnom Penh. I hope you have the opportunity to visit some time. You'll be assured of a great holiday and get to experience a scene very different from that in Thailand.

[rtu55]

Do I understand you correct that tip for boy in a massage place like Hatha khmer is 25$? And then an additional fee is for the massageshop? Is that "normal" tip in cambodian massageshops with "all inclusive"? What are the expected tip and fees for barboys in PP?

[a447]

$20 is the going rate. I give $25 because we both fuck. They charge $10 for an oil massage but we gave that away long ago; is straight down to business -no time for a massage. And I pay for 2 drinks, so the total is actually $38.

$20 is also the rate for guys you pick up in the bars, although, of course, they'll try to get more out of you. Some guys, I believe, you can pick up for as little as $10 in Heart of Darkness disco, but I've never been there.

[christianpfc]

Thanks for all contributions. Will have another read before my next trip to PP in Jan 2016 (booked already before this thread).

Just checked their website http://www.arthurandpaul.com/massages--spa.html, sauna is open for everyone for 5 USD entry (free for guests, but 110 USD is a bit over my budget), will have a look in Jan.

[Jamez777]

Hi A447.

I really enjoy reading your tales of PP and your ongoing trysts with BB. As a matter of interest, when you are in PP which hotel do you normally bed down in ?


$20 is the going rate. I give $25 because we both fuck. They charge $10 for an oil massage but we gave that away long ago; is straight down to business -no time for a massage. And I pay for 2 drinks, so the total is actually $38.

$20 is also the rate for guys you pick up in the bars, although, of course, they'll try to get more out of you. Some guys, I believe, you can pick up for as little as $10 in Heart of Darkness disco, but I've never been there.

[a447]

I always stay at Arthur and Paul Hotel. I've written a lot about it here, so do a quick search. Let me know if you have any questions.

[colmx]

Hi A447
I found this pic online - i believe its teh staff of Space bar..... not sure how old or new it is though!
Care to put some faces to the names?

[a447]

The guy on the left with the pink hair is the boyfriend of the Spanish owner, Javier. He's a lovely guy. He loves to dress up in drag. BTW, his younger brother also works at the bar and is very, very fem and often dresses as a ladyboy. Definitely not my cup of tea.

The guy second from the left is Virat, but it's not a good photo of him. He's much better looking in real life.

I think the guy second from the right works there, but I don't recognise any of the other guys.

[pong]

Update re Hata Khmer: you do not need to hurry back nor fear for more money-wringing to see mr. BB, as nr 20 has gone from the workers list, unless of course you can reach him for special arrangements. Asked for his name as check, but already forgotten. Besides: seemed there were more motobikes in the ''garden'' as working boys-he must have had his dream. In some other report, which I cannot find anymore, someone recalled a dark-skinned country farmerboy as nr 33-is also gone, nr 33 now taken by a whitish and a bit girlish/chinese/Khmer guy from another province. The local taste seems not for dark-skinned persons, though Uniman/Arena type tattooed muscleboys are many there.
Alltogether this stay in PnPn-also as a kind of tryout to see if it would be a viable alternative for BKK for me, was alltogether not too encouraging. The dirt and rubbish everywhere, bad food situation (compared to offers, availability and pricing in BKK), very little to actually really see/do daytime and the still prevailing warnings to go out after dark with too much care and worries are not compensated enough by the plus-factors. HK is also just similar to 1 of an average of 20+ ditto BKK local m2m massageshops. In total the PnPn gay scene is still smaller as that in ChiangMai, a city 5 times smaller. Really appalling are the Khmer-riche, invariably Chinese bisnes typos, who warrant a local red-shirt revolution against them. Also went to nearby Love Spa (gay sauna) before HK and this was simply just a dump as worse as farose.
But this all does not mean I really liked your pleasant readings and well-told adventures. Keep them coming please.

[bobsaigon2]

GANESH massage, 20z St 420, is the newest place, looks more upscale, is cleaner than Hatha Khmer, but both times I went there I found only about 10 boys working, only 1-2 twinks. Same $10 for one hour massage, plus usual tip for the boy. In November, the English speaking manager was pleasant, very helpful in giving suggestions.

After several trips to Phnom Penh during the past couple of years, I agree with everything Pong said about the city. However, I choose to return because I am content with frequenting two massage venues, and because I am in love with at least 3 boys at the Rambutan Resort hotel (sadly, none of their staff is allowed to provide "special comfort" for the guests). And the Phnom Penh airport is easier to navigate than Suvarnabhumi.

[Andaman!]

Bob, On your next visit stay at the A&P (Arthur & Paul) hotel next door to Rambutan. Then visit Rambutan as a guest for drinks and / or a meal and make arrangements for the cute Rambutan boys to visit you next door at A&P when their shift ends.

[bobsaigon2]

Yes, I have thought of not staying at the Rambutan, and inviting the Rambutan boys to visit me. Still considering that.

Tried Arthur & Paul but it didn't work for me. The low ceiling on the spiral staircase almost did me in a couple of times. Music too loud many hours a day. And I'm too old to enjoy the clothing optional atmosphere unless it's the local guys who choose not to wear anything. :-)

[a447]

unless it's the local guys who choose not to wear anything. :-)

You'll get to see that if you're lucky.

Over the times that I've stayed at A&P I've seen a few very hot young, handsome westerners - mainly French - swimming naked in the pool or in the jacuzzi. And I did see that couple fucking on the sun-bed next to the pool. The last time I was there the staff were still talking about it.

[erablenuit]

I have been spending one week each year in PP since 2010, and I have seen things change. The massage/fun tipping used to be 5 to 10 dollars, and the boys used to treat it more as a job, other than a path to finding a sugar daddy.

I only stayed at two places, Library on the riverside and Intercontinental. I preferred the latter. It's old but has its grace. No problem of bringing boys to your room as long as you accompany them. They boys are getting more open-minded, and up to a certain level it's surely a good thing. But now some are getting too greedy. Still most boys I met through Jackd or planetromeo just wanna spend some good time with a foreigner, speaking English, going to nice restaurant and have wild sex. Culturally speaking I think Khmers are like Chinese, they don't like confrontation. You can basically get anything you want if you know how to approaching and at the same time being firm with your demands.

I think there are still some good years left for PP before it turns to BKK or Bali.

[paperboy]

yes, have to agree, i stay in the okey hotel round the corner from blue chilli, never had a problem. The reception even said to me your having a busy holiday one night when i took a boy to my room lol. Also love the bar just down the road called 225 AV, great little friendly bar with shows on

[steveky]

a447 - just wanted to say thanks for this trip report. Realise that it was last year, but I got such a buzz out of reading it. Thanks mate.

[a447]

Cheers, Steve.

I feel another trip to Cambodia coming up!

[arsenal]

No reduction in the quality or selection of boys at Hatha Khmer. Good facilities too. Probably worth a 3 day trip to Phnom Penh on its own.

[arsenal]

Phnom Penh has been a lovely place to spend 4 days. Lots of lovely boys and loads of lovely food. The prople are besutifully polite too. Also due to the chaotic nature of the place it has a wonderful sense of adventure. Absolutely recommended.

[colmx]

Visited PP with a farang friend and Thai BF in January and we all loved it there

Stayed in http://www.saravoanroyalpalace.com/ - 3 doors down from Blue Chilli on Street 178 and will definitely stay there again. New owner Allan is very welcoming as are all his staff. Helps that some of them are cute too!

My BF very rarely likes any place outside of Thailand, but he was really taken by PP, so much so that he wants to go back again in April. Watching the crowds go along Sisowath Quay with sunset cocktails in Panorama bar created many photo ops and fond memories.

Heart Of Darkness reminded us of the much missed X-ray in Pattaya... and is a real melting pot of society.
Farang friend picked up there very easily and had a choice of who he could have brought home on both nights - similarly BF and I bumped into some Khmer friends who had moved back to PP after living in Pattaya.

Space bar... no comment except to wish that I was able to visit there without my BF sometime!

Only thing I didn't like in PP was the straight farang backpacker type freeloaders, at show time in Blue Chilli the bar was packed with them... but none of them were buying drinks... That didn't stop them pushing us out of their way and sneering down their noses at us "obvious sex tourists"

On our second night in Heart of Darkness 2 FWCs (Fat White Cows (c) Shamelessmack!) sat at our table and started robbing our whiskey! Khmer friends quickly put them in their place!

Next stop: Air Asia to book our April flights!

[arsenal]

Ah yes, backpackers. The balloon chasers of the world.

[paperboy]

air asia are having another 24hour massive sale, NOW

[FarangRuMak]

Ah yes, backpackers. The balloon chasers of the world.
It’s wise for a country to be backpacker friendly because many of these post-grad gap-year young people will return in later life as big spenders.
However the west is now producing the nosey, social justice warrior type; superior, full of liberal intolerance ( ie only their world- view is correct), judgemental and mostly women and their fem-male cucks.
If these freeloaders don’t buy a drink they should be shown the door.

[rexton]

Hi....Going to Phnom Penh for first time soon. How do you recommend getting from airport to city hotel assuming there are options. I have enjoyed the various reports / information. Thanks.

[frequent]

Hi....Going to Phnom Penh for first time soon. How do you recommend getting from airport to city hotel assuming there are options. I have enjoyed the various reports / information. Thanks.Organise a car from your hotel. You'll find a similar arrangement in Siem Reap works well (for most) as can be seen in this trip report (http://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?16803-My-SE-Asian-sojourn-(Siem-Reap))

[Andaman!]

I always ask hotel to arrange transfer. There will then be someone waiting at the aerodrome with your name clearly displayed on a board and there will be no risk of the driver not knowing how to get to the hotel.

[rexton]

Thanks guys.

[colmx]

There is a fixed fare for all Taxis from PNH to city centre hotels
From memory it's $14. You go to the booth across from Burger King and take the next available car... all very organized compared to a lot of Asian cities

[a447]

Gentlemen, you have been conned. Rexton is one of frequent's many handles. He used him here as an excuse to post his 'trip report."

It's a typical ploy he uses when he wants to post something but no-one has asked him the appropriate question. So he just asks himself.

It's desperation stakes in Queensland! Lol

[Brad the Impala]

Your desire to diminish this forum since you "left" is desperation.

[a447]

Surfcrest/ Brad (same same), I'm "diminishing" frequent by outing him, since you do not want to take on that task. The forum wasn't mentioned by me.

And btw, the accusation above is one you yourself have made!

Oh, and if I wanted to "diminish" the board, I had my chance here :

http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/10887-food-fight-insues-on-sg-network/


I didn't take it.

[rexton]

You got it wrong a447.....I am not a handle for frequent or anyone else. ..

[frequent]

Your desire to diminish this forum since you "left" is desperation.There's a plan to turn it into a movie I believe - The Magnificent Obsession

[a447]

There's a plan to turn it into a movie I believe - The Magnificent Obsession


Also from Brad the Impala, from 2015:


Kommie's hardon for a447 is beyond obsessive. It wasn't like this in the days of the colonel

So looks like that movie has already been made. But I'm not surprised you missed it. Lol

Frequent 's signature:

"Strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events,weak minds discuss people" - Socrates

Yep, they sure do!

[Surfcrest]

You got it wrong a447.....I am not a handle for frequent or anyone else. ..

I agree with you rexton, I'm not sure what a447 is referring to, but he is incorrect.

Surfcrest

[latintopxxx]

a447...now be a good little boy and apologise...

[rexton]

I'll be in Phnom Penh for 6 days...preceeded by 3 and succeeded by 7 days in Thailand. Any advice re buying Sim cards...data and calls...Which would be more economical. ...use Thai Sim card in Cambodia or separate card for each country. .Any idea on prices etc. would be appreciated. ..from anyone with experience of same...Cheers. .

[frequent]

I'll be in Phnom Penh for 6 days...preceeded by 3 and succeeded by 7 days in Thailand. Any advice re buying Sim cards...data and calls...Which would be more economical. ...use Thai Sim card in Cambodia or separate card for each country. .Any idea on prices etc. would be appreciated. ..from anyone with experience of same...Cheers. .A separate one for each country. Cambodian SIM card plans are very cheap. Just go to any Cambodian phone shop (they're everywhere) and they will happily supply you. The government insists you show your passport but few phone shops ask for it and the last time I offered my passport in a Cambodian phone shop I heard a word that sounded remarkably like "bullshit". They're way cheaper than a Thai SIM. The friend I met at Swampy recently paid True 600 baht for a 15-day tourist SIM. They took his passport and copied it by taking a pic of it on their phone

[rexton]

Thanks frequent

[Brad the Impala]

a447...now be a good little boy and apologise...

Surely a447 hasn't just left again when his apology is due?

[latintopxxx]

a447 and apology is not something that comes easy...false pride gets in the way

[a447]

Mmm.... so now we have the "gang of four" - Rexton, frequent, Surfcrest and Brad all suddenly taking an interest in this thread. Former bitter enemies on the board suddenly giving each other's posts "likes," not only here but on other threads, too. And supporting each other. And trying to cover up for each other.

Seems more like the " gang of two".

Has Surfcrest quietly sold the board to the other gang member? Lol

I made that accusation regarding Rexton based on the fact that by sheer coincidence, he perfectly fits the type of poster frequent regularly uses to further his own ends -

A) someone who joined some years ago,

B) has made very few posts over those years

C) who asks questions which allow frequent to post what he wants to, or supports him when he is criticised.

He's dragged them out on numerous occasions over the years - it's just his modus operandi. Brisbaneguy was his most infamous. Lurker was his most hilarious.

One final point.

Rexton posted on May 8 at 17:06. Frequent posted straight after him at 17:13. A mere 7 minutes between the two posts. Are we to believe, therefore, that frequent - just by coincidence (there's that word again) - happened to be not only on the board at the same time as someone who has only made one other post since January, 2016, but was also reading the same thread? Of all the threads he could have been reading, he just so happened to choose this one.

Yeah, right!

Oh, and speaking of apologies....

Latin, you've never apologised for all the lies (and contradictory posts which prove they were lies) you've made over the years.

And Brad, you never apologised when you made all those accusations against me in the "where is everyone" thread; accusations which, after my PM was released, turned out to be false. When I asked you to point to the words in my PM which proved your accusations, you couldn't. Not even once. You lied. But you never apologised.

So guys, rather than playing silly games here amongst yourselves, why don't you make an attempt to post something that will attract more interest amongst the members and add more life to the board? You are just relying on an ever-decreasing number of regular posters to keep the board afloat.

[Surfcrest]

I honestly couldn't give a crap, I was stating a fact. I get quite bored with all these conspiracy theories. These are which, to a large part what scares new members from posting or even old members from starting to post. Please leave the detective work, when and if required, to me.

Surfcrest

[Moses]

a447, could you please stay out of hydra/clone themes? This forum after renovation is patrolled by very sophisticated robots what check every post and every new registration. Me and Surfcrest for sure know "who is who".

We know when user makes hydra (clone), when somebody posts to very old thread (usually it is typical spam strategy), when somebody changing his email (usually it happened when account is hacked), when flagged words been used (in case of spam). Robots watching forum 24/7/365 and reporting each and every case to hidden subforum what is visible only to me and Surfcrest.

Please: don't worry.

4527

4528

[a447]

Surfcrest wrote:

"These are which, to a large part what scares new members from posting or even old members from starting to post."

It's no good trying to blame me for that.

There were two threads this year - "Where is everyone" and "KOMMENTARIAT..." (and at least one last year), in which members told you in no uncertain terms who was to blame. And for your information, not one poster in any of those threads pointed the finger at me. Nor was the finger ever pointed at members who have outed those "newbies" who suddenly appeared, one after the other.

You, and only you, have (had?) the power to do something about it. But no, you decided to cut loose a quality poster and perennial member of the year who started more topics than just about any other member, who could post intelligently on numerous topics and is an expert on China and Asian culture - in favour of keeping the perennial "member" of the year who, in his own words, described the board thus :

"The only value of this board in my opinion is its entertainment value - what you call the personal squabbles."

http://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?18548-Zing-Resort-and-Spa

For whatever reason, you made the wrong call.

You only have yourself to blame.

"As you sow, so shall you reap."

Moses wrote :


Me and Surfcrest for sure know "who is who"

I know.

[christianpfc]

There is a fixed fare for all Taxis from PNH to city centre hotels
From memory it's $14. You go to the booth across from Burger King and take the next available car... all very organized compared to a lot of Asian cities
That's expensive!

There is a public bus, and I saw that bus, but when I was last in Cambodia, I was pressed for time going from PP airport to town, so I took a mocy (as the every time before). Of course not those who approach you in the airport, but on the main road (internet says price drops to half in the course of 100 m). I vaguely remember, I paid 2 or 3 USD. But the ride took half an hour, so if you value comfort more than money, get a taxi.

[bobsaigon2]

In relation to a447's post #57 above, after I bid goodbye to SGT, I stopped logging in or posting, but I do visit. What I have seen, to no one’s surprise, is that the two (or three) board members who everyone loves to hate, after having been assured that they would not be banned, have now effectively taken over the tone and direction of the forum for their own amusement. I fail to see how that's an improvement.

[Surfcrest]

I fail to see how that's an improvement.

It's nice to see other members starting posts, to see the one member that you'd liked to have seen "burned at the stake" staring topics. We almost had a new member ask about massage places and a longer term member start posting...it's an evolution, after all it's only been days since you three left. (Welcome Back btw).

The hope is that all the new eyes we see looking at the forum, from their searches on the internet for topics about Thailand for the Gay Male traveler and expat...see a topic and chirp in (hopefully without being eaten alive, but we'll see).

Just as many other great members have left. moved on, died or whatever...even though the overall population of the world is on the decline, we still hope we'll find Gay Men looking for hot boys, hot sand beaches, spicy hot food and the kind of loving that may not come as easy, back home.

Surfcrest

[frequent]

a447, could you please stay out of hydra/clone themes...Poor old a447 has to feed his Don Quixote complex somehow Moses. It's occupational therapy for his retirement

[rexton]

That's expensive!

There is a public bus, and I saw that bus, but when I was last in Cambodia, I was pressed for time going from PP airport to town, so I took a mocy (as the every time before). Of course not those who approach you in the airport, but on the main road (internet says price drops to half in the course of 100 m). I vaguely remember, I paid 2 or 3 USD. But the ride took half an hour, so if you value comfort more than money, get a taxi.

Earlier today I booked the hotels transport from airport (as advised by a poster a few days ago) for $13. Happy to see that it is within the going rate.