Some questions for experienced Pattaya travelers

[AsDaRa]

Since I only had one trip to Pattaya (I was there last week and start of this week) I have some questions for the more experienced guys on this forum:

1) Do you in general meet your boy via Grindr/Hornet/Gayromeo? Or you still go to Gogo bars?

2) How many of you have a special friend to which you send each month money to help him pay his bills? What is the amount roughly you then transfer? 2000 BTH? 4000 BHT?

3) Do the parents of these Gogo boys know the kind of business they do? Or is it kept secret? In Europe escort boys do in general not tell friends/parents

4) How do these boys see their future? They must know that after age 30 it becomes more and more difficult to find a Western gay man who is willing to pay. Most of us prefer young (18-25) above older (> 25).

5) I noticed most boys speak extremely little English. So you can't have descent conversations with them. I was wondering - while there - if they pretend not to speak it (which helps make the dates shorter because if you can't talk with them why hang around?) or they really are so bad in it?

[latintopxxx]

Since I only had one trip to Pattaya (I was there last week and start of this week) I have some questions for the more experienced guys on this forum:
MY TROLL RADAR IS GOING OFF...BUT HERE GOES ANYWAY.

1) Do you in general meet your boy via Grindr/Hornet/Gayromeo? Or you still go to Gogo bars?
ALL OF THE ABOVE. I USED TO DO GOGO/HOST BARS AND STREET /BEACH TRADE ONLY. BUT IN THE LAST 2 YEARS HAVE FOUND SOCIAL MEDIA VERY CONVENIENT....AND CHEAPER. NO OFF FEES OR BUYING DRINKS.

2) How many of you have a special friend to which you send each month money to help him pay his bills? What is the amount roughly you then transfer? 2000 BTH? 4000 BHT?
NO, NO, NO,NO...I ONLY HIRE THEIR SERVICES FOR A SHORT TIME FRAME...DONT LOVE/CARE ABOUT THEM. LIKE A BANK ACCOUNT, ONCE i WITHDRAW I LOOSE INTEREST.

3) Do the parents of these Gogo boys know the kind of business they do? Or is it kept secret? In Europe escort boys do in general not tell friends/parents
NOT SURE. AM SURE THAT TYE PARENTS DONT ACTUALLY WANT TO KNOW. AS LONG AS THE MONEY KEEPS FLOWING ALLS GOOD.

4) How do these boys see their future? They must know that after age 30 it becomes more and more difficult to find a Western gay man who is willing to pay. Most of us prefer young (18-25) above older (> 25). MOST DONT THINK BEYOND TODAY. MOST HAVE LIMITED EDUCATION AND HAVE NO CONCEPT OF TOMORROW, OF SAVING UP OR INVESTMEBNTS. ITS ALL ABOUT TODAY.

5) I noticed most boys speak extremely little English. So you can't have descent conversations with them. I was wondering - while there - if they pretend not to speak it (which helps make the dates shorter because if you can't talk with them why hang around?) or they really are so bad in it?
TALK??? LAST THING I WANT IS FOR HIM TO TALK EXCEPT TO SAY THANK YOU. I ENFGAFGE THEM FOR ONE THING ONLY AND ITS NOT FRIENDSHIP OR CHATTING. i ALREADY HAVE A SOCIAL CIRCLE.
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[AsDaRa]

Since I only had one trip to Pattaya (I was there last week and start of this week) I have some questions for the more experienced guys on this forum:
MY TROLL RADAR IS GOING OFF...BUT HERE GOES ANYWAY.


Thanks for the answers and for your information: I truly, honestly, have just finished my very first Thailand trip. In December I will go for second time. I plan to go at least 2 times a year now, each year.
I feel an idiot for not having gone there sooner. I have missed out on a lot. All the fun I could have had in the past years.
But then I didn't see many guys younger than me. Most men I saw were 45 or up. Yet I wished I had gone there in my thirties.

[Manforallseasons]

I too smell a rat, why harp on something that is oppsolite particularly since you claim its your first trip? What is your real agenda or are you just trolling :-?

[latintopxxx]

give him the benefit of doubt. Lots of Asians do look much younger, and the dim lights a mplify this illusion. There is a lot of scary ;literature about underage goings on so I can understand that a newbie will see danger waiting at each corner.

[atri1666]

1. Bars, Gogo and Gayromeo
2. I never send any money to anybody.Why i should? There are plenty of young men.
3. Mother of my old boyfriend was knowing about. We are still friends but i am into young men between 20 and 25 and skinny.
4. When he not will find customers anymore at the beach he will return to the farm

Since 1983 never had problems to have conversations.

[christianpfc]

1) Do you in general meet your boy via Grindr/Hornet/Gayromeo? Or you still go to Gogo bars?

In Pattaya, I go almost exclusively to gogo / host bars or meet old friends. I can't be bothered to do anything on computer or telephone, poor pictures, wait for the boy to come to my room, etc. But others have completely different procedures.

2) How many of you have a special friend to which you send each month money to help him pay his bills? What is the amount roughly you then transfer? 2000 BTH? 4000 BHT?

Wouldn't dream of sending money. There is only one way how money passes: from my warm hands in to his warm hands.

3) Do the parents of these Gogo boys know the kind of business they do? Or is it kept secret? In Europe escort boys do in general not tell friends/parents

The internet says most of the boys tell their family they work in hotel or restaurant.

4) How do these boys see their future? They must know that after age 30 it becomes more and more difficult to find a Western gay man who is willing to pay. Most of us prefer young (18-25) above older (> 25).

There was a thread on this subject some months ago.

5) I noticed most boys speak extremely little English. So you can't have descent conversations with them. I was wondering - while there - if they pretend not to speak it (which helps make the dates shorter because if you can't talk with them why hang around?) or they really are so bad in it?

They do not pretend - their English is really very limited. Doesn't affect me any more, I speak more Thai than the average bar boy speaks English. But whenever I encounter boys who speak passable English, I pretend not to speak Thai, so I can listen to them (understand about half of it), read messages in Thai on their mobile, and so on. So far, I didn't gain any advantage, but one day it will turn out helpful.

[a447]

Do the parents of these Gogo boys know the kind of business they do? Or is it kept secret? In Europe escort boys do in general not tell friends/parents

Apparently not, but I'm sure many are aware of what their kids are up to; after all you can't send that much money home by working in 7/11. But they seem to be happy as long as the money keeps arriving every month and so I guess they don't ask too many questions.

But in many cases, the siblings know. It's amazing the number of guys who have their brother working in the same bar and who have a sister (or more) selling her pussy in a bar in Walking Street. They are all in the game.

And one of the boys once told me that if you see a nice house in a village, everyone knows that the girl has a farang " boyfriend" she'd met in the bar she works in.

[lego]

Yeah, from what I've seen and heard, it often seems to be a matter of "Don't ask, don't tell". The boys don't really want to tell their parents, but there's also no need, because parents often know what's really going on anyway. Nothing either side is keen to talk about, and I cannot blame them. I've also seen the opposite, however, families openly talking about what some of their offspring are up to. That's probably the case when the whole village knows about it already, then the only face saving factor is a huge amount of cash sent back.

[latintopxxx]

Funny....money also trumps everything else....not only in Thailand but all over the world.

[topjohn5]

I have many reliable sources that say that the average bar boy sends no money home at all and a few that send money is not much. When they go visit home they attempt to take gifts and money with them at that time.....I think it's hard to know for sure what is really sent home and how much. Many boys do not make that much money and they spend far more than we imagine.

Yes sibling generally know what they are doing and many do it or have done it themselves...I have meet many siblings of the boys doing it too. I agree they usually tell that they work in a hotel or restaurant. And it is don't ask don't tell.....

[francois]

It seems that the OP, AsDaRa, got bored with his trolling here and shifted to GaybuttonThai to do some more chumming for suckers but got caught by the gay troll catcher. Poor chap; he sure had some of our members on the hook and in his net.

[AsDaRa]

It seems that the OP, AsDaRa, got bored with his trolling here and shifted to GaybuttonThai to do some more chumming for suckers but got caught by the gay troll catcher. Poor chap; he sure had some of our members on the hook and in his net.

What is it that on both forums newcomers are looked at with such suspicion? I am no troll. Do not expect many new people on your forums if you engage them as unfriendly as you have engaged me.
I think now about your guys as a close knit group who all know each other personally and who suspect any newcomer by definition. I am so curious to the root cause of that extreme sensitivity, to suspect anything which deviates a tiny bit of being a troll. I have a brother who is a psychologist. I will let him read this and my threads in the other forum, he will be able to come up with a psychological profile of your guys. Curious what it will be like. You want me to share the outcome with your guys ?

By the way: When are you planning to upgrade your troll detectors? Because they are extremely buggy.

[lego]

Yes, please do share the outcome, but only if it's enlightening.

We already know that we've got a high number of psychopaths and degenerates among(st) us, but thanks for your concern nonetheless. ;)

[loke]

I dont think its your first time in Pattaya to be honest .
Whats the point of trolling anyway , does it give you an ejaculation?

[AsDaRa]

I dont think its your first time in Pattaya to be honest .
Whats the point of trolling anyway , does it give you an ejaculation?

My God. I am going to quit with this forum. Your guys are sick. It is not healthy anymore, that distrust.
It was my first time in Pattaya sir. In fact: it was my first time in Thailand! Why do you think it wasn't? Unbelievable.

[Surfcrest]

My God. I am going to quit with this forum.
Resignation accepted, adieu!

Surfcrest

[catawampuscat]

I dont think its your first time in Pattaya to be honest .
Whats the point of trolling anyway , does it give you an ejaculation?

My God. I am going to quit with this forum. Your guys are sick. It is not healthy anymore, that distrust.
It was my first time in Pattaya sir. In fact: it was my first time in Thailand! Why do you think it wasn't? Unbelievable.


'The lady doth protest too much'..