Graphic trip reports

[joe552]

I really enjoy reading trip reports from other posters, even if it's unlikely I'll actually visit the places they describe. But am I alone in finding some reports a bit too graphic in terms of describing sexual encounters? I don't mind reading that you met a guy in X bar or online or in a massage shop, but I really don't need the full details of what actually happened. Just wondering what others think. :-\

[colmx]

Think there's a bit of catholic guilt going on there Joe
More graphic the better as far as I am concerned!
As long of course as the protagonists are both 20 something Asian boys!

[corky]

Maybe it's my advanced age but frankly, I find other people's sex lives to be one of the most boring topics to hear about. Be it from someone in a bar or here on the message boards I am usually unbelieving of their stamina or think that if it's true then they must be dosed up to the eyeballs in viagra.

[Smiles]

I really enjoy reading trip reports from other posters, even if it's unlikely I'll actually visit the places they describe. But am I alone in finding some reports a bit too graphic in terms of describing sexual encounters? I don't mind reading that you met a guy in X bar or online or in a massage shop, but I really don't need the full details of what actually happened. Just wondering what others think. :-\
'Raunchy Is Good!' ... the more idiosyncratic, odd, depraved (but with elan), and liberally sprinkled with F-type-descriptive-words the better (for instance: "blood-engorged cock" always trumps "rigourous member" ~ OR ~ "I/he fucked his/my lubed and willing ass silly for half an hour" rather than "he entered me, down there, gently"). Full details rule!

I guess Joe, that you will gather I'm on the edge of the left-wing precipice (i.e. 'left' being sex maniacal ... a 15 on the Stimp Meter) while you reside on the other end (so to speak), miles away (i.e. Charmingly Prissy).
But I'll give you this much: I never in a thousand years would discuss on any message board any 'sex stuff' regarding myself and my old man. Nobody wants to hear about long-termers usually white bread sex lives.
But in-depth descriptions of disgusting encounters in motorway gas station hong nams, of cum-drenched liaisons with multiple partners ~ including security guards ~ in dank and dark hallways in the basement parking lot at MBK, of bare back orgies in dark rooms, saunas, porn theatres (are there any left?) . . . those are really quite OK. Bring it on.

I think your crusade (did someone mention Irish high Catholicism?) is as lost as King Richard's.

[francois]

I agree with you Joe; I like reading of personal experiences in bars/clubs and otherwise but not turned on by graphic descriptions of sexual encounters unless truly bizarre. But Buckys recent description of cum-swapping-masturbation encounter did have me laughing and gasping.

[Smiles]

Francois . . . I enjoyed your point of view, including your "says-it-all" caveat: " ... unless truly bizarre ... "
Touched all the bases, 'just in case', eh?

This thread has the distinct possibility of being very interesting.

[bing]

Well speaking for the 75 plus crowd, I say bring on the sleaze, more is better for me. I enjoy reading the exploits of the guys on the prowl.

[catawampuscat]

If it's well written, great.
If it's how great, hot, sexy, desirable , rich, the poster is, then it's garbage.

With joe on this one, not at all interested in exploits of us, really just amateur porn.

[lego]

I think we really need to leave that with those who are willing to share their exploits with us. Some will include more details and others won't, why police that? Personally, I don't mind either way. I was subjected to watching straight porn of the somewhat kinky kind when I was 14 y.o. and I'm glad to report that anything and everything I can recall that has been posted here is harmless in comparison.

[a447]

Joe, is this post, perchance, aimed at little old me?? Lol


But am I alone in finding some reports a bit too graphic in terms of describing sexual encounters? I don't mind reading......

Your sensibilities would not be offended if you didn't continue reading when the post starts to get " too graphic." Just stop reading, or better still, don't go to that thread, especially if it's one of mine (although I sometimes give a warning -graphic content ahead).

It's a bit like the girl who told you she had to change her seat on the bus 4 times.
"Why? We're you molested?"
"Yes...eventually."

My posts are not about my sexual performance - God forbid, it's nothing to write home about. I'm certainly no sexual athlete, nor a hung stud! :( I like to describe the hot, hot guys I meet -not difficult in Asia- and their awesome sexual performance and gorgeous face, body and equipment. (Not mine;I sadly lack in all those areas!) Sex just happens to be my favourite pastime and I thank god every day for giving me Asia on my doorstep, the ability to visit whenever I feel horny and the guys it has to offer. In the West, gay sex of the type I enjoy here is just not available if you are, say,over 40. The cut-off in Japan is early thirties. So that rules me out.

But the main reason I post about my exploits is for future reference;I can go back and read about the special guys who I have met with the aim of maybe catching up with them again. It's kind of like a diary.

But my Pattaya and Phnom Penh reports have managed close to 2,400 views, so obviously some people are interested, although some may be offended also. Who knows?

Im sorry if I have offended anyone here. I was about to report on last night's exploits but it might be better to just hold off a while.

Once again, apologies all round.

Life's good.

[Jellybean]

IтАЩm with a447 on this one. As he said, he never describes himself, but does give us detailed descriptions of the lads he meets and the situations he finds himself in. As long as posts arenтАЩt of the boastful type, but the informative type, then I enjoy reading them.

As with all types of posts or topics, no one is forced to read them, we are all free to ignore subject matter which we find offensive or have no interest in. Those who write explicit, graphic posts are fairly well known and easily avoidable. But a quick look at the number of hits they get show that they are popular and attract considerable interest.

Publish and be damned I say!

[Patanawet]

I really don't need the full details of what actually happened. :-\

Then don't read them ------ or is that too obvious an answer?

[joe552]

a447, I'm not at all offended by your posts though I do tend to skip over some of the detail. This was meant to be a light-hearted thread but I couldn't find the "eyes averted" smilie :ymblushing:

I was bored last night so just wanted to start a conversation. Although it seems I'm not alone in my thoughts. But keep posting your reports - I like your writing style and sense of humour. :ymhug:

[llz]

So, a447, back to what matters ... how was it yesterday ?

[latintopxxx]

yes a447....pray do tell...and btw i was totally surprised that in Japan the cut off age is in the 30's, had always thought it would be more like other Asian countries where a forigner is simply popular because he is not Asian.

[pennyboy]

I don't get offended by posters graphic details of sexual encounters but I sometime wonder why certain posters have to keep telling us that they shag more,spend more, tip more and have more fun than the rest of us combined. Doubt if it impresses anyone.

[topjohn5]

Sorry Joe, but I'm afraid I'd have to say that some posters exploits while grimace inducing and may have me feeling like I just witnessed a train wreak...are in the end enjoyable to read here. The more depraved, perverted, audacious and totally off-the-wall the better. I would welcome, but may look through my eyelashes occasionally, a description that includes texture, smell, taste, feel, among other things...it doesn't even need to be well written just real. :ymparty:

[a447]

The more depraved, perverted, audacious and totally off-the-wall the better. I

I'm working on it!

[francois]

Hope it truly bizarre, a447.

Although not turned on by others graphic exploits sure am not offended by them; just skip to what is of interest to me. I do question the ethics of those who post photos of their conquests.

[Impulse]

Please keep posting about sex. A477 is one reason I still read this board.

[Oliver]

Aren't many of the sexual exploits posted here fantasies? If they're true, I really must get out more...and jazz -up my sex-life!

[Nirish guy]

Aren't many of the sexual exploits posted here fantasies

Speaking personally (and just for the record) no, not ever, anything I post is 100% accurate and has either happened, is happening or is just about to happen. Can't speak for others of course but that's definitely the case for me.

[a447]

Yes, it's all true - I give out the names of the places I visit and, in the case of massage places, the numbers of the guys I have fun with. So anyone who, for example, comes to Phnom Penh can drop by the Hatha Khmer spa and enjoy those guys as much as me.

In my butterfly days in Thailand I gave out the names/ numbers of the guys to posters who pm'd me, and posted their names on the board but only after getting permission from the guys involved. Now I have a regular guy and I certainly have no intention of giving out his name...lol.

My sexual activities are very vanilla; no orgies, nothing kinky, just plain old suck, fuck and chuck. And always one on one. Pretty boring actually compared to the antics some guys get up to...haha.

And I never go to discos or nightclubs. When I'm on holiday I'm tucked up in bed - alone - by 3am.

And just for the record I personally can vouch for NIrish ;the guy's a legend - a cockstar with a cock of steel. When he's in town a lot of boys make a very decent living.

[joe552]

I've never thought there was a lot of "false" posts here - Beachlover excepted! And while I've found some posts a bit graphic for my taste, I've never had reason to believe they aren't true.

[Jellybean]

Personally, IтАЩve never entertained any doubts whatsoever that the reports posted by NIrish-guy and a447 are anything but accurate. The issue is that, in comparison to me, their lifestyles, while in Thailand, and elsewhere in the Far East, have the effect of making me feel in some way inadequate. Like I am somehow, missing out, not really getting my fair share.

But I console myself in the belief that both our sexually prodigious posters are younger, healthier, stronger, fitter, more virile, much more handsome and much wealthier than me. And that both posters are the exception here and not the rule. That way I comfort myself in the knowledge that my limited sexual shenanigans in Thailand are, more or less, average and equivalent to the sexual encounters the majority of my fellow members of this forum experience. And no matter what anyone else says, IтАЩm going to stick to that belief thank you very much! No, please, donтАЩt tell me IтАЩm wrong тАж la-la-la-la тАж IтАЩm not listening. :p

[a447]

Jelly, please don't confuse my sexploits with those of NIrish. They are chalk and cheese...lol

I only have sex two or three times a day on average. Our friend has sex twice or three times an hour! He's fucking unbelievable.

Unfortunately, I can't do the revolving door thing - one boy leaves and another arrives. Needless to say, I'm green with envy. And wish I had the stamina. But I find that good sex takes a lot out of me as the session tends to last for quite a while - I'm totally spent (and very, very satisfied!) and need time in between to recover.


both our sexually prodigious posters are younger, healthier, stronger, fitter, more virile, much more handsome and much wealthier

I'm probably none of those! And as for bring handsome, the boys couldn't give a shit about that. Their eyes are on our wallets, not our faces.

Like many gay guys I just love sex so much I can't help myself; it's like a drug. And in Asia its a drug that is freely available so I take advantage of that fortunate situation. Luckily, Asia is on my doorstep so I don't have to travel such a long distance as yourself to avail myself if what's on offer. In Asia we can have sex with the boy of our dreams everyday. So that's what I do.

It doesn't get better than that!

[Nirish guy]

Ha ha I literally lol'd out loud at some of A447s comments above with my alleged sexual proclivities, I was about to state that he was WAY off the mark and I wasn't half as busy on as he suggested but when I thought to "some" of the situations Ive found myself in I had to have a wee giggle to myself and think "Aye right enough that was fun" - BUT I'm also happy / unhappy to admit that like everyone else im not getting any longer and the days of apparent non stop shagginv action are of course lessening and im sure "on average" my average hit rate is not much differnt to anyone else's these days ie the same two or three spread over a day night just like A447 and im sure many others.

Although I'm still happy that on occassion a few times over a trip I still have a few wee bursts of go mad Yee haa action when corrupted by others and go a bit nuts and quickly build up the batting average a tad, but even with those crazy times thrown into the pot my "fun" is im sorry to say nowhere in the range that A447 may suggest lol - but I thank him for the compliment ( if it even is one ?) none the less - although when I read HIS reports im seriously thinking that his compliments may in fact be a well thought out smoke screen to hide his OWN actions of him currently being the biggest whoremaster on the board :-)

[latintopxxx]

A bit hesitant to jump in here and spoil the a447/Nirish mutual admiration love fest. Personally I find that my sex drive goes into overdrive when I arrive in Thailand(will fuck 3 times plus/day) but find that by the 8 or 9th day the novelty starts to wear off and my drive drops to normal levels which is once /day. However what still distinguishes Thailand is the level of quality, cost and availability of willing partners...far superior to anything available in Europe.

[christianpfc]

Always curious to read what others are up to (unless it's boring or unrealistic, then I will skip).

I wish more members shared real conversations from gayromeo or Line (unfortunately, grindr doesn't allow to export conversations in any form, all I can do is take screenshots), or facebook or email if you use these (I don't).

[lego]

I wish more members shared real conversations from gayromeo or Line (unfortunately, grindr doesn't allow to export conversations in any form, all I can do is take screenshots), or facebook or email if you use these (I don't).
What's so interesting about that? Reading about people's exploits can be fun, but reading in detail how they make the arrangements with those they meet online? Quite boring, I think.

[christianpfc]

If you read my reports and blog, there is a lot that can go wrong and often does go wrong from first "hello" online to finally meeting in person (or more often not meeting in real life). I'm curious about other's experiences, in detail, not just "found a boy on gayromeo and he was in my room 20 minutes later", which gives a totally wrong impression about online dating.

[Nirish guy]

But Christian a lot of the time it IS just as easy as that......maybe it's just you who finds ( causes) complications ? I know my usual chat would be "where are you, what you looking for, maybe how much you pay me ( which I hate) and then me either saying "ok come on (or not)" depending on my preference. The only dramas that I encounter are maybe if they are farther away where a time delay might occur where they're trying to convince me they'll be there in 15 minutes and I KNOW they won't be ( although some times they do amaze me and are there in less) but even then with Grindr etc you can see if the guy has left his location and IS on his way to you when he claims to be and if his distance away doesn't change when he says he's on his way I tell him to forget it and move on, but that rarely happens.

[latintopxxx]

well each to his own, Christian likes detail , nirish doesnt...so what. I find Christians blog real interestuing and read it regularly. Love the attention to detail and tips.

[Nirish guy]

well each to his own, Christian likes detail , nirish doesnt...so what.

Actually i didn't comment at all about liking detail or not but simply posted my own experience of my typical online chat experiences as just suggested by Christian.

[anonone]

I have to say, my on-line GR chats are very similar to NIrish's experience.

During my last trip, we decided to find a friend on GR for some fun in the room before heading out for the evening. There were probably about 4 short messages back and forth in total. A greeting (Hi), what we are looking for (3some sex) including terms and our picture, where is our room, and then phone number exchange with ETA. Guy showed up exactly as expected and we all had a good time.

Unless you are looking for something extremely specific and detailed, it can really be that easy....at least in Pattaya.

[fountainhall]

In the West, gay sex of the type I enjoy here is just not available if you are, say,over 40. The cut-off in Japan is early thirties
Did you really write that? Usually I agree with a447, but after many dozens of visits to Japan over many years I can definitely say the cut-off date is decades later than 30! I agree that younger Japanese increasingly want to be with other younger Japanese or foreigners. But anyone checking the various social networking sites or visiting the 24 Kaikan saunas will find there are still younger Japanese who really do like being with older foreigners. Thankfully!

[a447]

I was making a comment on Japanese society in general; it is a society which focuses very much on youth. This, of course, also extends to us gay guys. But if course you can still meet up with some curious guys in places like 24 Ksikan. I had a great time there but they weren't lining up to ravage me...lol. It was basically young guys in their twenties having sex with each other. I'm just speaking from my own personal experience. I used to visit a number of gay cinemas in my youth and being a foreigner, I was immediately pounced on and surrounded by young guys wanting to grab my cock and arse. But that petered out noticibly when I hit my thirties. It was basically young on young.

As for social networking sites, I've never used them. Mmm....maybe something to look into.

[christianpfc]

maybe how much you pay me

There we go, that's the difference I forgot. I mainly look for unpaid encounters online, and had a few that were on time after efficient communication. The few moneyboys I had online were ok (on time, efficient communication) as well.

And then there are other cases, where I chat with a boy over weeks (that was when I was still working) where and when we can meet, finally give up, and then weeks later he remembers me, just when his rent is due. Then I show some pride and say "FUCK YOU" (not litereally), play this game with someone else.

I really have been through a lot of bullshit. Like the boy suggesting I pick him up because we are so far apart (logic dictates that he is as far away from me as I am from him, there is nothing gained when I pick him up, take him to my room, and then give him money for taxi so he can go back to his room, but that's exactly what he suggested!).

Distances in Bangkok can be a problem. I was chatting on Line with a boy from gboysiam, he wrote he will not travel that far (from Ramkhamhaeng to Sathorn, 20 km, one hour by bus). Spoiled brat!

[Gaybutton]

If you read my reports and blog.
Christianpfc, I've seen several posts from you referring to your blog. I might even read your blog if I knew how to find it. Hasn't it occurred to you that not everyone knows how to find your blog? I suggest including a link to it whenever you refer to it or, better still, create a signature for your posts that contain the link.

If you don't know how to create a signature, go to USER CONTROL PANEL, click on the PROFILE tab, and then you'll see the 'edit signature' box.

[anonone]

maybe how much you pay me

There we go, that's the difference I forgot. I mainly look for unpaid encounters online, and had a few that were on time after efficient communication. The few moneyboys I had online were ok (on time, efficient communication) as well.

Distances in Bangkok can be a problem. I was chatting on Line with a boy from gboysiam, he wrote he will not travel that far (from Ramkhamhaeng to Sathorn, 20 km, one hour by bus). Spoiled brat!

I have no experience in Bangkok with GR, but I can see how you are having a much different experience if you are looking for non-money boys. Gay Romeo then becomes much more like a match-making site then a sex encounter site. And I am not sure about assuming spoiled brat status for someone that doesn't want to travel one hour for a date. I wouldn't want to do that....though I may be a spoiled brat as well...have to think about that. LOL

And GayButton is correct, it would be great if you create a signature with a link to your blog (which I enjoy reading as well). Makes it easy for people to take a look...

[Nirish guy]

Just for the record Christian and re your expectations perhaps simetimes being to high / skewed I too was just about to add the same comment as Anon as to whether it be here at home and most certainly if in Bangkok with its crazy traffic but I definitely wouldn't travel 20kms on a bus to meet ANYONE - hell I just wouldn't travel on a bus never mind 20kms but that's more to do WITH being a spoilt queen than anything else lol but I digress ..... But on the few occasions I have been speaking to guys who've messaged ME on a non money basis ( and nearly always but not exclusively when in Bangkok) ive found that they were generally quite happy to travel into town, especially if either a proper "date" ie drinks or dinner was involved or even if just an over night at my hotel, but normally I declined such offers as I couldn't be arsed beung lumbered with some guy who figured he was there for the duration simply BECAUSE he's bothered to travel and I much prefered someone local who I could extricate myself from much more quickly as and when I decided to.

[Jellybean]

... I was chatting on Line with a boy from gboysiam, he wrote he will not travel that far (from Ramkhamhaeng to Sathorn, 20 km, one hour by bus). Spoiled brat!
When I read your above comment this morning ChristianPFC I must admit that I laughed out loud. Now, whether he really is a spoiled brat is impossible for me to say.

... And I am not sure about assuming spoiled brat status for someone that doesn't want to travel one hour for a date. I wouldn't want to do that....though I may be a spoiled brat as well...have to think about that. LOL
And, as IтАЩve never had the pleasure of meeting anonone, I couldnтАЩt possibly say if he too deserves the cognomen spoiled brat. All I know is he does have an aversion to meeting anyone who has lost their mojo in case it is infectious. LOL!

But expecting a potential sexual contact to travel across Bangkok doesnтАЩt seem unduly arduous to me, especially if an offer was made to pay his travel costs. In fact, IтАЩve had several lads from various parts of Thailand endure 10-12 hour bus journeys to come and meet me. And, to show itтАЩs not just a one way street, IтАЩve flown to several regions of Thailand to meet new contacts. On one occasion I even paid for a guy to fly up from the south of Thailand to meet me in Bangkok. Hmm тАж I must have been feeling overly generous that day. :)

But not everything has gone smoothly, there have been times when new contacts havenтАЩt turned up at the agreed meeting place. My usual reaction is to shrug my shoulders and say, well, you win some, you lose some (but through gritted teeth). ;) It never occurred to me to brand them as spoiled brats. But thereтАЩs a thought. LOL!

Maybe in your case Christian the boy was engrossed in a Thai TV soap opera? I know from past experience it can be difficult to tear them away from their beloved soaps. Did you tell him you donтАЩt possess a TV by any chance?

[christianpfc]

Christianpfc, I've seen several posts from you referring to your blog. I might even read your blog if I knew how to find it. Hasn't it occurred to you that not everyone knows how to find your blog? I suggest including a link to it whenever you refer to it or, better still, create a signature for your posts that contain the link.

Good idea, just did so. I thought everyone knew already.

The boy who didn't want to travel 20 km advertised as a moneyboy on gboysiam (I think everyone there is looking for money), therefore it's a bit strange he doesn't want to travel. Or he has enough local customers.

For the boy who wanted me to pick him up at his place (and then go back to my room, or maybe he was hoping I would just hand over the money without sexual services) read here:

http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/0 ... plans.html (http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/01/dating-thai-boys-x-mob-thwarts-my-plans.html)

I frequently travel 20 km / 1 hour on Bangkok buses (sometimes standing, no aircon); if a boy tells me he doesn't know how to use buses (I'm speaking of experience!) or doesn't want to use bus because he thinks I will pay for taxi, he is a spoiled brat. I wouldn't expect others to do things I don't do myself, but I do travel 20 km by bus for a date in rare cases.

[colmx]

if a boy tells me he doesn't know how to use buses (I'm speaking of experience!)
My BF is living on Bang Na area for 2 years now and he has still not figured out how to use the buses... Why bother when the taxis are so cheap!

[a447]

I wouldn't expect others to do things I dont do myself

Some boys may find this very limiting...lol

[latintopxxx]

exactly. I hire a cleaner because I couldnt be bothred cleaning my apartment or doing laundry. Hire a gogo because I do not want to have to bother about his needs/feelings...its all about the cash..a purely physical release. Good to see a447 and me on the same page. Scary!!

[AsDaRa]

exactly. I hire a cleaner because I couldnt be bothred cleaning my apartment or doing laundry. Hire a gogo because I do not want to have to bother about his needs/feelings...its all about the cash..a purely physical release. Good to see a447 and me on the same page. Scary!!

But I also saw men who truly date their boys. I for example took one with me to diner and another to a shopping mall (all besides the sex of course; which is the prime reason to have the boy in the first place).
I got the idea many men I saw spend a few hours with their boy and are not into it for only the sex and then say goodbye. But they really invest some hours in the boy.
For example some men pick up a boy from a Gogo bar and then do not go immediately to hotel for sex, bur remain seated for a while to watch a show for example. And only then go to hotel.

[AsDaRa]

Jelly, please don't confuse my sexploits with those of NIrish. They are chalk and cheese...lol

I only have sex two or three times a day on average. Our friend has sex twice or three times an hour! He's fucking unbelievable.


You cum also 3 times a day, each day? This is for most men above age 40 impossible. To ejaculate 3 times a day for days in a row. Or for you sex is also when you receive or give blowjob but do not cum? That is included in the count?

[AsDaRa]

A bit hesitant to jump in here and spoil the a447/Nirish mutual admiration love fest. Personally I find that my sex drive goes into overdrive when I arrive in Thailand(will fuck 3 times plus/day) but find that by the 8 or 9th day the novelty starts to wear off and my drive drops to normal levels which is once /day. However what still distinguishes Thailand is the level of quality, cost and availability of willing partners...far superior to anything available in Europe.

If you fuck 3 times a day; then on day 5 is there still sperm left? You must have dry orgasms I suppose when you are a few days into your holiday? I mean on day 4 you already have 9 ejaculations behind you.

[latintopxxx]

I'm still quite a few summers away from 50...have no problem performing 2 or 3 times a day for 7 days in a row. something about Thailand that does it. In Europe I definitely slow down, especially in winter. If i have a 2 week stay in Thailand by the 7th day I start looking at kamagra every 2nd day to keep my motor going...after all so many men...so little time.

[AsDaRa]

I'm still quite a few summers away from 50...have no problem performing 2 or 3 times a day for 7 days in a row. something about Thailand that does it. In Europe I definitely slow down, especially in winter. If i have a 2 week stay in Thailand by the 7th day I start looking at kamagra every 2nd day to keep my motor going...after all so many men...so little time.

But after day 4 or so your orgasms must be dry? In the first 3 days you must have shot your total load (I mean 9 ejaculations)..there is no time for the body to create new sperm I think. But I am no expert.
You are an exception in age then. Most men I saw were above 50, maybe some end 40. but then I wasn't there in high season. Maybe then men in their 20s, 30s also visit?

Do you in Europe date men your own age or you also date guys 18-25? But they cost too much here.

[a447]

do not want to have to bother about his needs/feelings...its all about the cash..a purely physical release. Good to see a447 and me on the same page. Scary!!

Sorry Latin, we are not on the same page. AsDaRa has got the right idea. I don't just off a boy, take him to the hotel and have my way with him. We go out for drinks, dinner...maybe go to play video games. I always let him choose the restaurant and what other activities he wants to do. I'm not looking for a relationship with the boys, but it's good for them to know that it's not just a quick fuck I'm after. Im actually interested in them as people and their particular story. That's the reason I have attempted (but mostly failed!) to learn Thai.

AsDaRa, it's certainly possible to cum 2 or 3 times a day, every day for weeks on end. I've been doing that every holiday I go on since god knows when without the use of Viagra or its derivatives. Of course the cumshot diminishes significantly as time goes by, but I'm just after the orgasm. The only cumshot I'm interested in is that of the guy; I'm sure he couldn't give a shit about mine. And sex always ends in me cumming - I couldn't imagine having sex and not cumming. What's the point?

As Latin says, so many men...so little time.

I'm certainly no exception. My sex-obsessed Japanese friends can outperform me every day of the week.

[AsDaRa]

AsDaRa, it's certainly possible to cum 2 or 3 times a day, every day for weeks on end.

Ok, what is your age? 40s? 50s?

Maybe you are right. The only reason I haven't tried it myself is, that I am afraid the next day I can't perform. So I will give it a try next time when I am there. I will then try to get 2 orgasm a day.
I do notice that the longer the holiday lasts the more I need to invest in foreplay to get aroused and an erection.
In the start of the holiday the boy only has to undress and I get hard, but after a few days I need foreplay to get myself into it. Also maybe because in the back of my mind there is that fear I can't perform. Maybe its only psychological. Also the 5th day you get hard as easy as the first day? Or you need longer foreplay also?

Also 3 boys each day is about 5000 baht each day. That means in a 7 day trip you spend 35.000 baht on boys alone. That is a lot of money.

[lego]

not just "found a boy on gayromeo and he was in my room 20 minutes later", which gives a totally wrong impression about online dating.
I don't think it does, many people on GayRomeo are looking for an instant hook-up. It could be argued that you waste too much time with those who seem reluctant to meet you.

But okay, your hope seems to be that you can improve your own success rate by reading some other people's chats. They might do something in a different way that you figure you can learn from. Hard to say if that would work, but yes, it might.

[christianpfc]

To whom it might concern, for me sex every other day, or sometimes twice per week, is enough.

Someone wrote somewhere: "I have sex in the morning, midday, in the afternoon, in the evening and at night. Unless I'm horny, then more often".


But I also saw men who truly date their boys. I for example took one with me to diner and another to a shopping mall (all besides the sex of course; which is the prime reason to have the boy in the first place).
I got the idea many men I saw spend a few hours with their boy and are not into it for only the sex and then say goodbye. But they really invest some hours in the boy.
For example some men pick up a boy from a Gogo bar and then do not go immediately to hotel for sex, bur remain seated for a while to watch a show for example. And only then go to hotel.

I used to do or at least try this years ago when I was new, but now I'm jaded. Unless you have known the boy for a while, do you think he cares about going for dinner with your or watching the show? I guess most boys think "fuck me, pay me, let me go back to the bar / to my room". Shopping might be different, if you buy something for him. But I'm not into shopping, so I won't take a boy shopping.

The worst example is my very first off, I took him to Walking street thinking he might find it entertaining, and when we were back in my room, the set-up phone call from mamasan: boy has to go back now. I wasted my one or two hours short time parading the boy through Walking Street, instead of going back to my hotel room.

[AsDaRa]

The worst example is my very first off, I took him to Walking street thinking he might find it entertaining, and when we were back in my room, the set-up phone call from mamasan: boy has to go back now. I wasted my one or two hours short time parading the boy through Walking Street, instead of going back to my hotel room.

I didn't know there was a time limit involved. I never got to hear: "1500 baht for 1 hour" or "for 2 hours". They just say 1500 for the boy without mentioning a time when he has to be back.
I got the idea many men have the boy with them for a few hours at least. Do not some even have them the whole night over in their bed, sleeping?

[a447]

Yes, it does require more foreplay to get hard as the trip goes on, but so far so good - touch wood (pardon the pun!)

And yes I guess it does cost quite a lot but, as they say, YOLO. I've been travelling now for over 3 weeks so I suppose it does add up. The 10 days in Pattaya turned out to be very expensive - I don't know where the money went, but I had the time of my life. I think it was worth every single baht. And at the end of the day, you can't take it with you and you don't need money when you are a drooling vegetable in an old peoples home...lol.

After the fun it is always up to the boy to go or stay. I find they are in no hurry to go and often want to sit and chat for a while. There is no specific time limit for short time, as far as I know; I leave it up to the guy. In fact, I leave everything up to the guy. Usually we spent 1 hour having sex and a couple of hours chatting. This is only a recent phenomenon for me, as in the past many boys in Bangkok left as soon as the sex had finished. I don't know why they stay these days, but I'm certainly not complaining! I have a regular guy in Pattaya so that's never a problem.

[latintopxxx]

again, each to his own. I really have no interest in socialising with them. maybe I'm missing out on something and will discover it later on and get to enjoy the social interaction. But just engaging them for a set period of time for a physical thing ticks every single box i can think of. I dont want to shop (horrors) with hm, I dont even enjoy shopping for myself so why would I put myself through that. I dont wanna eat with him...would put me off sex the way they hoover the stuff down their throats. No, I keep it very basis...let them stick to their core business.

[Gaybutton]

again, each to his own.
I agree. Regarding graphic trip reports, whether true,exaggerated, or somebody just made it all up, I'm still capable of deciding whether I want to read them and whether I want to believe them. If some want to write these "tell all" graphic reports, I see no reason to object to them.

[christianpfc]

The worst example is my very first off, I took him to Walking street thinking he might find it entertaining, and when we were back in my room, the set-up phone call from mamasan: boy has to go back now. I wasted my one or two hours short time parading the boy through Walking Street, instead of going back to my hotel room.

I didn't know there was a time limit involved. I never got to hear: "1500 baht for 1 hour" or "for 2 hours". They just say 1500 for the boy without mentioning a time when he has to be back.
I got the idea many men have the boy with them for a few hours at least. Do not some even have them the whole night over in their bed, sleeping?

I have never heard of a time limit, and neither boy or mamasan mentioned a time limit. It was more a case that the boy correctly assumed I was new to this offing business, pulled this trick (phone call) and it worked to his advantage.

Whole night is a different story, that's what we call "long time".

[latintopxxx]

short time can mean anything, like as soon as you have cum the date is over. I always .....ALWAYS...negotiate a set time frame, up to 3 hours. Love the look on the boys face when I come back for 2nds and he realises that the date is not over.

[werner]

I think detailed, salacious reports are fine, as long as they are well-written.

But most of the reports seem to describe fantasies rather than actual experiences.

[Moses]

But most of the reports seem to describe fantasies rather than actual experiences.

Since most of publishers of reports at past 3 years are clients of Siamroads (I mean not global, but here or at GT), I may testify what reports aren't fantasies :) At least in part what describes activity outside of hotel's rooms.

[arsenal]

I do not want to read graphic reports of the way past their sell by date coffin dodging nonagenarian's that inhabit this place.

[francois]

Never heard/read of that word, nonagenarian and had to look it up.
How cruel Arsenal,coffin dodgers, have some respect for your elders!

[bobsaigon2]

Don't know who Arsenal is referring to. The two usual star reporters are well below 50 and any other reports are probably created by trolls.

[arsenal]

It's a constant problem for the boys, judging the age of the john. Old enough that he can't do it for long but not so old that he's likely to conk out halfway through. But what a way to go. Haha.

[FarangRuMak]

I found a Chinese guy on the Internet who tells you how to strengthen the muscle that causes orgasm and ejaculation when it goes into spasm. When you carry out his suggested exercise for a week or more you can orgasm without ejaculating. This is important because the seminal fluid amount decreases dramatically every year after around 50 for most men.
The great thing about this exercise is it can be done sitting down watching TV etc.

[AsDaRa]

I found a Chinese guy on the Internet who tells you how to strengthen the muscle that causes orgasm and ejaculation when it goes into spasm. When you carry out his suggested exercise for a week or more you can orgasm without ejaculating. This is important because the seminal fluid amount decreases dramatically every year after around 50 for most men.
The great thing about this exercise is it can be done sitting down watching TV etc.

Isn't it dangerous to orgasm while at the same time forefully prevent the sperm to flow? Can this not have bad repercursions?
Biologically speaking, for your body?

[francois]

I found a Chinese guy on the Internet who tells you how to strengthen the muscle that causes orgasm and ejaculation when it goes into spasm. When you carry out his suggested exercise for a week or more you can orgasm without ejaculating. This is important because the seminal fluid amount decreases dramatically every year after around 50 for most men.
The great thing about this exercise is it can be done sitting down watching TV etc.

I think that is called masturbation?

[frequent]

Never heard/read of that word, nonagenarian and had to look it up.
How cruel Arsenal,coffin dodgers, have some respect for your elders!Whereas Pattaya is known as Thailand's answer to "God's Waiting Room (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gods%20waiting%20room)"

[Yraen]

GB, did you read the last line in Christian's post? The bit in blue?

[FarangRuMak]

+AsDaRa
No holding back of Cum is involved because for older men there's none there as it takes a week or more to create new stuff following ejaculation.
+Francois
This is a hands free exercise so no masturbation in the normal sense is involved.
The aim of the excercise is to achieve orgasm without ejaculation. This will appeal to tops I expect.
Nobody seems to want to learn the technique so everyone out there in this forum obviously has the body of 20 year olds.

[frequent]

No holding back of Cum is involved because for older men there's none there as it takes a week or more to create new stuff following ejaculation.A fabulous ageist comment but completely untrue. Recent medical research encourages frequent ejaculation as guys get older, as the flushing of the seminal fluid is now thought to be a preventative for prostate cancer (you can look it up yourself; there's a fabulous new thing on the Interweb called a Search Engine - irony intended)

[FarangRuMak]

Thank you.
I'll have to stop extrapolating my short-cum-ings to other Octogenarians.