Pain in the arse part 2

[a447]

I finally did it-I managed to bottom!!

It happened at the 24 Kaikan sauna, about which I've posted a comprehensive report in the Global Forum.

I was lying on a lower bunk bed when I felt a hand run up my leg. He started playing around between my legs -I was lying on my stomach-when suddenly I heard the snap of a condom being put on.

" yamete!Dekinai!" I whispered (stop. I can't do that")

"Dekiru sa," he relied. (Yes, you can.")

I was panicking, as I remembered the pain I felt when the massage guy in Pattaya tried to fuck me. But I also remembered all the tips a forum member told me when we met in Pattaya so I asked him to take his time. "Yukkuri, yukkuri," ( slowly)

He inserted a finger up my arse -slowly as requested-and worked on me for about 15 minutes. He then did a very Japanese technique which is called "hachi no ji wo kaku" which means to move your finger/cock as if you are writing the number 8. The longer he did it the better it felt. I got to the point where I was about to ask him to stick his cock in. I reached back to make sure he was still wearing the condom and was surprised to feel a rather nice sized cock, hard as an iron rod. He must have taken that as a sign to get down to business. He managed to get the head in and then just remained still until I got used to it. He then asked me if he could proceed. Yukkuri, yukkuri.

He entered me and then it started to get quite painful, although nothing like my previous experience. He got in balls deep and then waited again before starting to slowly fuck me. It got a bit more painful but the pain was mixed with incredible pleasure. It was the weirdest of feelings. How can something painful be so pleasurable?

He then got into a rhythm and I found myself being fucked! At last!! I was yelping, moaning, oo-ing and ah-ing with every stroke, just as loud as the Japanese bottoms, but I didn't care. By the end he was fucking me like there was no tomorrow, deep and hard. He blew his load after about 20 minutes ( I'm guessing here, but it seemed to go on forever).

He thanked me ( this is Japan) and then gave me a soft pat on the bum and disappeared, leaving me begging for more.

I still can't believe I've finally succeeded and I now know why guys become bottoms; the pleasure is indescribable.

I only hope that I'll be able to do it again next time.

Losing my virginity at 24 Kaikan in Shinjuku ni chome - who would have thought!

[LoveThailand]

This is a road I have taken too - bottoming for the first time rather late. I am glad I have - now I can go both ways and enjoy both topping and bottoming.
Congrats, a447 on broadening your horizons :)

[a447]

And did the pain eventually go away? I mean can you bottom now without feeling any discomfort?

[Jellybean]

I was surprised to read that itтАЩs taken you so long to experience the pleasures of being a bottom a447.

It seemed to be my allocated position when I started having my first sexual experiences as a young and na├пve gay man. But as I gained experience I soon discovered that I preferred to top, although from time to time I was happy to switch roles, just for a different feeling of pleasure. But with the advent of HIV/AIDS IтАЩm afraid I just couldnтАЩt get any pleasure out of using a condom and only top these days (with a condom) when pressed to do so by the boy IтАЩm with.

But now I am a reluctant bottom once again as my current Thai boyfriend likes to top, but has declined to even try changing our roles, citing it would be too painful. I donтАЩt seem to get any pleasure out of being a bottom anymore, but he seems to enjoy it. When I see him again IтАЩll have to try and remember to describe your experience, although I fear heтАЩll still be reluctant to change roles. :(

[Smiles]

" ... I finally did it - I managed to bottom!! .. "
=)) =)) a447 you are an absolute delight.

Lately I've started collecting quotes for the long-missing Yuk Yuk Awards.
At first I thought of highlighting the leaden Socialist Realism of the official Board Commie, Mr~I've-never-met-a-member-of-Hamas-I-would-not-blow'~Oliver ... but on second thought it's probably a more wise quest to use a few of your refreshing comic moments of your annual Thailand sexual agonistes.
Keep it up, babe. "hachi no ji wo kaku" indeed. :)) By the way, I believe that the Number 8 was once branded upon the foreheads of women who, (1) were found to be witches, or who, (2) had 'fucked around' with just about every willing Puritan male in Salem. Sorry, but I can find nothing in the historical sources which indicate any occurrences of anal mining.

[Impulse]

Congrats 447, it's about time you bottomed for a change!
I lost my virginity two trips ago from a guy I met on GR.i couldn't stay hard so he suggested topping me.i reluctantly agreed and remember raising my arms to stop him as the pain was intense. He would keep tossing my arms back down not taking no for an answer. Maybe it was about ten or fifteen minutes later it turned into pure pleasure. I was totally amazed. Like a bitch in heat I kept insisting he fuck me and not stop. He was spent though as sweat dripped from him onto me and insisted coming twice was enough.

Maybe it felt so good because his dick curved upwards and he was very well hung, possibly massaging my prostrate, I don't know. But it opens up many more possibilities for the future. Yes I was strictly a top for years also.

[francois]

I was surprised to read that itтАЩs taken you so long to experience the pleasures of being a bottom a447.


For me, " It is an honour that I dream not of." (name that quote)

[a447]

Start dreamin', Francois.
It's not the nightmare some think it is!

Hi, Jelly,
I've always been fascinated with guys who bottom as it seems such an alien thing to do. But over the years I've seen lots of Japanese guys in our clubs bottoming and could see that they were obviously in raptures-there's got to be something in this, I thought. And most of the bottoms were insatiable - they are Japanese after all, hehe - and couldn't get enough cock! After our first visit to 24 Kaikan my mate just couldn't get over how much fun the bottoms were having, and neither could I. That's why I decided to give it another go.
I'm now, hopefully, able to enjoy both sides of gay sex. So tell your bf he doesn't know what he's missing!

[Maxxy]

Congrats a447, I have only bottomed once before (to a ladyboy) but it was just so so, I guess she wasn't really into it. In a weeks time I will be at Hero and experiencing a true bottom experience and am hoping the boy is into it more than the ladyboy was (yes I'm another late starter to bottoming).

[LoveThailand]

And did the pain eventually go away? I mean can you bottom now without feeling any discomfort?

It is important to take things slowly, and to relax. There could be an initial moment of pain - which quickly goes away - and then it's pure bliss :)
And do not forget about lube - lots of it....

[Jellybean]

I was surprised to read that itтАЩs taken you so long to experience the pleasures of being a bottom a447.


For me, " It is an honour that I dream not of." (name that quote)
Come on Fran├зois youтАЩve got to try it at least once! YouтАЩve got no excuse, you are in the right place at the right time surrounded by lots of Thai boys able and willing to introduce you to the delights of being a bottom. Go on, add it to your bucket list! :ymparty:

And one last thing, as LoveThailand said, remember to use lots of lube!

Oh тАж and in answer to your question, I didnтАЩt know the quote so I Googled it тАж ah, Romeo and Juliet Act I. Scene III тАж of course, shame on me for not knowing it!

[a447]

you are in the right place at the right time surrounded by lots of Thai boys able and willing to introduce you to the delights of being a bottom

Problem is, they are so well hung and I don't know if I could handle an Isaan cock just yet. But always up for a challenge...lol

[Jellybean]

If I remember correctly a447 a recurring theme through many of your highly enjoyable trip reports is your endless search and preference for boys with big cocks. So given your newly found flexible sexual status, you could perhaps return to your old hunting grounds and seek out the boys with smaller cocks whom you previously dismissed as being inadequate.

Having said that however, I was once told by a friend in London, who just loves getting fucked, that it is the smaller cocks that cause the most pain.

My only personal confirmation of this is an incident that sticks out in my memory. I met a guy in Russell Square, London (a well-known gay cruising area at the time) one night. Normally sexual activity would take place in the square. But this particular night the guy invited me back to his flat, which he said was quite close and within walking distance.

He had a very large cock and indicated that he wanted to fuck me. I was reluctant to allow him to do so, indicating that I thought he was just too big and it would be very painful. He assured me that he could perform the act without causing me any pain тАж he was a bit of a smooth talker! Well, as it turned out, he wasnтАЩt lying. It was extremely pleasurable, in fact, so much so that it was one of the few times that I can recall having a double orgasm.

So maybe you shouldnтАЩt rule out entirely one of those reputedly large ├м-s─Гan cocks and shock one of your regulars by suggesting a role reversal. :)

[francois]

Come on Fran├зois youтАЩve got to try it at least once!

I didnтАЩt know the quote so I Googled it тАж ah, Romeo and Juliet Act I. Scene III тАж of course, shame on me for not knowing it!

I tried it twice and twas enough for a lifetime.

Yes, it was the dear Juliet although I don't believe she was speaking of getting it up the ass.

I have bottomed sometimes but whenever I do I spend all my time thinking isnt he finished YET and god this is boring. I mean whats the point? I do find guys fingering me hole and all that very stimulating but putting it in? They lose me there.

[Impulse]

Not sure if I'm allowed a link, so google Just Us Boys. Go to the health section and they have an"all about ass" thread that is helpful if you're thinking of bottoming. Lots of info.

[Maxxy]

rocket, thanks for that, should be a help for me

[a447]

Very interesting info on that site.
Thanks, Rocket.

[BenCH]

Not sure if I'm allowed a link, so google Just Us Boys. Go to the health section and they have an"all about ass" thread that is helpful if you're thinking of bottoming. Lots of info.

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[TravellerDave]

Up to two years ago I avoided being bottom following a bad experience some ten years ago when on holiday in the gay resort of Playa del Ingles. However this changed whilst having a massage in the Jomtien Centre. I had raised my ass to allow the massage boy better access to my dick and balls so he decided I wanted to be fucked. Before I realised what was happening he had put a lubed condom on and had rolled on the bed behind me and was pressing his cock into me. The pain was not intense and subsided when he was fully in. He expertly topped me till he came. I left the massage cubicle in a daze and walked around for a whIle coming to terms with what happened.
Now I think of myself as versatile and enjoy the excitement of being topped from time to time especially by boys in Pattaya.

[loke]

wow are you all tops on this forum ?

I enjoyed my first dick when I was 16 . I'm versatile and it depends in which mood I am in , mostly top these days.