Bangkok Newbie

[Bottom-Mike]

New to this forum and just coming out. What are the best places to pick up a top? Ive been to the pay 4 play girl clubs, but have not tried the boy clubs.

Any recommendations?

Thanks,

Mike

In my experience you'll find a significant price variation between girl bars and boy bars. As I recall the drink prices are often cheaper as is the "off" fee in girl bars but the girl expects more money. In boy bars it's the opposite. That's my memory Fromm few years ago but my days of swinging are over now and I stick with boys. If you believe half what you're told here then most of the boys in gay bars are actually straight so they would be quite happy to top.

[loke]

The problem is to find a top boy who is actually gay .

I am looking for bottoms myself so thats a lot easier to spot.

I hate to have sex when both of us are not enjoying it .

[RonanTheBarbarian]

Are you just wondering about Bangkok, or are you wondering about Pattaya as well? This board is usually better for advice on Pattaya.

Some bars that have a lot of tops in Bangkok would include Jupiter and Tawan, to name two, but most would have their share of of top guys - just say to the mamasan that you want a top.

But there are other issues too...in Jupiter a lot of the guys are straight, (which may or may not be a disadvantage in your eyes) and Tawan specialises in muscle guys. They may be "top", but some of them dont really want to do anal at all. (they expect that you will be interested mainly in muscle worship, and maybe sucking then off).

I find that some of the best tops are not the most masculine or muscular, but those guys who have a concern that the bottom is having a good time. If your trip is immanent, I can give you the number of a really nice top guy from Dreamboys, who is a good top even though he is quite slight and slim.

[Bottom-Mike]

Thanks everyone for the feedback.

My visits are primarily Bangkok but my April trip will have a short visit to Hau Hin.

Maybe I am to shy, but the Patpong Soi 2 and 4 area is a tad intimidating and confusing.

Appreciate everyone's time and advice......

Mike

[pong]

For a clear understanding: soi 2+4 is mainly meet/in the ''western'' way.
The mentioned ''clubs'' have gogodancing and you off those boys 94/500 THB currently) and pay them for services. You are ''customer=client, who hires someone for service.
IF you want more discreet-maybe try one of the 50+ massageshops that offer more-most are well oustide that Silom-tourist ghettto area. See thaimassageboy for some adverts. HERO tends to get good mentions-but I was not at all impressed by them (far end of Sukh soi 11). There you pay the shop for service-fixed price-mostly 5/600 or so, plus tip to boy (minim. often stated).

[Bottom-Mike]

That explains why I have not found the P4P clubs on Soi 2 & 4 - I thought those were the only ones.....

[Jellybean]

Bottom-Mike the street (soi) you are looking for in Bangkok is referred to here by some members as тАШsoi TwilightтАЩ. I think its actual Thai name is soi pratuu-chai which I think you should ask for if you find yourself lost. It is at the top end of t├б-n┼Пn suriwong (Suriwong Road) towards Rama IV Road. There you will find the majority of BangkokтАЩs gay go-go bars and I feel sure you will find a top in any one of the bars.

I am attaching a photo of тАШsoi TwilightтАЩ taken during the day.

If you have the time, I think quite a few members here would be interested in reading your account of a first timerтАЩs experience of the gay тАШflesh potsтАЩ of Bangkok. : )

[Bottom-Mike]

@JellyBean - Perfect! Im pretty sure I should be able to find this time. The picture is much appreciated.

Will visit Monday or Tuesday - stay tuned :-)

[latintopxxx]

bottom mike must be the only person who visits BKK and fails to find commercial "boys"...am quite sure he couldn't get pissed in a brewery.....

[Bottom-Mike]

@latintopxxx I respect your view point - but the gay side of Bangkok is still new to me and Im looking to learn and trying to avoid mistakes - I know the girl and ladyboy P4P scene very well, but the boy side is new. That is why I posted here for assistance and to avoid going the wrong places.

[latintopxxx]

ok... sorry for being a total bitch...just that from when I first landed in BKIK 8 years ago it took me all of 1/2 a day to find soi twilight....guess you are just a tad more organized.
Enjoy BKK...and Thailand...nothing else like it...