a question for bottoms

[a447]

Just been reading the Wesley thing on the Posting Guidlines forum - what a hoot! Things must be really quiet, both in pattaya and on the board....hehe

Now for a serious question.

We all know that once we've cum, interest in sex dissipates for a while. So my question is: If the bottom cums, is it alright to keep fucking him, or is he no longer gaining any pleasure from the act?

I asked the guy I was fucking last time I was in Pattaya and he indicated that it was sort of ok for him. I felt a bit bad and asked him if I should stop, but he said he didn't mind "Mai pen rai." I just got the feeling he was saying that just to please me and that he really didn't enjoy it anymore. (Before he came, he was really enjoying it!)

If, in fact, the pleasure for the bottom goes once he comes, then I guess I will have to make sure I cum first.

[Impulse]

That's a great question of which I can't wait to hear some answers.

I had a real hot # that shot off during our warm ups to the main event. I asked him if was okay to procede and he said no problem also. I should say she as this fem boi looked justed like a girl. I digress.

anyway, she ended up being a pro and we all left happy. :occasion9:

[SlaveDriver]

Very Good Question. I am not bottom so I dont know the answer.

However, I too have been very keen to learn about this. How is to be a bottom and how do they feel (sexually) when the the dick is in?

I have seen a Thai bottom (Fem) getting fucked for a long time on 2 occasions. On 1 occasion his dick was never hard but slept there in many positions and took it for a long time. On another occasion it was hard as rock and took it the same way for alongtime as before.

Interesting topic to share and compare this experience from a Thai boys point of view. Not from Farang's point of view ..... as the farang queens in Pattaya are retired/old guys who can not even get a errction properly ...... lol .... I am not having a fun at them. Sure we all will get there but still want tohave sex like them ha ha ha ha ha.

Let us share what we heard from Thai guys and share information so we can use that to have better enjoyment next time when we fuck a fem bottom :party :party

[bucknaway]

I don't like being fucked once I have an orgasm and I will try my best not to reach orgasm before they guy fucking me. If he lets me know that he is near climax than I will try to cum along with him. But if I cum too soon then I will try to get them to cum soon before I get them to stop.

I must admit that I often fake my orgasm and that often drives the top guy over the edge and they either cum or fake it also :sign5:

Did you pay him already?

Well even though Slavedriver wants to hear from Thai bottoms, the OP seems to address it to all bottoms.
The answer I would like to give is somewhat the same as Buknaway's. The bottom usually loves for the top to be excited enough to cum nd then the bottom quickly gets off. In the cases that I am well aware of, once the bottom cums, it is pretty unpleasant and they want to stop.

Simple answer as a mostly bottom.

Please stop after I have cum,

I will love to give you head instead and who knows maybe I will get horny again then.

[francois]

If the top is a paying customer, then isn't he entitled to the same satisfaction as his bottom partner?

[bucknaway]

Oh have a heart... hahaha

http://youtu.be/Uai7M4RpoLU

http://youtu.be/Uai7M4RpoLU

Francois, hadn't thought of that, yes, of course!

[a447]

francois wrote
If the top is a paying customer, then isn't he entitled to the same satisfaction as his bottom partner?

Theoretically, yes. But I wouldn't dream of doing something the boy did not enjoy.

[homeseeker]

"the boy", as you put it, is not there to enjoy but there to satisfy the customers needs. So whatever you dream or not dream of doing it should always be remember who is paying for the service and its' the customers enjoyment which is the issue, not the boy, who has a responsibility to give customer satisfaction. People with the attitude of a447 are quite dangerous.

I agree when Im paying the other guy is there to satisfy me his customer.

[a447]

homeseeker wrote:
People with the attitude of a447 are quite dangerous.

Dangerous?? Who? Me?? :sign5:

How?

For me, it is a personal choice. But i can understand that others may feel differently - that they want value for money. I don't criticise them for that.

Up to you.

BTW I can still get value for money - he can finish me off with a blowjob - no worries, I'm happy.

[martin911]

"the boy", as you put it, is not there to enjoy but there to satisfy the customers needs. So whatever you dream or not dream of doing it should always be remember who is paying for the service and its' the customers enjoyment which is the issue, not the boy, who has a responsibility to give customer satisfaction. People with the attitude of a447 are quite dangerous.

Do you really believe in what you wrote ???? You sad Muppet !!

Do you not think that a much better experience will be had by you (the moron who has to pay somebody to have sex with him :laughing3: :laughing3: ) if you actually tried to make sure your partner was enjoying also --its not rocket science now is it !!

My i bet you are a popular guy in Pattaya/Bkk with that attitude ....................

[martin911]

Based on what ive seen it depends on the guy who is bottomning --most will have some degree of pain if you keep fucking them after they have come --but for some that slight pain is irrevelant to the pleasure they are still getting from being fucked !! (by somebody that knows what they are doing 55 )

[lukylok]

There is definetely a degree in pain in getting fucked after having cummed, it is looked as a punition in sm circles.
But if the bottom is a paid professionnal, I doubt he will let himself come before you !

Anyway, for me both partners must have fun, money or not.

[Halfhansum]

"the boy", as you put it, is not there to enjoy but there to satisfy the customers needs. So whatever you dream or not dream of doing it should always be remember who is paying for the service and its' the customers enjoyment which is the issue, not the boy, who has a responsibility to give customer satisfaction. People with the attitude of a447 are quite dangerous.

Unbelievable !!!!! :dontknow:

[a447]

Lukylok wrote:
But if the bottom is a paid professionnal, I doubt he will let himself come before you !

Yeah, but a lot of these bar boys are hardly "professional" when it comes to the art of sex - only when it comes to accepting money for the deed. (That's cool, though. More like fucking the boy next door) I've had a number of boys cum before me, some without even touching themselves. I think I've written about them on this board before. I also remember the time a guy came straight onto the doona cover and I had to ask the staff who make up the room to clean it for me. I tried to explain as discreetly as possible what had happened but in the end, I had to hold up the doona and show her the stains. It was one of the most embarrasing experiences in my life, and I made sure I never ran into her again during my stay at the hotel. I know....I know...they have seen it all before, but still, I found it embarrassing. I now put a towel down...hehe.


Anyway, for me both partners must have fun, money or not.

Agreed.

As Martin said,

My i bet you are a popular guy in Pattaya/Bkk with that attitude ....................


Halfhansum wrote:
Unbelievable !!!!!

Yes, it is.

[martin911]

LOL -- you are shy with a cleaning girl over a few (unless the guy was a gusher 55) spunk stains on a bed cover ????
A well traveled man like yourself !!
Next you will be telling us that you actually blush opun entering a gogo bar !! :happy7: :happy7:

Well a least you know you must have been doing something right for the guy to come in the first place :happy7: :happy7:

Yes a boy coming from poor background and in Pattaya only a few weeks cannot be called a professional--however its amazing how little time it takes for them to "turn" pro so to speak :laughing3: :laughing3:

[christianpfc]

I've had a number of boys cum before me, some without even touching themselves.
That's interesting. My experiences with bottoms are quite different: they don't cum and don't even get hard.

...My experiences with bottoms are quite different: they don't cum and don't even get hard.

Maybe if you turned the lights out.....

:party

[martin911]

I've had a number of boys cum before me, some without even touching themselves.
That's interesting. My experiences with bottoms are quite different: they don't cum and don't even get hard.

Dear oh dear you are leaving yourself WIDE open with THAT remark Christian !!!!!!!

Just goes to show --all the book knowledge in the world still does not compare to good honest groundwork !!!!! :occasion9:

[gaymandenmark]

That's interesting. My experiences with bottoms are quite different: they don't cum and don't even get hard.

I have never been with a bottom who did not cum or had a hardon.
Maybe you should go to a sex school or maybe you just choose the wrong guys who are not really bottoms.
Of course there could be another reason why they don't get hard. :occasion9:

[martin911]

I will point out on behalf of A447 that the above quote was not made by him -but was made by Christian !!

And a very lofty comment by GayD --They ALL cum ??? ,They are ALL hard ????

WOW !!

For me i find its a mixture - some are hard, some are not ,some cum some not (while fucking )

Note to myself -i need to practice MORE so i can be like GayD :bounce: :bounce:

[lukylok]

That's interesting. My experiences with bottoms are quite different: they don't cum and don't even get hard.

I have never been with a bottom who did not cum or had a hardon.

Many bottoms lose their hard-ons when penetrated, however horny and excited !
That has nothing to do with the talent of the top !

[a447]

Martin wrote:
Next you will be telling us that you actually blush opun entering a gogo bar !!

Well.....i did at first. I've been to gay clubs all over the place, but a Thai gogo bar is something I wasn't used to. But it didn't take me long to get over it!

Same when I first took a guy back to the hotel. I wasn't aware that he had to show his ID to the staff at reception. I wondered why he came up to the desk with me, even though I had been frantically waving him away and gesturing for him to go over to the lift. To make things worse, the staff member was a girl!! A girl now knows that I am going to have sex upstairs with another guy!!!! Oh, the shame! The embarrassment. But again, I soon got over it. :sign5:

S-G...you've made my day...again!

[christianpfc]

Dear oh dear you are leaving yourself WIDE open with THAT remark Christian !!!!!!!
I was fully aware of that, but that's what my observations are. The boys these observations are based on seemed 100% bottom to me, but I am not 100% top.

I later found these observations supported by watching some porn (for educational reasons), where the bottom stays soft.

[gaymandenmark]

Oh well dear christianpfc, I prefer porn, and in real life, when the bottom stay hard :tongue3:
Why?
Because then I am sure he likes it.