martin911
March 5th, 2012, 15:18
Last nite i had a pleasant suprise when a dear old friend from Chonburi made a suprise visit to us on his way home from Phitsanoluk --- (you are so right about the hair Colmx - slowly slowly !! ) --he prob misread destination at VC where he boarded the minibus -- :laughing3:
He had been up that part of Thailand attending a short course on plant tissue cultures /seed germination -- (not something many bar boys hanker after ) --but still managed to fit in sex with 3 boys (all together ,as he said his time was short,the little rascal ) - all met via camfrog :hello2:
I met this boy 15 odd months or so - when one nite in T &T he turned to me and asked could he go home with me !! (he never was shy )
Home he came with me along with My Bf and a few others -- that afternoon he came swimming with me in the small pool where i live --and he asked me if it was ok if he could stay in the house until 7 -then he had to go to work in his bar
-- i said yes -- and it ended up that he stayed a little longer than 7 that evening -- lol 13 odd months later he was still here !!
It just sort of evolved -i had spare rooms in house /my Bf liked him but was in Bkk at uni all week /the guy himself is a real diamond --so we asked him to come and stay and he jumped at it --i wont make any bones about it-it was a sexual thing at first for me and bf
But i only paid him the first few offs -- and as we became more friends all that play stopped - (a month at most )
He had been bar boy from 16 - fell out with mama and came to the bright lights of Pattaya - -and was just legal age when i met him -after 2 years he had nothing!!!!! Nothing -- no farang paying him money reg /damm all clothes /no fancy phone etc ----But one thing he has in abundance is his personality :bounce: --- there is just something about him that makes you smile --and i truly can say we had so much laughter and fun with him when he lived here
He spoke passable english when first here ,i bought talking dic for us and as my own guy was pretty fluen so within a few months we could talk/laugh /joke for hours --
He had his own key from day one ,acess to all in the house -my laptop /watch /wallet/ I- Touch etc were never locked away from him -- i trusted him from the start -- and he never let me down in that (so not ALL bar boys are the thieving boys some portray them to be !!!( but i have had a few bad experiences with others )
It was not all plain sailing --he developed a taste for the scourge of many boys in Pattaya -Ice !!
It seemed to happen one time i was away for 2 weeks or so -- and it was easy to see the change in him over a month
He went from a bright smiling bundle of energy to someone that withdrew from the rest of us in the house ,staying in his room a lot ,not eating etc --- i really did not know how to deal with it - i asked all in the house and others how best (i found the other thai boys did not lot of empathy for him ,-he was a little bad with them a few times ,borrow money etc /not repay etc --- but i did not want to confront him and risk him leaving ,thus losing any chance to help him ---- but he knew i was so mad at him for what he was doing --
Then one morning after we came home from a club - he sat down and told me "Martin i stop play ice 6 days now "(the others in house told me that he did this for me , I had been good to him and for him -- and he knew it was upsetting me what he was doing )
So we talked it out --he had played The damm thing before and had stopped (before he moved in to house ) so he said he could do same again - and he did !!! he shunned all friends that played ice ,for the cravings he ate chocolate instead -- i was buying a 6pack of kitkat a day ,he hardly left my side while this was going on -even some mornings (which was when it was worse ) he came and slept in my bed , he didnt want to sleep alone and i did want him rambling out ---- and gradually we got got through it !!
And we got our usual happy fun to be with pal back :love4:
All through the time he lived with us he still worked the bar/gay romeo system -- but not so often -i guess he had a lot of his needs covered here food/bed/whiskey etc --and it never cost me a thought -- he repayed me over and over just by knowing him --
Although his family is only a short distance away he had No contact with them- so sad to see this -then at new year his Gmother passed t,and he went home for funeral --and it seems the relationship has been repaired - he came back in early Jan and moved home - His mama has some flower growing buisness and he has started working with her (hence the Phits visit )
I wasnt sure if he would stay or not but fingers crossed its working so far --time will tell i guess
He has visited us twice -on feb 14 (he stayed 2 nites and went home ) and last nite --and as i watched him go out the door earlier today ,backpack with his books /laptop -- with something concrete (for now ) to do apart from working the bar system in pattaya i had to hold back the tears -- i l love him like a little brother at this stage the brat
And il keep my fingers crossed that he is able to forge some type of life different to what he did in pattaya for 4 years :wave: :wave:
He had been up that part of Thailand attending a short course on plant tissue cultures /seed germination -- (not something many bar boys hanker after ) --but still managed to fit in sex with 3 boys (all together ,as he said his time was short,the little rascal ) - all met via camfrog :hello2:
I met this boy 15 odd months or so - when one nite in T &T he turned to me and asked could he go home with me !! (he never was shy )
Home he came with me along with My Bf and a few others -- that afternoon he came swimming with me in the small pool where i live --and he asked me if it was ok if he could stay in the house until 7 -then he had to go to work in his bar
-- i said yes -- and it ended up that he stayed a little longer than 7 that evening -- lol 13 odd months later he was still here !!
It just sort of evolved -i had spare rooms in house /my Bf liked him but was in Bkk at uni all week /the guy himself is a real diamond --so we asked him to come and stay and he jumped at it --i wont make any bones about it-it was a sexual thing at first for me and bf
But i only paid him the first few offs -- and as we became more friends all that play stopped - (a month at most )
He had been bar boy from 16 - fell out with mama and came to the bright lights of Pattaya - -and was just legal age when i met him -after 2 years he had nothing!!!!! Nothing -- no farang paying him money reg /damm all clothes /no fancy phone etc ----But one thing he has in abundance is his personality :bounce: --- there is just something about him that makes you smile --and i truly can say we had so much laughter and fun with him when he lived here
He spoke passable english when first here ,i bought talking dic for us and as my own guy was pretty fluen so within a few months we could talk/laugh /joke for hours --
He had his own key from day one ,acess to all in the house -my laptop /watch /wallet/ I- Touch etc were never locked away from him -- i trusted him from the start -- and he never let me down in that (so not ALL bar boys are the thieving boys some portray them to be !!!( but i have had a few bad experiences with others )
It was not all plain sailing --he developed a taste for the scourge of many boys in Pattaya -Ice !!
It seemed to happen one time i was away for 2 weeks or so -- and it was easy to see the change in him over a month
He went from a bright smiling bundle of energy to someone that withdrew from the rest of us in the house ,staying in his room a lot ,not eating etc --- i really did not know how to deal with it - i asked all in the house and others how best (i found the other thai boys did not lot of empathy for him ,-he was a little bad with them a few times ,borrow money etc /not repay etc --- but i did not want to confront him and risk him leaving ,thus losing any chance to help him ---- but he knew i was so mad at him for what he was doing --
Then one morning after we came home from a club - he sat down and told me "Martin i stop play ice 6 days now "(the others in house told me that he did this for me , I had been good to him and for him -- and he knew it was upsetting me what he was doing )
So we talked it out --he had played The damm thing before and had stopped (before he moved in to house ) so he said he could do same again - and he did !!! he shunned all friends that played ice ,for the cravings he ate chocolate instead -- i was buying a 6pack of kitkat a day ,he hardly left my side while this was going on -even some mornings (which was when it was worse ) he came and slept in my bed , he didnt want to sleep alone and i did want him rambling out ---- and gradually we got got through it !!
And we got our usual happy fun to be with pal back :love4:
All through the time he lived with us he still worked the bar/gay romeo system -- but not so often -i guess he had a lot of his needs covered here food/bed/whiskey etc --and it never cost me a thought -- he repayed me over and over just by knowing him --
Although his family is only a short distance away he had No contact with them- so sad to see this -then at new year his Gmother passed t,and he went home for funeral --and it seems the relationship has been repaired - he came back in early Jan and moved home - His mama has some flower growing buisness and he has started working with her (hence the Phits visit )
I wasnt sure if he would stay or not but fingers crossed its working so far --time will tell i guess
He has visited us twice -on feb 14 (he stayed 2 nites and went home ) and last nite --and as i watched him go out the door earlier today ,backpack with his books /laptop -- with something concrete (for now ) to do apart from working the bar system in pattaya i had to hold back the tears -- i l love him like a little brother at this stage the brat
And il keep my fingers crossed that he is able to forge some type of life different to what he did in pattaya for 4 years :wave: :wave: