What is it about the bar boys?

[thanatorn-old]

Having been to Pattaya over thirty times, I think I am well aware of all the tricks of the trade and wiles of Barboys.

Well what is it about them, that despite not wanting a relationship or a one night stand either, as previous one's have been good but ended in heartbreak and loss through break up and terminal illness, I still walk into a bar for a drink with no intention to pick up, and have found someone I really like after thirty seconds ( as quick as it has been with all my previous finds).

I spent the holiday with him and can't wait to see him again. The crazy thing is that this is like history repeating itself in detail, as he looks like the last guy who died on me 4 years back, has the same attitude and ways. It wasn't even the sex, as it was good but not predominant in the holiday. He was just good fun to be with and has never asked for buffalo money etc despite daily messages or calls. Lets hope it carries on this way for a while as I was not going to come back to Thailand but not count the days again.

[Dboy]

Well what is it about them

Or..what is it about YOU? Men that visit Pattaya on a regular basis are often called sex tourists, but I have thought for a long time that many/most are actually relationship tourists. As you say, it's often not *really* about the sex, as that is fleeting and really only takes up a very minor part of the time spent together. Guys being guys, would rather not admit they need love. It's much easier to pretend it's just sex.

[GWMinUS]

I think that Dboy says it best.

I have not visited Thailand in many years, but I still have a special place in my heart for a guy I met there, a Bar-Boy from the old Tomahawk.
I met him each trip for 3 years and always looked forward to our time together.
It was not the sex, it was the good feelings and wonderful times spent with him and his two young sons...

AH, memories,
George in the USA

[Beachlover]

You wouldn't be surprised if your plumber mate fixed your broken tap so no surprise at what the boys do for you... that's what they do for a living!
:occasion9:

Oh Beachie stop being so negative and making so many put downs on the boys of Pattaya and boys that require financial help and work in the bars. Many of these boys either lost their father and mother when they were young or even just left with relatives. Some either do not understand love or never had any. Sure, many are liars and some are thieves but that doesn't mean they all are. I have seen many who while yes they are in need of financial help for themselves and their families, they ultimately give their love to the one who is helping them.
Thailand is a very share share place. The falang gives what he has which is money and security and the boys give their love.
Sure sometimes it is all a game but that is the same in the straight world in USA, Europe and the whole world around.
But don't throw everyone out with the dishwater!

Cannot agree more with DaBoss.


PS Don't take this as a precedent for 2012 :sign5:

[Beachlover]

Justme... That wasn't negative at all! :sign5:

You're trying too hard to find other meanings in my one-liner! :scratch:

I simply answered the OP's question by saying, THIS is what they do for a living so no surprise they're competent at it... I believe you have said that yourself before. They're good at what they do.

Also, I have never called them liars and thieves.

[latintopxxx]

as I've said a gazzillion times...and am repeating once more for the denser types....it's not love....it's a job....u fuck them...you pay money...all is good...don't expect them to donate a kidney or throw themselves in front of a charging bull because of you....hello....

[loke]

Yes please leave the word love out of this. Its a job for them , but you can think its love as long as it makes you happy...

[Dodger]

There isn't a working boy in Thailand who is not capable of loving.

It is possible though that you are not the one they are going to love.

Those who see them and treat them simply as meat - will be viewed by them simply as meat.

Now, who on earth would ever fall in love with a piece of meat?

[martin911]

There isn't a working boy in Thailand who is not capable of loving.

It is possible though that you are not the one they are going to love.

Those who see them and treat them simply as meat - will be viewed by them simply as meat.

Now, who on earth would ever fall in love with a piece of meat?

So Apt !!!!--but so many cant see past their next ejaculation to realise that .

[martin911]

as I've said a gazzillion times...and am repeating once more for the denser types....it's not love....it's a job....u fuck them...you pay money...all is good...don't expect them to donate a kidney or throw themselves in front of a charging bull because of you....hello....


:sleepy1: :sleepy1: :sleepy1:
Bla Bla Bla -- u poor old sod --

[TravellerDave]

I few posts in this thread resonate with me. Before I set off for my latest trip to Pattaya my thoughts invariably are about sexual activity with boys. Being massaged by them, sleeping with them and kissing fondling in the bars. However after a few days of promiscuous activity I find my self attracted to one boy. I start to get interested in his previous life and why he is working bar. I ask about his education and family and if his English is poor I start helping him. Over the last 5 years I think I have been in love.

[martin911]

I few posts in this thread resonate with me. Before I set off for my latest trip to Pattaya my thoughts invariably are about sexual activity with boys. Being massaged by them, sleeping with them and kissing fondling in the bars. However after a few days of promiscuous activity I find my self attracted to one boy. I start to get interested in his previous life and why he is working bar. I ask about his education and family and if his English is poor I start helping him. Over the last 5 years I think I have been in love.

I for one do not think there is anything wrong with that -- we are all human beings (apart from Latinprick ) -and its nice to interact with the guys not just from a sexual nature side !!

Myself and Colmx were in boytown the other nite and dropped into Vassa bar -there is a guy there i like (not sexually )he is just a hoot to be around . I offed him.+his friend from another bar and Colmx offed another -- JUST to take them to dave/ Step for fun (that was made clear from the start ,like other times they have been in my company previously)

Well we had a ball with them all night ,teasing, laughing, joking together -- they were enjoying themselves--- they were under no pressure to keep us farang interested in them( or not lose them to other guys etc ) so that they would be sure of the money at the end of the nite
I also said to them that if they did pull a customer themselves that it wasnt a prob !!--yhey do have rent etc to pay
-- they all went home at variuos times of the nite 1@-4 , -1@ 6ish and the last guy left when i went home at 7.30 -- only the first guy took money (v little ) for a taxi -the other 2 were adamant -- NO they would not take anything from us --- and i got texts from 2 boys later that morning thanking us for the fun we shared the nite before !!!,,

Wow--- Bar boys not looking for every baht thet can scam from the farang --hard to believe eh ??

Nope -- not hard to believe at all

[latintopxxx]

martin911 (whats with the 911??)....whilst you were partying with these whores...who didnt want to get paid...yeah right.... did you by any chance run into Elvis or Mother Theresa of Calcutta?? or see pigs fly....

latinpox.. why dont you actually read what is written before you crap out some more of your shyte ...
is it just thailand where by you belive everybody is a whore ?? or anywhere in the world you visit ?
you should try some of the girly bars im sure you could do one of them up the pooper far cheaper than you could a boy!!
go for it .. oh and dont come back :evil4:

[martin911]

martin911 (whats with the 911??)....whilst you were partying with these whores...who didnt want to get paid...yeah right.... did you by any chance run into Elvis or Mother Theresa of Calcutta?? or see pigs fly....

AH you poor lad ---- and you a big buisness man -Bollocks :8( !!!!-- do you not know what a 911 is ?????---- Ok mabye not everybody knows what one is ,il grant you that !!!!! -- but ive had a passion for them and other models all my life ,bought all the mags when i was a young lad, kept my eyes and ears peeled to see one ,smiled broadly when i did get near one -- and was lucky to have owned a few of them as i got older
I just dont want to come right out and say what one is --il give u one more clue --last of the classic air cooled -the 993





But in the type of circles u" claim "to work in - its easily recognisable to that crowd -- hahahahaha --u fool --
another shot in the foot moron -- somebody put this fool down !!!!!

Heres one for you the "auditor" ---whats 911 +993 = ???

One things for certain --those 3 boys that were in myself and Colmx's company the other nite ---will never be in yours !!!!

Daboss on second thoughts scrap what i suggested earlier --he is too entertaining to get rid ---- cert put a a big fuck off smile on my face just now

As for pigs flying Latin -take your grubby paw away from your cock and put it behind your ear :snorting: :snorting:

[latintopxxx]

how feeble....associating yourself with a car...rather childish....some sort of inferiority complex....maybe if I stand close to the cool crowd I'll be cool sort of thing...there is medication for that sort of thing....only problem is it will interfere with your viagra...

[latintopxxx]

brithai...stop being so precious and hyper sensitive...

I didn't invest the system...as far as I know Thailand is one of the very few places where I can walk into a gogo bar...find a stage full of boys in speedos peddling their arses....after some preliminary checking (gotta be a bottom..) rent him and for the next 2 or 3 hours do just about what I want with him...stupid thing will do all he can to please me..all for the price of a meal....again I didn't invent the system...but I certainly like it and use it..

As for all Thai's being whores...don't be a silly boy....

What I do know is that only in Thailand can I pick up/proposition/buy boys in just about any situation...convenience stores, street trade, shopping centers, hotel staff (real easy..).....not my fault they earn nothing and are happy to grab their ankles...or fall to their knees for a few euros...
Or is the problem that you resent the fact that I get a bit of sex and you don't??....

Know that I do push the envelope but we can't all be into vanilla...imagine how boring that would be...nothing wrong with making the whore work for the money...do love watching the sweat roll off their brown backs as they bob up and down...its makes a change from your routine...a kiss on the cheek and a cuddle...followed by some hot choc and a book...

[newalaan]

only the first guy took money (v little ) for a taxi -the other 2 were adamant -- NO they would not take anything from us --- and i got texts from 2 boys later that morning thanking us for the fun we shared the nite before !!!,, Wow--- Bar boys not looking for every baht thet can scam from the farang --hard to believe eh ??Nope -- not hard to believe at allOnly difficult to believe if you are a miserable, tight shit Martin911. It's always been a great part of the Pattaya fun, inviting waiters, boys you like and friends along just for the fun of it. Ok you pick up the drink tab, but you would be doing that irrespective of who else was there. Like you, in the past I have enjoyed partying with guys who are happy to get their travel to and from the club paid for and maybe a 45 baht rice dish at Wat Chai, in return for a night of sanuk away from or after the tedious nightly bar work. I mean, how many boys do you know who club together with friends after they finish work just for a bit of sanook. Tons of them! And if they get a free invite that's more than enough for many if there is no hanky-panky later. Like you very good regular friends who used to come with me when I was 'single' and nowadays come with my bf and I, will not take money at the end of the night, some of course will even tell you upfront they don't want money if they think there is a chance to go for fun only, have had attempts at offering money knocked back at the end of the night on numerous occassions. But they know that will no doubt there will be another invite at some other time. The only time guys will definitely accept a couple of hundred baht is if the bf offers it to them, it's a Thai 'greng Jai' kinda thing not to accept that type of gesture.


martin911 (whats with the 911??)....whilst you were partying with these whores...who didnt want to get paid...yeah right.... did you by any chance run into Elvis or Mother Theresa of Calcutta?? or see pigs fly....Latinpoxx while you are successful in working your 'magic' here and getting exactly the responses you revel in, it's unlikely you'll ever get to meet any Thais who are happy to be in your company for no cash after a night of clubbing, and it's no surprise that you can't believe it actually happens because you neither get close to or treat any boy well enough for them to actually WANT to be in your company. Especially after any first encounter with you I would imagine. Face it, it's an experience you are never going to have, and that my friend is YOUR total loss! To get good karma and respect you need to give it out in the first place, something your 'humiliation of boys' fetish cannot possibly allow to happen.

[martin911]

how feeble....associating yourself with a car...rather childish....some sort of inferiority complex....maybe if I stand close to the cool crowd I'll be cool sort of thing...there is medication for that sort of thing....only problem is it will interfere with your viagra...

Nope !!!! ------ not feeble whatsoever Pox - its just a personal hobby/interest of mine since i was a young lad --(same way others have an interest in say sport/ gambling/ collecting stamps or suchlike ) --- Your own hobby is more than a touch disturbing ! :pukeleft:

I have never ever posted about this on this forum in anyway whatsoever!!

You were the one who asked the question you tit !! -- So i gave you the awnser - if you dont understand the interest well personally i could not give a monkeys :gy:
I dont need to mention my interest on these cars to anybody to gain anything !! -- unlike your goodself who likes to brag all the time -i guess it makes u feel good ??

HA HA bit rich you talking about somebody having an inferiority complex !!!! ------

You --Textbook !! :hah:
-

[latintopxxx]

newelaan...when in Thailand I have no interest in socialising with whores......they only serve to satisfy a physical need...don't even allow the pin cushion to talk with me, it must just follow my instructions......I have a handful...ok I lie..I have 3 friends that I've met socially and we do movie, dinner, drinks..etc...professional guys with something between the ears not only between the butt cheeks...the real Thailand.....soi twilight is not real...

do then tell me why you bother with go go bars at all? surely it would be so much cheaper for you to just go to your local 7-11 buy a couple of bottles of cheap beer then bang the boy behind the counter !! think of the money you could save ....
tell you what i want a cut of the money you do save .. 10% will do ... nice doing business with you ... i bet thats something you've never heard from a thai :dontknow: :evil4:
p.s . i know how the bars work .. no need to enlighten me on it ...
now wheres me coco :love4:

[latintopxxx]

brithai...good question.... I guess when I buy a gogo boy I own him...he has limited say...love the imbalance of power...he knows what his purpose is...so grateful I picked him off the stage......quite often a 7-11 or bell boy only has time for a Bj or a quick fuck...or is not prepared to do more or put up with my needs....

[a447]

Brithai wrote

do then tell me why you bother with go go bars at all? surely it would be so much cheaper for you to just go to your local 7-11 buy a couple of bottles of cheap beer then bang the boy behind the counter !! think of the money you could save ....

latinpox's irrational reply:

I guess when I buy a gogo boy I own him...he has limited say...love the imbalance of power...he knows what his purpose is...so grateful I picked him off the stage......quite often a 7-11 or bell boy only has time for a Bj or a quick fuck...or is not prepared to do more or put up with my needs....

So explain the difference between owning a gogo boy to whom you pay money, and taking out a boy from 7/11, to whom you also tell us you pay money. Wouldn't you also "├╢wn" the 7/11 guy??? Wouldn't he also have "limited say?" Wouldn't the " ├пmbalance of power" be still there? Wouldn't he "know what his purpose is?" And explain why 7/11 guys and the like only have time for a BJ or a quick fuck?
Wait! Didn't you tell us over and over that you just fuck them and then throw them out on the street? Never mentioned your love of a long fuck before. How come?
Again, your story doesn't add up. Wow, I can see why you are in such demand internationally :sign5: as an "├дuditor." They want you even though your figures don't add up.

More pure fantasy from a wannabe Thailand visitor. Latinpox, the phantom traveller. :sign5:

Tell us when you will next be in Pattaya, Latinpox. Then you can go introduce yourself to Daboss to prove you were here. (I suggested that when you last posted that you were here but you never got back to on that one. Daboss never saw you, either). Bet Daboss won't be holding his breath.

You can't win taking on Martin911. You see, he lives here, or spends a lot of time here and knows Pattaya well. Your posts demonstrate that have never visited Pattaya. Your post about the Russians taking over Jomtien beach was scammed from earlier posts on the thread. But keep trying. Your attempts brighten up a rainy day, as we can all do with a bit of humour and can enjoy laughing at you as you continue to post wrong info about LOS!

BTW, how's your friend Wit, the waiter? :sign5: Remember him? You met him back in 2009 in Bangkok. That's the time when a couple of us asked you about Bangkok happenings and you never replied. You were aksed again and again. Remember? Look back over your posts in case you have forgotten. hehe....

[latintopxxx]

a447...kindly read the posting by "alittlebi"...Why are fem-boys more expensive than lady-boys? .......he claims to pay way the whores only 500 to 600???? ........gasp!!...imagine that!!!...good thing was sitting down when I read it..

[a447]

And your response to my questions above?????? Stop running away and explain your inconsistencies to the board.

Well.....?

Your silence is deafening.

[latintopxxx]

a447...clearly as a baby you were dropped head first several times....on purpose I suspect......simply gotten bored with you...bit like a used condom...only nowhere near as useful....so now doing my best to ignore you....

[martin911]

a447...clearly as a baby you were dropped head first several times....on purpose I suspect......simply gotten bored with you...bit like a used condom...only nowhere near as useful....so now doing my best to ignore you....

BUT --you are clearly not !! sad fxxk

[a447]

latinpox wrote:

so now doing my best to ignore you....

How convenient! Ignore the questions and hope they will go away.

It's not about ME - it's about YOU, so ignore me. I don't care. But don't ignore the inconsistencies in your made up stories.

Come on, explain them to us. Are you a financial auditor or a quality auditor? Which one is it? Surely you can explain at least that one. Afterall nobody asked you what your job was. it was YOU who volunteered the (obviously ficticious) information in the first place. (In fact, I can't recall anyone EVER asking your for factual info about Thailand. Guess they know the answer will come straight from Google)
The guy doesn't even know what his job is! And he says that I was dropped on my head??? :sign5:
And if you really are a quality auditor isnt it about time you audited your own posts???
As I said, your silence is deafening!

So why not make your next post an explanation post, and THEN make other posts? Eh? Let's get our priorites right. Let's get the holes in your stories filled first.

Waiting......

[latintopxxx]

martin...to quote ronald..... "there you go again"....being all negative....that vortex will not let you go.....don't be so fascinated with my life or evry posting that you feel you have to jump in with negative one liners....set up a date with a447...should get on like the proverbial house on fire...two peas in a pod...now remember...no negativity...btw...will also do my best not be baited by your comments...descent into childish tit for tat...at who has the last word...ta ta...

[a447]

Latinpox wrote:

...so don't fret if I don't reply promptly to your fan mail...not ignoring you...simply have a life that does not always involve this forum....something I know you probably struggle to comprehend.,.

Yes, that was you latin. So much for not posting promtly. Some life! hehe.


so fascinated with my life or evry posting

No-one is fascinated with your life - the life of someone with such a fertile imagination. Someone who doesn't even know what his job is (must be some reason why you still refuse to tell us...hmmm...let's think why), whether he was in Australia or New Zealand, etc. etc. (If I was a company in, say Italy, looking for an auditor I certainly wouldn't call you. You'd probably go to Switzerland instead!) Yours is the life of some poor house-bound pommy expat (despite your handle, you are no more "latin" than I am) living on a poverty pommy pension like hundred of thousands of other English people who moved to Spain for a better economy. Oops!

You kid yourself.
We are fascinated by
a) how you can't get your story straight (If you say something that is not true, people can forget it. If you are stupid enough to put your lies in writing on this board, they stay with you forever)
b) your over the top posts about what you imagine you could do with a boy is only you had the chance.
Remember this unforgettable one? It's hilarious.

latinpox wrote:


using the stupid naked thing as a stool consumed my meal at my desk sitting on him.

IN YOUR DREAMS. (Actually, it was) :sign5:

[martin911]

martin...to quote ronald..... "there you go again"....being all negative....that vortex will not let you go.....don't be so fascinated with my life or evry posting that you feel you have to jump in with negative one liners....set up a date with a447...should get on like the proverbial house on fire...two peas in a pod...now remember...no negativity...btw...will also do my best not be baited by your comments...descent into childish tit for tat...at who has the last word...ta ta...

How can i put this any more clearly for you ?? :sleepy1: :sleepy2: --no interest in ya anymore !

Simple .

[a447]

Latinpox wrote:


.set up a date with a447...should get on like the proverbial house on fire...two peas in a pod

Yes, we probably would get on well. We'd actually be able to have real conversations about real guys and real clubs in the real Thailand we've experienced so often.

If you met him, I think Martin would be doing all the talking! :laughing3:

[martin911]

Yes indeed it is good to meet real people --that way non of the online rubbish survives !!
mind you the real one i meet over the last 2 weeks(Colmx ) -- well i think my liver is content to stay online for a bit ---- (but wont get a chance for another 4/5 days lol !!)

Hi guys,

I'm new to this forum but as a Thai guy with farang boyfriend I like to make a comment.

For farangs who come to Thailand, remember one thing, 'treat others how you want to be treated'.

If you respect those rent boys and they will respect you.

Now, I know there are a lot of bar boys out there who aren't very nice or badly behave towards farang.

Those boys are a piece of shit, but they might have reasons why? They might just try to feed their whole family.

But those farangs who treat others like a piece of shit just because you farang have money and believe you are entitled

to do anything you like, you actually are a piece of shit, a BIG ignorant piece of shit!!!!



Sorry if my comment is a bit extreme, but it's what I want to say for a long time.

Hi panda, your comment is not extreme at all - it's what most right-minded people would agree with.
:occasion9:

[lukylok]

.......Sorry if my comment is a bit extreme, but it's what I want to say for a long time.
I couldn't agree more with this comment!

[sydneyboy]

Two quotes:

"Farang are not known as walking ATM's for nothing". (Someone on this forum)

"Nobody can take advantage of you without your permission" (Ann Landers)

[colmx]

the real one i meet over the last 2 weeks(Colmx ) -- well i think my liver is content to stay online for a bit
I deny ever meeting you!
I am a figurement of your imagination and you are of mine.... in fact... we are the one person!
(And neither of us have ever been out of Emerald Isle! :tif: :tif: )