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June 10th, 2010, 16:45
So I have gathered all the names and addresses in BKK where I should find the kind of guys I fancy the most (muscles and loads of tattoos) what I'm still missing though is the Offing 101..

So I get into say Tawan, I sit and have a drink alright.. do I have to wait for the whole friggin show to be over even if I couldn't care less about it or I can off the guy before?

Should I test the goodies right there and say what I expect?

After having read the thread about the proper price for offing, I'm wondering.. I take the Tawan guy back to my hotel (I understand they are more expensive..) what does the fee entitle me to exactly? Sex and buh bye? All night?

If want a day "companion" can I ask directly to the boy to spend the day together?

Sorry to be a pain with all these newbie questions but although I find many detailed posts and blogs about the WHERE I don't find much about the HOWs..

June 10th, 2010, 22:48
I only have one specific request: he has to get and stay hard. For the rest I'm not too kinky and he can stay like a dead corpse on the bed lol

As for the shows, I did read they start lateish and go on for a while.. I'm not interested in coreographies and even less am I interested in hangin out till early morning since I may be a whore at night but I will still be a serious tourist and a shopaholic during the day so...



The only advice that I can give you: make sure you agree the better part of your wishes in advance with the mamasan and the boy together. This not only makes sure the boy knows exactly what is expected of him, but it also prevents you from feeling guilty if he doesn't and you have to send him back without pay. I think many of us have fallen for the "I can do everything" trap only to find out that the boy actually could/would do nothing, but still paid him.

I'm not sure what you mean by "the whole show" but if you mean the usual dance, fuck and playback show, then i would say leaving between acts would be perfectly fine.

Testing the goodies...Not my cup of tea.

Day companion... Before you ask the boy to spend the day with you, you might want to wait till you know him a little bit better. The way the boy acts in the bar may not be the same after you leave. Nothing worse than committing to a guy who turns out to be boring. But when you want it, you can just ask the boy.

First time in BKK huh? Crazy crazy crazy...In a good way though.

Enjoy! :headbang:

Rush, Yet Again
June 11th, 2010, 02:46
тАЬSo I get into say Tawan, I sit and have a drink alright.. do I have to wait for the whole friggin show to be over even if I couldnтАЩt care less about it or I can off the guy before?тАЭ

You can walk into any gogo bar and off the guy of your choice at anytime: before the show, during the show, after the show - it does not matter. So, no, you do not have to watch the show first.

However, if the show is just getting ready to start when you arrive, you may want to wait - the тАШperfectтАЩ guy may be backstage getting ready and youтАЩd miss him otherwise. Also, if you are particular about sizes & shapes - good chance youтАЩll get a fuller picture during the show of what each guy has to offer.


тАЬShould I test the goodies right there and say what I expect?тАЭ

When youтАЩve picked a guy out, talk with him. Be specific about what you want - and what you want him to do. Do not settle for a тАШI do everythingтАЩ answer. If you want to top him (doubtful at Tawan) make him reply directly to that question (and your true answer will be more in how and how long it takes him to answer than the actual answer). As far as using a mamasan . . . doubtful that you will be able to tell the difference between a waiter and a captain. In either case, they are just as likely to embellish the truth as the guy is. If you do use a captain to negotiate the deal - you are expected to tip him (100 baht is fine).

And, no, you should not тАЬtest the goodiesтАЭ at Tawan. There are sleeze bars where that is expected, at Tawan it wonтАЩt be appreciated. Grabbing his cock, demanding to see it, etc. will quickly earn you a negative reputation, though you will get your way. Be a bit patient and most of the guys will show you their goods on their own in trying to seal the deal anyway.

If Tawan is your paradise, youтАЩll probably be back again and again. So realize the guys talk about their customers with each other - youтАЩre going to have a rep whether you want one or not. Showing your guy some respect and being fun goes a long way. (So does buying him a gold watch and new cell phone. lol) You need not shower him with cash and gifts, but should avoid being cheap or embarrassing him (and yourself).


тАЬIf want a day тАЬcompanionтАЭ can I ask directly to the boy to spend the day together?тАЭ

If you are planning on keeping the guy overnight and as a companion the next day, take some time to talk with him to see that his English is good enough that youтАЩll have a true companion the next day. Homesoon's suggestion to wait before committing to a day of fun is spot on . . . spend some time with him first to make sure your day wonтАЩt be a waste. Not all of the guys will be willing to spend the next day - much less the full night - with you anyway, so if that is important to you ask him about it upfront (тАЬlong timeтАЭ usually covers the full night - heтАЩll understand that).

If you keep the guy over for the next day realize his day is on you. YouтАЩll pay for everything you guys do - and none of that comes тАШoutтАЩ of his tip. Since you say you are a shopaholic, be ready for a day of him gazing lovingly at everything from a 99 baht wallet to a 10,000 baht cell phone. The more experienced guys will have no qualms in asking you to buy whatever they fancy. What you spend is up to you (beyond food, smokes, water from 7/11, maybe a cell phone top up card).

YouтАЩll also have to decide whether youтАЩll be keeping him for an additional night. Unless he has decided you are scum, by the late afternoon heтАЩll be expecting you to book him for another night (and day). Remember that an additional night means you owe an additionaloff fee. If you are not going to keep him over again, set him free early enough for him to sleep a bit, eat, and get back to the bar for its opening. Again, be upfront with him. If you want to sample someone else, just tell him you are a butterfly. He may not like it, but will understand that you are just another one of those crazy sex fanatic falangs. Claiming the butterfly crown will also avoid him taking up your time next time you hit the bar, leaving you free to strike up a deal with a new guy.

June 11th, 2010, 02:50
[quote="TotalNewbie"]I only have one specific request: he has to get and stay hard. (...)

If the boy has some problem with that, it's very easy to solve the problem: buy some viagra :bounce:

Dodger
June 11th, 2010, 05:19
Totalnewbie,

No offense intended, but why are you asking others what you should say to people, when all you have to do is say what you feel?

If you don't want to wait until the show is over before propositioning a boy you like, then don't wait until the show is over. If you want something in particular from a boy - just ask him. No one hear can offer you any better advice than that because there simply are not any rules...just the ability to use common sense and logic in a polite and thoughtful manner.

lonelywombat
June 11th, 2010, 06:58
The reply from rush,yet again is one of the best I have seen on any of the forums. Admittedly common sense to older hands but for a "newbie" as good as you can hope for.
All I can add is a friend of mine always makes a point of saying , I pay you so much for chuckwow and I suck you, you suck me I pay so much extra and I want to fuck you.
If I fuck you I give you more.
Usually he gets help from mamasan and he is ruthless about payment if they do not perform. However if he has a good time he returns to the same bar next night , buys that boy a drink and tells him "me butterfly" or takes him off again.
I have found that some Tawan boys will expect 3000 baht so always ask how much and what do you do, specially at Tawan, before you leave.
Most of Tawan boys are older and if there is a young one that you like dont hesitate or he will be offed while you are dithering.

June 11th, 2010, 07:23
If want a day "companion" can I ask directly to the boy to spend the day together?

I don't know about Tawan but the bar guys that I've hung out with would hang out until you asked them to leave. It's not like they have anything better to do if someone is paying for things and possibly might off them for another night. My guy would play silly tricks like making sure we didn't go anywhere near the bar in the afternoon...to make sure that I was obligated for the off fee. That stuff wasn't necessary since I intended to keep him around anyway.

June 11th, 2010, 11:43
Hi Dodger & everyone else, thanks for all your replies especially Rush!

I'm not asking what I should SAY, I'm asking what I should DO.

Never been to a gogo bar so I haven't the slightest idea about gogo etiquette that is why I am asking. Of course I will manage my way through but knowing the basics comforts me because unlike my previous experiences/negotiations that were always 1on1 I suspect those in gogo bars could be a little more complex.. and in all my years of travelling I have learnt that if you know your shit no one can take advantage or scam you..

I'm sure they can smell a newbie from miles away..especially when it's a young blue eyed blondie who looks as innocent as I do... lol

And on the young note, I ain't no sugar daddy! I said I am a shopaholic not a giftaholic.. lol

Thanks again everyone


Totalnewbie,

No offense intended, but why are you asking others what you should say to people, when all you have to do is say what you feel?

If you don't want to wait until the show is over before propositioning a boy you like, then don't wait until the show is over. If you want something in particular from a boy - just ask him. No one hear can offer you any better advice than that because there simply are not any rules...just the ability to use common sense and logic in a polite and thoughtful manner.

lonelywombat
June 11th, 2010, 12:16
Never been to a gogo bar so I haven't the slightest idea about gogo etiquette that is why I am asking. Of course I will manage my way through but knowing the basics comforts me because unlike my previous experiences/negotiations that were always 1on1 I suspect those in gogo bars could be a little more complex.. and in all my years of travelling I have learnt that if you know your shit no one can take advantage or scam you..


I think you are overestimating the boys who in the main are just off the farm in the last 6-12 months. Some are desperate to get some money to pay the rent or money they have borrowed.But from the time the first comes on stage usually 9PM they are all available.
My last trip I met a brit who was overorganized. He was in a bar where 5 boys at a time came on stage for 10 minutes and he took note of their numbers and rated them out of 10. He actually found it hard to make a decision.
You could be like a family member , a deviant straight that took me to Pattaya for the first time. His attitude was one fuck missed out on is one never caught up with.
He never agonized over his first off [a girl of course]that was a warmup. He often said some of the plainer ones were better value than the goodlooking ones he went chasing later.
He said follow your dick and not your head and it always wins.
His rules
If you see a body you like try and make eye contact.
Then flirt with your eyes.
Invite them for a drink and tell them what you want.
Of course you will get "me do everything"
Of course you will accept that but some are good only a few disappoint.
By going off early if he is a dud you can get back for dessert.
Happy hunting, remember the chase is often more exciting.

June 11th, 2010, 13:43
Perhaps you are right Lonely.. I suppose part of my worries is due to the reading of various blogs and forum posts but also because of my main experiences with Arabs.. I had to thicken my skin to deal with those guys and being a butterfly in countries where you basically risk getting jailed for just talking to a local..

I do know I will manage perfectly fine but I feel calmer by knowing some facts.. mainly because I would hate making a fool of myself not so much because I'm scared..

And I perfectly agree with you..the chasing is the most exciting part although I don't see any exciting challenges when you know by waving 1000 baht you can choose anyone in the room..

Still, I'm very excited and optimistic about this new experience which is more than likely to get me addicted!





Never been to a gogo bar so I haven't the slightest idea about gogo etiquette that is why I am asking. Of course I will manage my way through but knowing the basics comforts me because unlike my previous experiences/negotiations that were always 1on1 I suspect those in gogo bars could be a little more complex.. and in all my years of travelling I have learnt that if you know your shit no one can take advantage or scam you..


I think you are overestimating the boys who in the main are just off the farm in the last 6-12 months. Some are desperate to get some money to pay the rent or money they have borrowed.But from the time the first comes on stage usually 9PM they are all available.
My last trip I met a brit who was overorganized. He was in a bar where 5 boys at a time came on stage for 10 minutes and he took note of their numbers and rated them out of 10. He actually found it hard to make a decision.
You could be like a family member , a deviant straight that took me to Pattaya for the first time. His attitude was one fuck missed out on is one never caught up with.
He never agonized over his first off [a girl of course]that was a warmup. He often said some of the plainer ones were better value than the goodlooking ones he went chasing later.
He said follow your dick and not your head and it always wins.
His rules
If you see a body you like try and make eye contact.
Then flirt with your eyes.
Invite them for a drink and tell them what you want.
Of course you will get "me do everything"
Of course you will accept that but some are good only a few disappoint.
By going off early if he is a dud you can get back for dessert.
Happy hunting, remember the chase is often more exciting.

zinzone
June 11th, 2010, 13:53
Zinzones Offing Instruction Leaflet for TN. lesson 1, the first 10 rules:

1. Be confident and assured.
2. In the bar you see the one you want get him to sit with you, and see if close up he is your type, be relaxed and get him to smile and socialize nicely with him.
3. No harm in your case when convenient to discreetly check he ain't running a fever and at the same time check the strength of the goods.
4. Be specific what you want:
i) short time , long time ii) fuck, top or bottom, suck, strong cock, etc
5. Spell it out to him and to a senior staff like the mamasan what you want, so that everyone knows and understands and it is all agreed.
6. In your case apart from the off fee be precise on the tip for his services.
7. Make it clear that failure to provide what is agreed, means the agreed tip will not be paid.
8. Possibly tell them that if there is no delivery of what is agreed you also expect the off fee to be refunded.
9. Offer to feed him before he goes "home".
10. Always treat everyone with respect but remember who is paying the bill and hence who is in charge.

-Do not make what ought to be simple, complicated.
What you do is go for want you want but do it in a smart way that you cover all bases, which minimises the chances of getting a 'dud'.That said nothing can be absolutely guaranteed in this scene.

Good Luck!

June 11th, 2010, 15:02
Thanks Zinzones..very helpful!



Zinzones Offing Instruction Leaflet for TN. lesson 1, the first 10 rules:

1. Be confident and assured.
2. In the bar you see the one you want get him to sit with you, and see if close up he is your type, be relaxed and get him to smile and socialize nicely with him.
3. No harm in your case when convenient to discreetly check he ain't running a fever and at the same time check the strength of the goods.
4. Be specific what you want:
i) short time , long time ii) fuck, top or bottom, suck, strong cock, etc
5. Spell it out to him and to a senior staff like the mamasan what you want, so that everyone knows and understands and it is all agreed.
6. In your case apart from the off fee be precise on the tip for his services.
7. Make it clear that failure to provide what is agreed, means the agreed tip will not be paid.
8. Possibly tell them that if there is no delivery of what is agreed you also expect the off fee to be refunded.
9. Offer to feed him before he goes "home".
10. Always treat everyone with respect but remember who is paying the bill and hence who is in charge.

-Do not make what ought to be simple, complicated.
What you do is go for want you want but do it in a smart way that you cover all bases, which minimises the chances of getting a 'dud'.That said nothing can be absolutely guaranteed in this scene.

Good Luck!

lonelywombat
June 11th, 2010, 15:21
Zinzone you sure know your stuff and are still at an age to use it! Lonley read his list if only to evoke memories....Also lonley he did infer this would indeed involve cash. :bounce:


Is nowvoyager the man who said he would match 1000 baht for 1000 baht for charity .I said that I would get jinks to veriify my contribution. Craig You are starting to sound more like LMTU every post.

Geezer
June 11th, 2010, 18:06
I find zinzoneтАЩs list comprehensive.

I would, however, omit #8. тАЬPossibly tell them that if there is no delivery of what is agreed you also expect the off fee to be refunded.тАЭ I doubt that any bar would agree and even if they did, that they would honor the agreement.

In the eleven years I have lived here despite conscientiously checking boysтАЩ IDs, I have on several occasions discovered they were underage after offing (and before despoiling) them. Of course I did not give the mendacious rascals a tip.

Upon returning to the bars, despite my spirited insistence only one time out of four was the off fee refunded, although the bars did offer to substitute another boy.

I have often thought a boy wearing a shirt saying, тАЬSatisfaction GuaranteedтАЭ would make a fortune.

allieb
June 11th, 2010, 22:02
I only have one specific request: he has to get and stay hard. For the rest I'm not too kinky and he can stay like a dead corpse on the bed lol

I don't think you can insist on that. You can make it clear that you are a bottom When you get to the bedroom you have to work on the dick to get it hard. Erections don't come to order.

For many reasons boys need working on and a few who just may not fancy you at all or who have had a long night in the bar can't get an erection whatever you do. If this is the case and you are not going to top them send them home with 500 baht.

When you do find what you are looking for keep him for a few days. When purchacing sex the deal doesn't often come with full options

camperboy
June 11th, 2010, 22:20
hmmm, i dont have any issues....

i just love my man to cuddle.. and.. rub bodies. lol

June 11th, 2010, 23:55
allieb, don't take things too literally... i don't expect a guy to react like a teenage for whom a chill is enough to pop a woody..
but I have read various reports of guys not getting hard no matter how hard one tries - personally it's only happened to me once and that was because the guy was high on some drugs.. but I'm not a physician who has to work on the problem. I'm just a farang capitalist. I pay therefore I demand.

how's a chef who can't cook? to me it's just the same as a hooker who can't do what he/she is asked. Yes you do get bad meals when you try new restaurants but you still get a meal. I've never had a waiter come up to me and say "sorry I dunno how to boil an egg"..

between Europeans and Arabs I've had a fair share, who the hell LIKES the job? let alone LIKING the customers?? While I may be much better than the average men they are used to - that doesn't mean they will like me nor that I expect them to like me.

I'm a very nice guy so don't think I would go all weird on the guy or that I'm one who treats them badly.. but I'm honest to myself, to me they are a service as I am a source of income to them. As easy as that. If there is no service there is no money because if I want to tip someone I rather tip a hotel waiter or beach boys who actually break their backbones working hard 12 hours a day in much worse conditions..



I don't think you can insist on that. You can make it clear that you are a bottom When you get to the bedroom you have to work on the dick to get it hard. Erections don't come to order.

For many reasons boys need working on and a few who just may not fancy you at all or who have had a long night in the bar can't get an erection whatever you do. If this is the case and you are not going to top them send them home with 500 baht.

When you do find what you are looking for keep him for a few days. When purchacing sex the deal doesn't often come with full options



I would, however, omit #8. тАЬPossibly tell them that if there is no delivery of what is agreed you also expect the off fee to be refunded.тАЭ I doubt that any bar would agree and even if they did, that they would honor the agreement.

I'd never ask for the off fee refund.. mainly because I would be afraid the guy could get fired or something like that... while maybe he was just having an off night..

allieb
June 12th, 2010, 00:22
allieb, don't take things too literally... i don't expect a guy to react like a teenage for whom a chill is enough to pop a woody..

how's a chef who can't cook? to me it's just the same as a hooker who can't do what he/she is asked. Yes you do get bad meals when you try new restaurants but you still get a meal. I've never had a waiter come up to me and say "sorry I dunno how to boil an egg"..

Cant resist answering this one comparing whores with chefs. If the boy cant give you a hotdog then you can always settle for a chocolate donut

ThaiFan
June 12th, 2010, 01:23
So I have gathered all the names and addresses in BKK where I should find the kind of guys I fancy the most (muscles and loads of tattoos) what I'm still missing though is the Offing 101..

So I get into say Tawan, I sit and have a drink alright.. do I have to wait for the whole friggin show to be over even if I couldn't care less about it or I can off the guy before?

Should I test the goodies right there and say what I expect?

After having read the thread about the proper price for offing, I'm wondering.. I take the Tawan guy back to my hotel (I understand they are more expensive..) what does the fee entitle me to exactly? Sex and buh bye? All night?

If want a day "companion" can I ask directly to the boy to spend the day together?

Sorry to be a pain with all these newbie questions but although I find many detailed posts and blogs about the WHERE I don't find much about the HOWs..

Hi, TotalNewBie.

Tawan Bar officially opens by 8PM normally. The show usually starts between 10:30PM to 11PM depending on the crowd. But anyway, you can decide to take the boy back to your room any time. So, it depends on your timing and preference. If you want to skip the show (actually, the show allows you to check out how big some guys can be - in a way to "check your goods" before you OFF him, so you should at least catch the show once since it can be quite entertaining the first time) you can even go to Tawan at 8:30PM to off a guy, before the show, mid-way, or after the show.

You should generally tell the guy what you expect in the bar, although you must be discrete if you are asking if you can fuck them especially. Back in the room, most will not object if you suck them, but most will not suck you without a condom. If you do it slowly or when they are aroused, they will usually kiss you back or allow you to french kiss. Most will not allow you to fuck them but more will allow you to finger them. Some will even let you rim them. A few will rim you. Sometimes it depends on the chemistry, of how they perceive you (to be nice or "clean"), and of course, their current financial situation and what you agreed with them in the bar.

Yes, you can ask the guy to spend the Day with you, but if you are eyeing the bodybuilders they may have gym training the following day. So, when they say "NO" it could be because the upcoming regional competition is in mid-July and they are serious about preparing the competition. Generally, it is likely they will stay overnight but they may need to leave after breakfast but you can arrange for them to come back after their gym or mutually agreeable time.

June 12th, 2010, 01:29
lol stop it already! you know exactly what i meant! i could have said plumber or any other job.. you gotta know the job you're getting paid to do and if you don't then get a different one..

many escorts/hookers when talking about their job say something that is very true: not everyone can do it




allieb, don't take things too literally... i don't expect a guy to react like a teenage for whom a chill is enough to pop a woody..

how's a chef who can't cook? to me it's just the same as a hooker who can't do what he/she is asked. Yes you do get bad meals when you try new restaurants but you still get a meal. I've never had a waiter come up to me and say "sorry I dunno how to boil an egg"..

Cant resist answering this one comparing whores with chefs. If the boy cant give you a hotdog then you can always settle for a chocolate donut

ThaiFan
June 12th, 2010, 01:41
After having read the thread about the proper price for offing, I'm wondering.. I take the Tawan guy back to my hotel (I understand they are more expensive..) what does the fee entitle me to exactly? Sex and buh bye? All night?


The OFF fee (250THB) you pay to Tawan bar belongs to the bar. You tip the guy separately.

Minimum tip is 1500THB these days, unless its one of the popular bodybuilders in the bar (which then it will be above that but generally 2000THB). For this minimum fee, they will be fully nude and pose at length if you are into muscle worship, and you can expect them to allow you to try arouse him through licking, stroking, and you can test the boundaries slowly. Some will respond in kind, and also let you kiss them and kiss back. They will almost allow you to masturbate them. For most guys, after they have their orgasm they will ask you if you would like to have yours, and they will masturbate you too. Once, this guy saw I was on the cusp of orgasm and proceeded to give me a full french kiss while I ejaculated which gave me the most intense orgasm for a long time. Most will lick and suck your nipples while doing so. Some good ones will even slowly go down suck you without asking, but most will pause to get a condom before sucking you off.

If you want them to fuck you, add another 500THB-1000THB depending on how satisfied you are with their service. Generally if you want to fuck them, they will throw a high number like 3000 or 4000THB mostly because they don't expect you to pay but some will actually let you do it if you say you would pay that number. Depending on your luck, and the chemistry, a few will let you finger them.

RonanTheBarbarian
June 12th, 2010, 03:49
Also, keep in mind that if the guy you want to off is taking part in one of the shows you will not be able to off him until after the show. Or I suppose if you offed him just after 8.30 he would have time to do a session with you and be back to the bar for the 10.30 show, if you were happy to make things quick.

June 12th, 2010, 20:21
Getcha Ronan! Thanks!
I will watch one show.. afterall I've never seen any in my life so it may be fun the first time around.. and as someone else suggested I may get a better idea (look) at the goods!


Also, keep in mind that if the guy you want to off is taking part in one of the shows you will not be able to off him until after the show. Or I suppose if you offed him just after 8.30 he would have time to do a session with you and be back to the bar for the 10.30 show, if you were happy to make things quick.

June 12th, 2010, 20:35
Which I could... to redirect that sum to him..


If you ask the boy, he might think your cheap and trying to avoid paying the off fee.

a447
June 12th, 2010, 21:12
I would, however, omit #8. тАЬPossibly tell them that if there is no delivery of what is agreed you also expect the off fee to be refunded.тАЭ I doubt that any bar would agree and even if they did, that they would honor the agreement.

Yes, they will give u back your off fee if he doesn't perform. A couple of years ago I offed a guy from Krazy Dragon but when he got to the hotel, there was something wrong with his ID card. Mark offered a refund, but in the end I just took another guy.
Also, at the bar across the soi from KD I offed a guy who said he would stay the night. He didn't, so I took him back to the bar and complained. They refunded my fee and I went back to KD and found someone else.

You know, it's not really such a difficult thing to do, going with a guy from a bar. As other posters have said, establish the fee BEFORE you take him with you and make sure he knows what you want and that you will withhold the fee if he doesn't perform. If in doubt, make sure he agrees in front of the mama-san.

painai2
June 18th, 2010, 16:44
I go to Tawan alot. It's almost impossible to off somebody during the show, you can but the place is packed and the guys are preoccupied with the show. Go when they open at 8:30. The guys will all be available and are just sitting or walking around. Very easy to make your pick and do your cruising at that time. Although, I've learned one thing about the Big Cock show. It might be worth waiting for that. If the guy isn't in it, it's probably because he has a small one or he's got silicon in the wrong place. One last piece of advice, ALWAYS make it clear what you want and what you're willing to pay--especially from the Tawan guys.

Geezer
June 19th, 2010, 03:02
тАЬYes, they will give u back your off fee if he doesn't perform. A couple of years ago I offed a guy from Krazy Dragon but when he got to the hotel, there was something wrong with his ID card. Mark offered a refund, but in the end I just took another guy.тАЭ

That is a rather broad statement. I know Mark and am not surprised that he would refund the off fee.

In eleven years I have had a legitimate reason to request the return of an off fee at four other bars. It was refunded only once.

That was at the old Midnight Bar. I offed the boy, returned to the Ambiance Hotel, and showed the boyтАЩs ID to the desk clerk. The desk clerk took the card, looked surprised, and said, тАЬThatтАЩs MY card; I lost it two weeks ago!тАЭ

TravellerDave
June 20th, 2010, 12:37
Theres lots of good advice here and as a regular visitor to Pattaya I start the night bearing it in mind. Inevitably a few hours later with a few beers inside me and passion taking over I sometimes make a mess of the off procedure. Failing to check the ID and making it clear that I'm going to want to top is typical for me. Mutual sucking and rimming is essential, but not guaranteed. An occasional failed experience is inevitable.
Sometimes I like the boy to accompany me to the beach and if they agree I pay an extra tip and have been known to buy him shorts or speedos.

June 21st, 2010, 02:48
On my last trip I have met some gogo boys. In discussion with the mamasan I always ask whether the boy wants to smoke (suck). Yes of course is the answer. In the room first theboy says: with condom, OK? I say no, If I want chewing gum I go to 7/11, not to a bar. Ok, I can do for you. Then they lick a bit and that is it. All the times it was a bit disappointing.
My question is how and where (in Pattaya) to find a boy who really likes to smoke (suck).

June 21st, 2010, 06:30
On my last trip I have met some gogo boys. In discussion with the mamasan I always ask whether the boy wants to smoke (suck). Yes of course is the answer. In the room first theboy says: with condom, OK? I say no, If I want chewing gum I go to 7/11, not to a bar. Ok, I can do for you. Then they lick a bit and that is it. All the times it was a bit disappointing.
My question is how and where (in Pattaya) to find a boy who really likes to smoke (suck).

Here's a surefire tip:

When you get him back to the hotel tell him to wait in the bathroom for 45 minutes till u get "ready" for him.

After 5 minutes, during which you climb into your full leather gimp suit, call him to come out.

Once he sees you ready and waiting and looking like this (below) he will be only too happy to settle for sucking your cock!!

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2359/3530749010_ed71ec3585.jpg

June 21st, 2010, 06:46
[X] TotalNewbie should go to a bisexual/gay COMING OUT GROUP or to a forum for curious little boys.

June 21st, 2010, 13:48
and you should check yourself into rehab


[X] TotalNewbie should go to a bisexual/gay COMING OUT GROUP or to a forum for curious little boys.

Beachlover
June 21st, 2010, 15:42
and you should check yourself into rehab


[X] TotalNewbie should go to a bisexual/gay COMING OUT GROUP or to a forum for curious little boys.

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