Dating Thai boys: Attention deficit hyperactivity boy
Dating Thai boys: Attention deficit hyperactivity boy
Here some selected Line chats with attention deficit hyperactivity syndrome boy (ADHS-boy) to show what short attention span he has. The only way to get him is when he wants to come and is ready to hop in a taxi or bus. All longer planning will fail.
2016/01/06(Wed)
7:43 ADHS-boy Where are you now ?
7:43 ADHS-boy Now i going to BKK
7:44 ADHS-boy i will go to khao san with you
U want to go with me for tonight B ?
8:05 Christian In Saigon. Back 13 Jan.
2016/01/09(Sat)
19:23 ADHS-boy Where are you now ?
19:31 Christian Saigon Vietnam
19:44 ADHS-boy Ohmm ok
19:50 ADHS-boy Heyy what time you come BK to room ? Next time i will go to room U
19:51 Christian 13 Jan
19:55 ADHS-boy – – ok
2016/01/11(Mon)
21:53 ADHS-boy Hello
21:53 ADHS-boy Where are you now
21:53 Christian Good evening
21:53 Christian In Hanoi, Vietnam. And you?
21:54 ADHS-boy ?
21:54 ADHS-boy In thailand now haha
21:54 ADHS-boy [Sticker]
2016/01/12(Tue)
22:20 ADHS-boy Miss
22:21 Christian Miss you too.
22:23 ADHS-boy What are you doing
22:48 Christian Packing for flight tomorrow.
23:02 ADHS-boy Okk
2016/01/13(Wed)
24:35 ADHS-boy Goodnight
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2016/01/14(Thu)
18:00 ADHS-boy Hello
18:00 ADHS-boy Where r u
18:00 ADHS-boy Now
18:49 Christian Bangkok Ladprao
18:59 ADHS-boy What time you come to room
19:00 Christian 23 or midnight. Go buy fruit on Klong Toey market 22-23
19:00 ADHS-boy Okk see you 00.00
20:37 ADHS-boy Heyy i going to room u now by Bus ?
20:38 Christian I will be back morning l midnight
20:39 ADHS-boy Oh my god
20:39 ADHS-boy [Sticker]
20:58 Christian Ladprao now, then go to Klong Toey buy fruit.
20:58 ADHS-boy You not go to room ?
20:59 Christian After market I go home
21:00 ADHS-boy Ok you at home you chat take me ok
21:02 Christian Yes
21:03 ADHS-boy [Sticker]
21:24 ADHS-boy On BTS now
21:24 Christian I’m on bus.
21:25 ADHS-boy Bts Chit Lom now
21:25 ADHS-boy Go to room u
21:47 ADHS-boy Where r u ?
21:51 Christian Wait for MRT, go to Klong Toey market.
21:53 ADHS-boy I’m on
22:01 ADHS-boy Satronu now
22:10 ADHS-boy Hello
22:13 Christian I’m at Klong Toey market.
22:15 ADHS-boy Come now TT
22:15 ADHS-boy I’m hot at door room U
(The weeks after we first met I would have rushed back to my room as soon as I realize he is really on the way, not any more.)
22:21 Christian At market, back in 1 hour.
22:31 ADHS-boy In 7 Now (7/11 near my place)
22:47 ADHS-boy Hello w r u n
(w r u n -> Where are you now. Nice abbreviation!)
(w r u n -> Where are you now. Nice abbreviation!)
22:49 Christian Going home now
22:50 ADHS-boy Okk i Wait you in 7
22:52 ADHS-boy You come to home By ?
22:52 Christian Walking
22:53 ADHS-boy Oh my god OO
22:54 ADHS-boy At klong Toey to home Really?
23:12 ADHS-boy TT
23:13 Christian Coming, 7 now
23:13 ADHS-boy Come too door
23:13 ADHS-boy I see you
That’s ADHS-boy being 1h 45 minutes early, to compensate for estimated 12 no-show and 1 day 5 h late in the course of 2015.
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2016/02/06(Sat)
20:44 ADHS-boy Hola
20:47 Christian Hello
20:49 ADHS-boy What are you doing now
20:50 Christian Bus to sanam luang
20:50 Christian And you?
20:50 ADHS-boy At to working now
20:51 ADHS-boy With freind
20:51 ADHS-boy Haha
20:51 ADHS-boy And sister
20:52 ADHS-boy ? You going
20:52 Christian Bus to sanam luang
(deliberately just copy and past from above)
20:53 ADHS-boy U going to room
20:53 Christian Bus to sanam luang
(deliberately just copy and past from above)
20:53 ADHS-boy Ohmm okkk
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2016/02/15(Mon)
21:46 ADHS-boy Holla
22:14 Christian Hello
22:15 ADHS-boy What are you doing
22:44 Christian KlonKlong toey market
22:45 ADHS-boy Ok
22:45 ADHS-boy Want to go to room you
22:46 ADHS-boy Missed Call
22:46 ADHS-boy Missed Call
22:46 ADHS-boy [Voice Message]
22:46 Christian Can
22:47 Christian Can’t talk now
22:47 ADHS-boy What time you come to roon
22:47 ADHS-boy Room
22:47 ADHS-boy Missed Call
22:47 Christian I will be back in 1 hour
22:47 Christian See you then
22:47 ADHS-boy Now i’ma here smukpakran now
22:48 ADHS-boy I will go by bus
22:48 Christian Yes
22:48 ADHS-boy Number 25
22:48 Christian Or 507
22:49 ADHS-boy I’m at room you for time 01:00
22:49 ADHS-boy You ok
22:59 Christian Ok. I’m walking back now. Duo you want too stay over night?
22:59 ADHS-boy Yes
23:00 ADHS-boy Ok i go now
23:21 Christian Home now. Wait for your.
23:41 ADHS-boy I’ma sorry christian i have to go tormmow time 21:00 tonight my mom she calling me Blak to home now i not free sorry i can’t go tormmow are you ok
23:42 Christian Ok. Good night.
23:42 X Nov2015 Sorry goodnight see you tormmow
23:42 X Nov2015 [Sticker]
Not unhappy about how that turned out. If he had come, nothing to gain, it would only inconvenience me (stay up and wait for him when I want to sleep) and cost me money. Invited him nonetheless to show my commitment. This is European thinking: adding up good deeds. But I don’t think he tracks realized and failed meetings, so I can as well tell I’m not free when a visit would inconvenience me (and that would be as little as having to wait 1 hour for him to come when I want to go to bed at midnight).
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Addendum. Couldn’t make this up. My interpretation of following chat in short: His parents have an argument. He wants to stay at my place over night, and bring his mother along. Alternatively, he needs 2000 Baht to travel with his mother to his home province. Then lowers to 700. Then loses interest.
2016/02/20(Sat)
23:21 ADHS-boy Where are you
23:21 ADHS-boy Now
23:21 Christian Silom
23:21 Christian And you?
23:21 ADHS-boy I want to go room you with mom
23:22 Christian You want to come to my room? I’m free.
23:23 ADHS-boy Yes tonight i with mom accident…??
23:23 Christian Mom?
23:23 ADHS-boy Yes
23:23 Christian What happened?
23:25 ADHS-boy Heavy solutions wiht dad now
23:26 ADHS-boy She cry
23:26 ADHS-boy She want to go out
23:26 ADHS-boy With me
23:26 Christian You want to come with your mom?
23:27 ADHS-boy Yes but i with mom Know where to go
23:28 Christian I’m in Silom. Will be home in 1 hour.
23:28 ADHS-boy Ok
23:28 ADHS-boy What do you thing
23:28 ADHS-boy Think
23:29 Christian Yes, you can stay over night.
23:30 ADHS-boy But me not sure
23:31 ADHS-boy I’ma helpless now
23:31 ADHS-boy Out of ideas
23:37 Christian I don’t understand.
23:38 ADHS-boy Christian
23:40 Christian Write in Thai please.
23:42 ADHS-boy I want money 2000 baht can you help me
I want to go to Country
23:42 ADHS-boy With mom
23:42 Christian No sorry, no money.
23:43 ADHS-boy Realy
23:44 ADHS-boy 700 baht yes or No
23:45 ADHS-boy I had the car to the countryside
23:45 Christian No money. But you can sleep in my room.
23:45 ADHS-boy But i No money
23:46 ADHS-boy No i’m in Samut Prakan
23:47 ADHS-boy Help me help me please
23:47 ADHS-boy I really TT
23:48 Christian Take bus. It’s cheap.
23:49 ADHS-boy Bus routes Now and then
(nothing more)
Haven’t heard from him since. But I’m sure he will be back sometime.
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