Are you Homophobic?

[sglad]

The replies are interesting and thankfully not homo-genous.
+Frequent;
I would like to think that we can keep this topic as one of Ideas and not of People or Events but having said that there's one kind of Event that's full of particular types of People that give us bad press- The typical Gay Pride Parade- and it's a Bad Idea.
GPPs are Top heavy with Bottoms fluttering around in tight jocks and angel wings.
The viewing public go home with the Bad Idea that effeminacy=gay.

Sticking to ideas, why is effeminacy "bad"? Going by your logic, the "good" gays are the butch ones. Where does this thinking come from and why should we adhere to it if it doesn't make sense?