You seem to think all sexuality and gender is the same regarding male to male sex.You see its not.
Would you consider paedophiles who like young boys as poofs,no i dont,i see them as different.They are not in the same category.They are in a pyschological catergory or abnormal catergory.
A bi sexual also is different as is a transexual,transvestite,and "camp" type of gay.You cant just brand someone a gay or homosexual because they are all different,regardless if its male to male sex.