Originally Posted by
sexyfrenchguy
I dont think you can have a real long term relationship with a thai boy if he works as moneyboy even he is "good heartt good mind good feeling".
You speak about love him speak about Take care, you speak about feeling he speak about survive, you speak about couple, he speak about family.
When you go your own country, what he do ? live with the money you send to him ? In the condo you pay ? drive the motorbike you pay ? wait your phone call on the mobile you pay ?
Why you want he try to find work like 7/11 for 5000 bath per month with 12 hours work per day ?
They are young, want a good life, and for them like for all the world good life mean money.
And if no take care him or no send so many money they have to do by themself, and the only way they know (and so easy) it's to find customers, maybe only for short time, but still the same moneyboy life.
they want to go disco, to go karaoke, to go to bowling, to go to see movie, and they need their friend know they have good farang. That mean more and more money all the time.
And for you even you want to believe in his words, want to trust him, want to share love, you will ask to yourself what happen if you cant send money or if you ask him no more customers, no more sex with others, and to love you for what you are and not what your wallet is big.
You can have a relationship with them, 1 year maybe 2 or 3, but what kind of life, what kind of project ?
For me to think you can have a real long term relationship with a moneyboy or to be real Boyfreind with him, you lie to yourself and you make him believe just dream.
Do same most of thai people take day by day and live it.... but no look too far.
No try to have western life or project with eastern people. and mix life and project are only hope and dream.
No so long from dream to nightmare, from smile to cry, for both of you.