"i will be staying at the mens resort in siam reap anybody stayed there? are any of he staff offable?"
In a word.. No.
The sauna/spa area gets lively for a brief period each evening, and if your looks are half decent you might get some fun there, but bear in mind that Cambodia goes to bed early - by 10pm it's dead and buried.
If you're braver than I was, tell one of the tuk tuk drivers who hang around outside that you want a boy, and report back on where they took you...