Well Raksiam,I enjoy your post,but I cant give any advice as Im not going to semi retire to Thailand for 6 years.I will be in the same position as you,living in Pattaya and looking for a boyfriend,but it seems an impossible situation. They all seem to be corrupted by the scene there.What Im wondering is how anyone living in Pattaya can have it work.I myself think I would get bored with the sex and start butterflying. My idea was to find one guy and not worry about safe sex,as my big fear is getting hpv,but Im afraid I probably already have it so maybe Ill just enjoy being a butterfly until it catches up with me and get cancer. Rocket(who is glad to see some uplifting responses to the idea of having a boyfriend in Thailand)