One of the problems I notice with many money boys turned boyfriend is that they keep assocations with those still in the scene. The average bar boy gets up at 4 to 6 pm. Goes to work at 8pm and at the end of the night 2am, they all go out for a communal dinner. Who ever had a short time pays for everyone. If there's more money, it's disco time, until 4am or until the money is gone. No concern for tomorrow.

The boyfriend has a steady source of income and the friends know that. He is forever being hit up for going to the disco, loans and emergency needs for money.

The former money boy has to make the transition from communal living to a one-on-one living arrangement that does think about tomorrow.