This is where a lot of foreigners don’t get it about Asian culture, of course he need money to support his family and himself, you are a foreigner , you are rich, it’s all about saving face, if you give him money directly, it will make him feels like he is a whore, selling his body, ( in reality he is) it is loosing face by accepting money for sex, instead of giving money directly to him, it should be done discretely, like folding the money in half ( of course you have to give him the agreed money for the time he spent with you ) and putting in his shirt or jacket’s pocket while kiss him on his cheek saying goodbye, he will most likely said he will go to the bathroom before he leave , ( of course he is in there to check how much money u gave him) if everything worked out fine, Congratulations you and him had just built up a thing they call “ TRUST” , Next time when you guys going out for food , movie or shopping. I almost can guarantee you that he will not ask you to buy things like you described here in the thread, unless you insist you want to buy it for him , unlike in western countries, we do things differently, we make things clear in advance what we want, FWB, NSA, etc etc ……Originally Posted by extronaut
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