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    Reubbing off on younger Thais / Laos?

    Not sure how to begin this... Have you guys noticed your simple presence, personality, and attitude has changed youngers Thais? I've been with my BF 9 months now. For example, when we first met he never swore, and now every third word out of his mouth is "fuck" -- "fuck him", "fucken idiot", "what the fuck?", and so on.

    That's not good. Geez dude, I'm an idiot, so please quit listening to me, kind of thing. Fucken hell, quit copying what I do, because I don't really know what the hell I'm doing. I guess I rubbed off on him in good ways too though, because he knows to give good tips now. You take care of them, they'll remeber it, and will always take good care of us when they see us, kind of thing.

    Anyway, any experices you want to share, regarding how you inadvertently changed someone's mindset and persona


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    Quote Originally Posted by cdnmatt View Post
    Anyway, any experices you want to share, regarding how you inadvertently changed someone's mindset and persona
    Frankly I can't recall fucking your current boyfriend and it's a matter of public record that your previous boyfriend fucked you over

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    The bf blames/credits me or his drinking habits! He never drank wine before knowing me and now he can't stop. Likewise he has developed a fondness for Western style food, the more expensive the better.

    Luckily he never uses the f word simply because I never use it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by francois View Post
    The bf blames/credits me or his drinking habits! He never drank wine before knowing me and now he can't stop. Likewise he has developed a fondness for Western style food, the more expensive the better.

    Luckily he never uses the f word simply because I never use it.
    Yeah, thankfully my guy doesn't even drink Coke or Pepsi, let alone alcohol. Once in a while at a restaurant he'll splurge and have an orange juice, but aside from that, he's happy with just water. Gotta admit, he's a good influence on me, because I drink more than enough for both of us.

    He's started eating pasta, but I think that's mainly because I got pissed off at him enough times. If you want the shrimp or chicken in the pasta, then eat everything. Don't just pick out the shrump, and leave the pasta sitting in the fridge, as that's rude. Go cook your own shrump then, kind of thing.

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    all i can say on the matter, i had a 750 euro parrot
    all he diod was swear like a tooper
    he even went futher than swearing
    my parrot PACO, would cuaes a roit in na empty house.
    so i dont think the problem is with them rather than you

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    Quote Originally Posted by paperboy View Post
    all i can say on the matter, i had a 750 euro parrot
    all he diod was swear like a tooper
    he even went futher than swearing
    my parrot PACO, would cuaes a roit in na empty house.
    so i dont think the problem is with them rather than you
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    Re: Reubbing off on younger Thais / Laos?

    The Thais swear a lot without us, but then usually in Thai. I understand, and it puts me off. What ugly words can come out of a cute boy's mouth! Sometimes it's so bad, I wouldn't put my dick in (a mouth that speaks so coarse).

    Quote Originally Posted by cdnmatt View Post
    I guess I rubbed off on him in good ways too though, because he knows to give good tips now. You take care of them, they'll remeber it, and will always take good care of us when they see us, kind of thing.
    You mean tips in restaurants? Disregarding the question how a blind man pays, he would probably know better where and how much to tip.

    As for who changes whom, I notice on myself that I adapt some Thai traits (and that's not meant in a positive way). I would say most Thais are resistant to advice and education and reasoning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by christianpfc View Post
    You mean tips in restaurants? Disregarding the question how a blind man pays, he would probably know better where and how much to tip.
    How does a blind guy pay? It's a pretty complicated process, but I'll do my best to step you through it.

    1.) Hand wallet to boyfriend, tell him to pay.

    End of steps. I know, very complicated. And no, if I left it up to him, he'd leave 20 baht tips here and there, if any tip at all. I tip well, because it helps, especially up somewhere like Khon Kean, because it's always the same people taking care of you. Whether it's a waitress, tuk-tuk driver, hairdresser, or whater, it's always the same people. If you tip generously, they will remember it, and take good care of you next time around.

    Quote Originally Posted by christianpfc View Post
    As for who changes whom, I notice on myself that I adapt some Thai traits (and that's not meant in a positive way). I would say most Thais are resistant to advice and education and reasoning.
    Quit being such a German. You Germans have this superiority complex to you that's bordering on insanity. I guess no real surprise though, considering you guys did start both world wars.

    My father has 100% German blood, and I barely talk to him anymore, because having a rational discussion with him is impossible. The owners of this house are a Thai-German couple, they were recently here from Germany, and had the roof fixed due to a leak. A few days later after a couple rainstorms, he came by to check in on the roof. He said right to my face, "I don't care about you, I only care about the house". Real classy, eh?

    Then again, he is German, and I'm blind and gay. If this was 74 years ago in Germany, I would have been shoved in the gas chambers twice just for that, so no real surprise.

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    Re: Reubbing off on younger Thais / Laos?

    Quote Originally Posted by cdnmatt View Post
    You Germans have this superiority complex to you that's bordering on insanity. I guess no real surprise though, considering you guys did start both world wars.
    Not replying could be misinterpreted as agreement, hence:
    both world wars were the result of complex social, political and economical situations, and Germany as the looser was pronounced the culprit by the winners.

    Germany suffered from the plague, was the playground for the Thirty Years' War, and thoroughly lost both world wars, and bounced back to world-class every time. What else than superiority can you feel?

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