got assaulted by boyfriend friends while he was cheering them...

[AsDaRa]

I think when drunk your true self shows. I think it is unlikely a drunk person would tell others to attack you if he truly loved you, cared for you. Even the fact he was able to tell others to attack also says something about him. Most drunk people are not violent, they are just a nuisance. Many many get drunk each weekend and almost none is involved in violence. So your boyfriend is a bad human being. There is evil inside him.

But in your case I understand you truly believed he loved you. You are only a few years older. If you had been 40+ I would say you are a fool to believe a 19 year old Thai boy truly loves you.

Let me guess: you are an a English teacher in Thailand?

[fountainhall]

Peer groups and peer pressure are pretty strong in Thailand. So being made to feel good amongst his peers is important to many Thais, especially young ones. And let's face it, 19 is still pretty young and he will almost certainly be more tied to his peers/friends than to you. So take the advice given by others here. Ditch him right now. Violence has a nasty habit of repeating itself. You don't need that in your life.

[latintopxxx]

..me thinks this is a troll....if hes canadian and not English speaking that leaves french....(yes I know they have heaps of other immigrants too) ...and this does not read like a frog writing english...very fishy.
Anyway reinforces my attitude...use him..pay him..and move onto fresh meat...if u fuck em twice they start behaving like a boyfriend...three times and u r practically married?!

[Manforallseasons]

Matt sounds like your relationship is important to you, be thankful your boyfriend prefers alcohol to Ya Ba.....sometimes its best to "turn a blined eye" to the occasional indescrection.

[bobsaigon2]

The occasional indiscretion? WTF is wrong with you? One more of those "occasional indiscretions" and this Matt may wind up as blind as the other Matt.

[Manforallseasons]

It is a MATTer of how important the realationship is.......and Matt should not hang out with the the boy's friends.

[justaguy]

It is a MATTer of how important the realationship is.......and Matt should not hang out with the the boy's friends.

I hang out with my boyfriend's friends and vice versa. None of those friends, or mine proceed to hitting on me or my boyfriend, let alone ten to one.

That relationship should now be over, how could the OP ever trust his boyfriend again ?

[Smiles]

I know that there has been a recent thread regarding some members accusing others of trollifying, but my god guys this opening post has the "T" word splashed all over it. In vibrant red.
The opening post is pure wind-up. Who believes this bullshit? Even Latinpoxx calls it right ... and he's Sawatdee's master go-to for those who drink at the Wind-Up Saloon.

[Manforallseasons]

I know that there has been a recent thread regarding some members accusing others of trollifying, but my god guys this opening post has the "T" word splashed all over it.

Hmmm, you think?

[latintopxxx]

man for all....fools...