Reubbing off on younger Thais / Laos?
Not sure how to begin this... Have you guys noticed your simple presence, personality, and attitude has changed youngers Thais? I've been with my BF 9 months now. For example, when we first met he never swore, and now every third word out of his mouth is "fuck" -- "fuck him", "fucken idiot", "what the fuck?", and so on.
That's not good. Geez dude, I'm an idiot, so please quit listening to me, kind of thing. Fucken hell, quit copying what I do, because I don't really know what the hell I'm doing. I guess I rubbed off on him in good ways too though, because he knows to give good tips now. You take care of them, they'll remeber it, and will always take good care of us when they see us, kind of thing.
Anyway, any experices you want to share, regarding how you inadvertently changed someone's mindset and persona
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cdnmatt
Anyway, any experices you want to share, regarding how you inadvertently changed someone's mindset and persona
Frankly I can't recall fucking your current boyfriend and it's a matter of public record that your previous boyfriend fucked you over
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The bf blames/credits me or his drinking habits! He never drank wine before knowing me and now he can't stop. Likewise he has developed a fondness for Western style food, the more expensive the better.
Luckily he never uses the f word simply because I never use it.
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all i can say on the matter, i had a 750 euro parrot
all he diod was swear like a tooper
he even went futher than swearing
my parrot PACO, would cuaes a roit in na empty house.
so i dont think the problem is with them rather than you
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paperboy
all i can say on the matter, i had a 750 euro parrot
all he diod was swear like a tooper
he even went futher than swearing
my parrot PACO, would cuaes a roit in na empty house.
so i dont think the problem is with them rather than you
Long term members may recall Hedda's pet budgie Monica
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francois
The bf blames/credits me or his drinking habits! He never drank wine before knowing me and now he can't stop. Likewise he has developed a fondness for Western style food, the more expensive the better.
Luckily he never uses the f word simply because I never use it.
Yeah, thankfully my guy doesn't even drink Coke or Pepsi, let alone alcohol. Once in a while at a restaurant he'll splurge and have an orange juice, but aside from that, he's happy with just water. Gotta admit, he's a good influence on me, because I drink more than enough for both of us.
He's started eating pasta, but I think that's mainly because I got pissed off at him enough times. :) If you want the shrimp or chicken in the pasta, then eat everything. Don't just pick out the shrump, and leave the pasta sitting in the fridge, as that's rude. Go cook your own shrump then, kind of thing. :)
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The Thais swear a lot without us, but then usually in Thai. I understand, and it puts me off. What ugly words can come out of a cute boy's mouth! Sometimes it's so bad, I wouldn't put my dick in (a mouth that speaks so coarse).
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cdnmatt
I guess I rubbed off on him in good ways too though, because he knows to give good tips now. You take care of them, they'll remeber it, and will always take good care of us when they see us, kind of thing.
You mean tips in restaurants? Disregarding the question how a blind man pays, he would probably know better where and how much to tip.
As for who changes whom, I notice on myself that I adapt some Thai traits (and that's not meant in a positive way). I would say most Thais are resistant to advice and education and reasoning.
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There is one reverse ruboff that's very common ie foreigners picking up pigeon English from Thais and then using it in conversation not alone with Thais but also with fellow foreigners.
I overheard a conversation between 2 native English speakers at a yaa dong bar recently.
It included phrases like this;
"She want to go to nightclub but I not go there because her friend that I offed already go there many time" and so on. These conversations are painful on the ears.
I have to admit though that I often speak like this to my Thai friends without realising it.
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FarangRuMak, Almost sounds like Yoda Speak.(Farangrumak, like yoda speak almost sounds. )
For some fun use this "translator".
http://www.yodaspeak.co.uk/index.php