Your all time number one go go boy.

I mentioned this in another thread but I thought it'd make a nice topic. The nostalgia thread on GB is absolutely fantastic so many thanks to him for it.

If you've had as many boys as I have picking one favourite is never going to be easy and yet one stands out. The boy is Em of Krazy Dragon. Never not smiling and a smile that could be measured in wattage. I think I offed him four times and from beginning to end he was delightful. He could converse on many topics, had a lovely body and sensual was his middle name. A true gentleman of the escort business. He's my number one. And yours?

The trouble with having been a regular in the bars stretching back almost to Noah's Ark is that I can't remember many of the names! And yes, there have been quite a few. Not sure I can name a No. 1 but certainly a few extremely pleasurable ones. I've written before about a guy who turned up in Solid for a few weeks whilst his regular bar Classic Boys was closed. He looked great, around mid-20s, spoke near fluent English, had a fabulous smile and was simply a great guy to be with. Rarely for me, I took him off first time I saw him. Whilst having drinks in my condo, we sat on the sofa and just chatted and laughed for 2 hours before getting down to the more serious business of the evening. He was a fabulous bottom.

A few years later I did see him again in Hotmale 2 where he worked for a while. The amazing thing is that when we first met, he was actually 34, married with 2 kids! Just a totally lovely guy.

Mine was also named M, he was a straight guy from Korat, handsome...affectionate...versitile. He went back to Korat...Last time I saw him he was in Pattya with a wife and child......we had been together for some time...he was a Joy!

I nominate two boys from the mid-1990s.

My all time favourite was Pong from Moonlight Bar, Pattaya, who was a really hopeless dancer - one if those who look positively embarrassed to be on stage - but was oh, so sweet. I still send Christmas and birthday cards to him in Si Saket to this day, even though he's now in his late 40s.

The second, who was also very good looking but a really good go-go dancer too, was Ya from the Sky Bar in Pattaya. He was the star of their shows (dropping hot wax on himself was his speciality!) and to this day is the only boy whose family I've gone to visit. That was in Suphanburi and the family's expert shakedown technique convinced me that I wasn't the first farang that Ya had taken home for the weekend. Nonetheless, he too leaves me with very fond memories.

My favorite was my Boyfriend.

Tell us more dear Francois! A simple 5-word reply is hardly conducive to getting the excitement level beyond the mundane. Where found, what struck your eye and what made/makes him so special will undoubtedly keep readers enthralled!

For sex, it was Tua/Tour from Pha Yao, mostly to be found in Pattaya, I think first of all at Splash. Great smooth body and eager in bed. Unfortunately, he was totally, astoundingly untrustworthy. For just companionship, there were dozens of very pleasant boys. For a perfect mix of companionship and sex: There was always something lacking in one or the other of those fields, so I never found a favorite.

So I can reply to this thread...
My frist trip to Bangkok was in 2002.
I stayed at the Tarntawan and on my first night wandered around the corner.
Across from the Tawan was a Go-Go Bar named Tomahawk.
So it was very small, just seating along one side and a raised stage along the other.
None of the guys on stage caught my eye but one standing in the back did.
I asked the Mamasan to invite him over. But the guy she produced looked similar but not the same.
I excused myself to go the Toilet and in doing so I saw the real guy who had caught my eye.
OH so embarrassing!! But I told the Mamasan the problem and the Guy of my eye joined me for a drink and then a trip back to the hotel. In talking with him, I found out the first guy was his younger Brother... WOW!!
Anyway, he was a dream. Humpy, hot, hugh cock and great in bed.
We spent most that week together. And we meet up on several later visits.
He had two young sons that he was raising himself. I enjoyed taking him and them on trips to Ayutthaya. And him on trips to Pattaya and Chang Mai.
NOW, he is 36 and works as a waiter at Dream Boys. Last time we meet he had to take me down the soi to introduce me to his two grown sons. One working at Maxis and the other at another Beer Bar. Both STR8, married, and kids.
The experience was wonderful and I will never forget my Guy from Tomahawk!!

No number one.

Out of 100 boys, 80 are so-so, so I don't take them again. 10 are poor, so I wouldn't recommend them to friends. 10 are good. Some are even good the second or third time we meet, but then it gets boring or problems start. Some I desperately want to meet again, but for various reasons we can't get together again. One boy I met again after 3 or 4 years, but from experience changed from great to so-so.

Two boys (not gogo or host or massage, maybe freelancer) I spend a week with, but then problems started.

It's a perrenial in Pattaya. The boy who you have such happy memories of reappears and looks like he's spent the last few years taking drugs and spending time in prison. Which he has. And then not only do you not want to go with him but you have to issue an eviction notice from your want bank.

I really don't know why anybody is disappointed when any particular go go boy turns out not to be long-term relationship material (I use the term loosely), or proves untrustworthy, ends up on drugs or in prison, or even dead by way of suicide or misadventure.

I'd humbly suggest that it requires a certain type of boy to voluntarily become a prostitute in the first place (clearly I'm not talking about forced/coerced prostitution - which I don't believe we see within the mainstream "gay scene"). Then the sordid nature of the occupation coupled with the daily close association with a peer group who all have the same chaotic lifestyles, must take its toll.

If one in 100 of these boys emerges well-adjusted from that kind of lifestyle I'd be surprised.

All *we* can do is try to be as nice to each boy as is warranted/deserved and hope that for a few brief minutes or hours we temporarily improved his situation rather than made it worse.

If anything more than that results from the initial encounter, consider it a very great bonus and not a disappointment if and when it falls apart.

Even though once in a blue moon it happens, the chance of finding your life partner from the ranks of rentboys must be so small that the Lord himself could not find him with a telescope.

oh wow...how weird that what i thought at 1st would be a totally boring topic has suddenly turned a corner....
christian...we havent actually disagreed much in the past...asshole...we have...but today we have common ground...agree that out of 100 there will be maybe 5 stunners....some so good...in such high demand that I wasnt prepared to pay the asking price of 5K
Then the looks faded a bit...but the body was still there and so was the arrogance...and I was in with a chance as the demand was no longer there...he was no longer mr no.1....and I broke my cheapo rules and shelled out 1500 and had a good time using him...and use him I did...then 4 months later on my next trip hes there...looking like death warmed up...and smelling like it.....with absolutely no takers...he was begging...but no one was willing....and I've been back several times since and havent seen him yet

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I'd humbly suggest that it requires a certain type of boy to voluntarily become a prostitute in the first place (clearly I'm not talking about forced/coerced prostitution - which I don't believe we see within the mainstream "gay scene"). Then the sordid nature of the occupation coupled with the daily close association with a peer group who all have the same chaotic lifestyles, must take its toll.

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I would rather say the opposite. To become a prostitute and especially work Farang, there must be some openness and sense of adventure. Most Thai boys are shy and don't want to leave their comfort zone, getting on stage in underwear is a big step not everyone will take. Once in the scene, it's probably detrimental, mentally and physically.

For Burmese, Cambodian and Lao money boys working in Thailand, my experiences have been positive throughout, sexually and personally. While you can take any Thai boy out of the farm and put him on the stage (lured by friends or family, and guided by them), these foreign boys have to travel in a different country (whereas many Thai boys I know wouldn't find their way within Bangkok from their place to my place). Vietnamese boys is a different story, told elsewhere multiple times.

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Even though once in a blue moon it happens, the chance of finding your life partner from the ranks of rentboys must be so small that the Lord himself could not find him with a telescope.

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Wrong scottish-guy! Not only myself, but other farang I know, have found a life partner, or at least long term, from a go-go bar or otherwise.

What's the ratio Francois?

I really don't see how I'm "wrong" - I allowed for the possibility but expressed scepticism at the chances

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much as it annoys me I gotta agree with scotty and asshole....the gogo boy frame of mind is not compatible with long term relationships.

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Originally Posted by latintopxxx

...I gotta agree with scotty and asshole....

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Are you accusing me of talking out of it?

You wouldnt be the first.

Have to agree also with Christian and Latin. Most boys I off are just so so. More on the passive side, than active. They do what you expect, but only the minimum. You even have boys who are almost 100% passive. You cuddle, they cuddle back a little bit, but without much enthusiasm, you kiss and they kiss back, but you sense it is not with passion, etc.

But indeed there are boys who are totally into it. Very active. Taking initiative. Kissing passionately and you sense the enthusiasm. But they are exceptions. For most it is a job, I am sure most do not really feel sexually attracted to 45+ year olds. So it is understandable. Don't tell me most of your offs are active, taking initiative and enthusiastic in bed.

Regarding Vietnamese boys most refuse to bottom. At least the ones I wanted to off. So I didn't off them in the end. In Fresh boys in Soi Twilight one Vietnamese boy told me all Vietnamese there are not bottom. But Thai, Lao and Cambodia do botttom.

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then 4 months later on my next trip hes there...looking like death warmed up...and smelling like it.....with absolutely no takers...he was begging...but no one was willing....and I've been back several times since and havent seen him yet

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Maybe there was a clear reason he looked like death!!
Hope you played safe...

Perhaps the idea of going with Latin made death the preferred option. Works for me.

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Originally Posted by scottish-guy

I really don't see how I'm "wrong" - I allowed for the possibility but expressed scepticism at the chances

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If the Lord with a telescope couldn't find them, I would say that is more than skepticism!

As far as the ratio, I have not done any methodical studies, however I can speak for myself and know a number of other farang who have met and kept Mr. Bar/Rent/Money Boy. Maybe as high as 50 %. Perhaps that is due to the genre of farang I associate or maybe because we have big telescopes?

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Originally Posted by fountainhall

Tell us more dear Francois! A simple 5-word reply is hardly conducive to getting the excitement level beyond the mundane. Where found, what struck your eye and what made/makes him so special will undoubtedly keep readers enthralled!

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It was my first trip to Thailand; my first visit to Pattaya; my first go-go club in Pattaya; and my first off with le petit prince, that was 17 years ago and still number 1.

Felicitations, Francois.

Fountainhall asked for more detail Francois - but you didn't really give any.

So not only is he none the wiser, he's not even better informed.

:p

I am afraid I must insist upon methodological studies Francois. I won't accept sloppy academic work.
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Originally Posted by scottish-guy

Fountainhall asked for more detail Francois - but you didn't really give any.

So not only is he none the wiser, he's not even better informed.

:p

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Oh, oh, you mean something like for a little prince, he wielded a magnificent sword,befitting a mighty knight.


In reality, he was more angelic than princely albeit a touch of the devil in him.