I've slept with him twice and so regardless of genuine request or not he's not my responsibility. End of.
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I've slept with him twice and so regardless of genuine request or not he's not my responsibility. End of.
Good decision !
End of the story.
I didn't say to ask the hospital for the invoice so I'll re-phrase my answer to make it clearer - get a copy of the invoice from the hospital he's already paid from himJust as spies and others who value their privacy practise disinformation. It's a survival technique
At one time I was on a friendly basis with a Thai boy who repeatedly asked for money regarding medical issues plus travel money. His friends told me he was sick and in the hospital but nothing specific thus I was very skeptical. His last requests were two, one to leave the hospital to return to Pattaya followed by a second request for money to return home to mama.
I did send money for him to come to Pattya but none to return back home.He died a few weeks later. His name was Lucky but his luck ran out.
Thus not all requests are bogus.
There are very few boys who I trust that much that I would send reasonable amounts of money, and indeed last year there was one who asked for 1000 Baht for hospital for his brother (who I suspect is his boyfriend, but as both of them are my type and we had threesomes, I don't care) which I sent him and shortly later got a picture of the bill.
For me, boys ask for money long before I fall in love. About one per year gets me to the stage that I would call enamored.
You guys are a bunch of cold hearted users...make a crocodile seem perfectly cuddly....just use the boy and throw him aside....shameless...he's a human..have some respect
I got the "I have motorbike accident" line once. Replied with "Oh no, I must come see you. What hospital you in and what room number? I come now."
Funny thing you know, he never ever replied.
While not all requests are bogus, some can be inflated. I'm aware of someone in a similar situation to you who over the course of a year sent something in excess of half-a-million baht to cover the "hospital expenses" of a lad he knew. The lad eventually died, and what he had was incurable (full-blown AIDS) but according to the lad - and eventually his family were all caught up in the demands for money for one or other exotic treatment - the hospital needed "only" 50,000 baht or so (that was the average demand) for some new treatment and all would be OK
I knew a Thai boy for maybe 5 years. He was a very good friend, and although he wasn't a "boyfriend", I had been to his home and met his family. He called me once when I was back home, asking me for money because he was sick. He was a dancer at the Venue, and told me he had to stop dancing because he was getting too thin. I didn't ask him enough questions. I sent him the money. He soon died. That was a few years ago, and I still think about it. IF ONLY I had asked him more questions. Could me going to Thailand have helped him? I'll never forgive myself for not being more inquisitive.
Moral to the story: Don't assume the Thai boy is lying. (I didn't, but like I said, I didn't ask enough questions)