Straight Thai Bottom Guy

I know what you mean, though not exactly sure on the bottom part they are willing to play. I always use that as sort of a line that delineates gays vs straights with the guys I've taken home.

I am totally attracted to the straight acting types of gays and straight guys in particular, as far as their personalities and appearances go. I don't want a fem boy, a ladyboy, a boy that carries a little purse or boys that have girl-like salon haircuts suited for a rave or punk concert rather than just an everyday 'boy next door' look. I think I trace this to being in love with so many of my straight friends in high school. If I want a girl, I'd get the real thing- not some pale imitation. When I want a guy, I want a guy that looks and acts like one.

As for the bottom part, I think that many straight guys (and I know a LOT of them) in the game just accept that being penetrated, while unpleasant, pays the bills. Also, when I've ever gotten a straight offed, and they don't bottom, you'd be surprised how much they love cumming with a finger in their anus. They seem to all know THAT way to enjoy their interaction with a client.

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[Pet]

My feelings are also: if I would like a girl I would have sex with a girl. But I like men, therefore I like te have sex with boys/men who look like men and not half/half. Of course I don't say somtething wrong about guys who prefer more femin boys or even ladyboys. But is nothing for me.
I think that being bottom or top is not only something of being gay. Nobody is born as a top or a bottom. Every man, gay or straight, can enjoy the feeling of beeing fucked. But for most of the straight-ones it is not macho and therefore a taboo. I would say: if you relax you can enjoy. And I think every top can 'learn' te be a bottom. Learn to enjoy. an sit aslways nice to change. It depends of the situation and the partner. Don't you think?
Pet

[latintopxxx]

Interesting post, been coming to Thailand (mainly BKK, Pattaya and Phuket) on a regular basis for the last 4 years and have always been amazed/impressed by the flexibility of the Thai sexuality and willingness to shift goalposts in order to earn a living.

Have found brothers and father/son combinations working in the same bar, straight guys with families bottoming, anything for a dollar or two.

Only other place that compares is Brazil where there seems to be a very high proportion of bisexuals.

Even find some situations a total turn on, there is a Jomtien massage guy who massages on the beach and often has his small kid and wife hanging around and yet for an extra 300 will bottom...whilst his wife waits patiently outside .....

The short cute butch boy that always bottoms at xboy on BKK (the gogo bar with the annoying DJ that keeps interrupting)...been told that he is straight and has kids...yet gets ridden like a pony all over the place by a very butch/rough looking top....who incidentally I have offed and topped !!!...don't u just love the place...

[Brad the Impala]

don't u just love the place...

Yes, but not in the way that you do.

[latintopxxx]

Brad...explain????
I assume that the cloning process hasn't overtaken us whilst we were peering into our beers....obviously we are turned on by different situations/things/factors.....thats why life is interesting...

I can't, for the life of me, see how it advantages ANYONE, ANYWHERE to not allow themselves to enjoy any and all kinds of sexuality available to them. Why shouldn't a guy allow himself to enjoy being topped? Why shouldn't a guy like fucking another one? And blowjobs...who doesn't like one?? Any one who watches Japanese 'gay' porn can see how much more open to anal and oral stimulation the Japanese straight boys are. They just love sex,PERIOD, to overgeneralize, but they have always been culturally set that way (here comes GF!!).

I actually totally believe that our true sexual default setting is to enjoy any kind of sex with anyone, but on a sliding scale. The Thais just don't seem to put a lot of effort into loading on a lot of societal guilt about variants of sexual enjoyment. Now Brazil, with it's heavily Catholic population, makes me wonder. Is it driven by the tribal parts of the country that aren't as well educated or well to do? Driven by pockets of poverty, prevalent in the past that gave rise to gay prostitution? Interesting.

[CHAOTOU]

Even find some situations a total turn on, there is a Jomtien massage guy who massages on the beach and often has his small kid and wife hanging around and yet for an extra 300 will bottom...whilst his wife waits patiently outside ....

Care to share whom you are talking about latino? Name, description?

[latintopxxx]

Brazil ..Catholic??? Maybe nominally they pay lip service to the Church...but my experience is that it must be the horniest nation/people on earth.
I holiday there once a year, start off in Sao Paulo, stay in an area called frei caneca (commonly referree to as gay caneca) and struggle to walk the 500 m to the shopping center without hooking up...only thing you have to watch out for is underage guys, they mature fast ands sure know what to do, I have never been threatebed/black mailed but it is best to check as even 15 year olds are shaving and hung like horses.
Crusing happens all day, everywhere and the saunas are Ok,but best boys are rent. Best is crusie club labarinthio ..brilliant..wall to wall boys eager to play...for no pay!
After S.Paulo move onto Rio where the action is on the beaches (hook up on beach...drag number back to room) and at the night clubs, real good clubbs with strip shows and live fuck shows...without the Thai acrobatics...usually on a stage or all of a sudden the show will start on the dance floor.
Usually end up in Bahia, north east Brazil, lots of poverty so literally hundreds of rent boys...but also some hornyboys on the beach wanting to get off.

Don't know what they put in the water in Brazil, but seems like there is a huge percentage of guys willing to cross the gay line just to get off....lots love anal play...maybe its the weather...

But apologies, know I have strayed off the subject.

But apologies, know I have strayed off the subject.

Not at all. Okay, I'm sold. What airline should I book and what city should I concentrate on after Rio and before Bahia? And I promise to watch out for the underage crowd.

(Surfcrest, might bump into you there! lol)

[Surfcrest]

I think that being bottom or top is not only something of being gay. Nobody is born as a top or a bottom.

No, I would tend to disagree. You donтАЩt have to go far to see that in the real gay world (Not commercial Thailand) many gay men specifically identify themselves as Top, Bottom or Versatile. Most gay dating sites indicate which members prefer what role rather than what they are capable of. IтАЩm not sure what the percentages are from these sources as to how many are what, but there are enough that specifically indicate Top or Bottom to assume gay men have specific preferences. The same becomes cloudy in Thailand, because of the sizable population of straight guys in the demographic for financial reasons only.

If youтАЩve studied any Freud, youтАЩd know that he wrote quite a bit on anal stimulation in respect to the erogenous zones. Kinsey suggested that there isnтАЩt gay or straight, but rather a spectrum with people falling anywhere in between the two ends. In some countries there are no laws against homosexuality, not because they are open minded but rather because тАЬgayтАЭ never occurred to them beyond the katoey factor.

With straight boys I imagine you could find boys looking to bottom for a number of reasons, anal stimulation, inability to get erect with a man, wanting to save their virility for their straight partner(s), lack of penis size, a nice ass, money. With so many straight boys in the mix, they canтАЩt all be tops just as the renters canтАЩt all be bottoms. Surely there are feminine boys out there that would prefer to be tops sure as men looking for a feminine boy to top them. Would they do well in the commercial Thai scene? Perhaps not, but not every gay Thai man comes running to the city or to Pattaya to become a prostitute. Many of the drag queens (not katoey) I know are quite masculine and are tops. One Asian transsexual prostitute that I know makes most of his money topping straight men.

LifeтАЩs a big mixing pot, with hormone imbalance thrown in for good luck. If it was as easy as straight / gay or top / bottom, everyone could possibly be happy.